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Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Pusyiter(m): 10:19pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Let's not lose the subject matter We are talking of engagement not just a road side relationship that failed. 2 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 10:23pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Pusyiter:Do you have any? 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
LordKO: So therevare still rich and good women. Please connect me to her I need quality woman like her. I only meet hungry women as the full for this nairaland. 2 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
Antibrutus pocohantas na true say somebody break ihm engagement with anoda woman in oda to marry you? |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
some women juju dey stronger dan devil himself. Antibrutus who be your juju man? |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by MisterMan123456: 8:24am On Apr 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Yes, I really needed someone to help curb my excesses then, cos I was on a spiralling jamboree of fun fun and more fun. No limits. Would come back home every night by 3am dead drunk and flying high. If she wasn't with me she would request for suya and a drink. Shikena! What kind of marriage would that have been? My wife changed me, to the new responsible me. No late nights no excess drinking, 2 bottles max, and not on a daily basis. My wife also taught me how to control my finances, not that one that didn't care how the money was spent. |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Bossjakande: 8:38am On Apr 28, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:hmmm have u Eva be in love |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:05am On Apr 28, 2019 |
MisterMan123456:Yea I understand you. I pray she meets someone who likes her for who she is. 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:08am On Apr 28, 2019 |
LordKO: Man! Son of a bitch. You're courageous. |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:11am On Apr 28, 2019 |
Guest007: Wow. You write well. |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:17am On Apr 28, 2019 |
MisterMan123456: Permit me to say, you're but a wayward fellow. 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Ayotemide(f): 9:18am On Apr 28, 2019 |
Not engaged but I would like to seek clarity. I was in a pseudo-relationship once, we never finalised on the nature of our relationship but I seemed to love him senseless and felt whatever connection we had was crazy. I felt secure and insecure at the same time..in the 3rd year it came crashing like a pack of cards and I blamed it on our inability to truly define what we meant to one another. It still hurts but I had to wonder for the longest time if I was to blame for the 'inconclusive' way we panned out. Did it all happen in my head? |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by kense88: 10:08am On Apr 28, 2019 |
candlewax:clap back of the year 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by kense88: 10:18am On Apr 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:You must be wondering, what exactly do men want |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 10:30am On Apr 28, 2019 |
Guest007: Lol. Don't mind some of these people. The concerned lady understands better, yet some bumpkins are here yapping trash. Even up to this very moment, she still has an unrestricted access to one of my bank cards, and we see and communicate almost every day. She knows that in me she has someone who can stand for her in all conditions, except having her as a wife. Perhaps, because I said among her other good attributes she was benevolent to me, they thought it was about money. lol. Yes, she has money in abundance, but I neither for one day exploit her nor set out to eat from her. So, if truly I was evil and opportunistic she wouldn't have wished to have me remain permanently in her life. Besides, I neither wasted her time nor did she. We started in a position of mutual convenience and it was spontaneous. 13 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 10:32am On Apr 28, 2019 |
kense88: Lol. That can only be so for a mentally parochial entity like you. Bumpkin. 8 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 11:14am On Apr 28, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Some of us, despite being irreligious, have gift of divination and clairvoyance which usually make it possible for us to see what the future holds for us and those around and dear to us. So, going against the rule even after personally receiving several warnings always end up in a catastrophic manner no matter how sweet the present is. One who's attuned with his or her subconscious shouldn't be caught making some needles costly mistakes. 11 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 28, 2019 |
kense88: Like they know... 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 11:43am On Apr 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Milady, believe you me, some of us do. But going against one's subconscious isn't palatable. Oh, I forgot, you're neither religious nor spiritual. Lol. For more information on how to be attuned with your subconscious, dial. . . 5 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 28, 2019 |
LordKO: Yea, I understand that bit and I think you took the best decision. I made that post because; I have seen guys here say no man ever wants a "controlling" woman. But then, I have met men who love their women assertive, albeit with reverence. Lol, you remember correctly. I am not into all that mumbo jumbo 2 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Biglittlelois(f): 12:30pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
LordKO: I just have to probe further because you and her have unrestricted access to each other going by the bank cards and all, I know this type of relationship all too well, how do you think she feels/will feel when you are in a serious relationship? Do not say she is/will be good with it cos she says and shows that, she may be crying in her closet knowing you are able to fall in love with someone else other than her....... 4 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 12:44pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: She's both altruistic and conscientious - a true independent/strong-minded woman - so I know what she can do and what she can't do at any given time either in my presence or absence. 6 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Biglittlelois(f): 12:45pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
LordKO: Smh!!! What a complex relationship. |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by MisterMan123456: 1:57pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
Freehuman: I used to be a very wayward fellow for so many years till I met my wife. I've done things I'm not proud of. But all that's in the past now. Thanks to making the right choice for a wife. 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by MisterMan123456: 2:00pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
MisterMan123456: We all need checks and balances |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 4:41pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: why he address you with honour "Milady"? i am curious to know because i know that men for the forum not like you much |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Biglittlelois(f): 6:02pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:36pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: That means you are ready to mingle, if yes let me help connect you to a destiny changer. |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by kense88: 10:45pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
LordKO:Yet my parochial mentality can spot the fact that your getting schooled in art of trash talk. Stop been a sour loser and say something better dickhead. |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
Theglobalman:Maybe you should stop looking for women on Nairaland for a change. 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 12:12am On Apr 29, 2019 |
LordKO:LordKO, I may not be entirely familiar with the word true man but without fail I believe you are one. Some asked why couldn't you just fall in love with her? Haha like you could force it, even if you could would it last till forever? Some asked you why did you propose knowing how you feel? Well I doubt I can imagine what your answer would be haha...and then we have the bumpkins...Funny dudes. The fact that you did not deceive such a genuine and elegant woman shows your upright standing. I support the choice you made though I don't reckon you need my support. To those that oppose your decision I wonder if deceiving her feels like the right choice to them. Except one is placed in such a situation they'd probably never understand how hard such a decision is and most would make the wrong one. I reckon the reason why I can relate to you is because I've found myself in such a situation albeit down-scaled. I had to question myself: Should I just be with her out of pity and not break her heart despite leading her on, which would still inevitably break her at some point or should I just tell her how I feel? Well I did, I told her I can give her everything else be it a support, a shoulder to lean on or just the fact that there's someone who'd always care 100 for her but not a relationship. Well, it wasn't up to a proposal so I don't suppose I have the right to share the actual story. Way to go man...I respect you. 7 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Bossjakande: 6:13am On Apr 29, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:hmmm why did u guys brake up. |
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