99.9% of your so called men of God dont respect themslves. We have heard a lot of disturbing stories about many of them and you are expecting people to respect, can you respect a man that fk your wife behind your back? Church is just like business centre this day only if you want to deny it.
Sorry for my advice,go home ask the people uncharged of d idol what is attached to u by d idol,then ask if there's anything they can do to take the spare of you and pay them off.gv what is caseris for casaris and what is for God for God
this is very easy case to handle if truly you believe in God. pray against any foundational spirit from your grandma side that's affecting you. its common that most of what our parent did amd thought they were helping is actually killing many people today especially those roaming out of ignorance. if you cant handle it alone go for deliverance. there are alot behind this that you need to know about. I will advice you get closer to God also. it is well.
I understand your explanation - what about the second job you quit? there wasnt another job lined up nor a business to start yet you quit - you hadnt started a business nor even bought the car last year but you were busy settling family issues.
You need to have a plan - stay focused on your plan - work hard and persevere - seek a mentor in business - go to the any of the barracks/banks in Abuja and tell them you want to work as a driver - Banks may require more background checks on you The Military officers may employ you to drive their wives/families - ----- Bear in mind, alot of them are very rude and uncouth - probably worse off than your first madam - its worth the shot!
Help if u want to help and stop challenging him on his past decisions ..
Daviddson: Man, if you really want to help him, pls do and forget the negative comment of a strang er that is not related to him. Don't visit the sin of X on Y.
Thank you jare my brother, I don't know why some ppl would still be behaving as kids. What one fun- seeking fellow said should not discourage you from helping. I even question ur motive for helping.
tytachile: tis guy needs serious divine help all motivational speakers hold ur peace please. my brother I empathize with u but pity and self pity is not what u need right now! thank God for Mr Kunleweb the first person to comment, he has preempted me already but in addition to his advice and prayer points I want u to with all seriousness cut ties with any form of spiritual gathering or church that does not take generational curses/limitations , ancestral alters, monitoring spirits from your village seriously they always quote 2Corinthians 5:17 for u ignorantly forgetting that Jesus also has nativity and that the battle ground is in the mind. please if u need quick turn around distance urself and locate a a fire and judgemental based prayer church like mountain of fire the most prominent of them all but there smaller churches like that. don't misquote me grace has done it all but check your life are u doing good, instead of healing and delivering others the opposite is the case. so take heart and do the needful! and their yoke upon u shall be broken.
Thanks
Although I'm surprised despite 32,000 views I haven't seen the root of the op's problem. Discussed
The OP has a strong calling and this is the epicentre of his issues. As long as the calling remains and he doesn't know how to handle it, God help.
Let me put it this way, the deliverer must be held captive and must fight to break out, after then the deliverer can be a tool for deliverance for other captors.
A substantial part of the man's problem is the call of G. O. D on his life advertising him to tough challenges so he stands to fight and conquer, and with the lessons he garner he helps other people deep into the future.
This level of warfare is not at the level of. A beginning or intermediary Christian.
Oem18: Go to scoan Synagogue church of all nation's. You will be delivered and all your needs will be met . In Lagos State. Dont worry about transport or feeding it will all be covered go now it doesn't have to be a sunday.
Of all the advice so far, this is just the best. Pls follow this advice and your life will change not only your own life but the generational curses will be broken. Don't mind ppl saying u don't need deliverance, could it be ordinary that your grandparent lost all their children and no one is alive ? Could it be a mere coincidence that u have no uncles , Aunties etc ? Don't mind what ppl say about Synagogue Church Of All Nation , if all " jealous " Great Men of God oppose him, thank we have few like Iginla and propjet Jeremiah that endorsed him as a true servant of God coupled with revelations even we have had about his genuinty. If the man can locate u, he will deliver u spiritually and financially and if he discovers u have a calling , he will impart you heavily and your life is transformed totally. Just go with all ruggedity and determination, he will certainly help u, if he did not locate u, create a scene like the blind Bathemaus. Try this bro, this is another short cut .
Although I'm surprised despite 32,000 views I haven't seen the root of the op's problem. Discussed
The OP has a strong calling and this is the epicentre of his issues. As long as the calling remains and he doesn't know how to handle it, God help.
Let me put it this way, the delivered must be held captive and must fight to break out, after then the deliverer can be a tool for deliverance for other captors.
A substantial part of the man's problem is the call of GPS on his life advertising him to tough challenges so he stands to fight and conquer, and with the lessons he garner he helps other people deep into the future.
This level of warfare is not at the level of. A beginning or intermediary Christian.
Op, here is another sensible advice , this man is like looking at d source of ur problem in the mirror. U can't have a great call of God upon ur life and u want life to be like bread and butter. If at the end of the day u went to Scoan or wherever and the problem still remains, just know God is up to something with u.
dungburu: Op, here is another sensible advice , this man is like looking at d source of ur problem in the mirror. U can't have a great call of God upon ur life and u want life to be like bread and butter. If at the end of the day u went to Scoan or wherever and the problem still remains, just know God is up to something with u.
Lol @ looking at the source of the problem like in a mirror. You have a way with words my brother.
I was even going to offer him a 40k a month job and an accommodation till he stands his feet. But since you all see the worst in people, I've decided to njot have anything to do with him at all
You're just a scammer trying to prey on his desperation.
You're just a scammer trying to prey on his desperation.
I agree no problem. Thank you Sir.
The word of G. O. D says test all things holding fast to the truth as the spirit of G. O. D bears witness with the truth.
I'm as much as I don't want him to contact me privately doesn't imply I don't want to point him in the direction he may find answers.
For God will send His word and His word will bear resonance in the soul of the Seeker testifying to the Information conveyed.
So why am I persecuted so badly if the truth can be discerned personally. People have said go to SCOAN, I personally mentioned go to any deliverance church, have I said come to me?
I have never defended any word spoken by me as for the Lord since I was born and won't start today. I'll simply state what the Lord says and let the Holy spirit in the person work upon the word.
sacx: I have read this thread with dismay at the level of ignorance being brandished by even supposed men of God. So you want to go to God in prayer and start chanting "every demonic personality in my father's house" . Please be specific, who is your father, God or Satan?
Listen! There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. I tell you the truth, I lie not; if you are a believer, you DON'T need deliverance! Deliverance from what? Have you not read, if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature? Or that your life is his with Christ in God? How then can these so called demonic personality have your life/destiny at ransom. It would imply invading God to have access to your life. Impossicant!
"Oh but can't you see my experiences, how that things are not working well for me". Let me tell you, the only stronghold putting you down is in your mind. Though saved, you still have your mind unrenewed, and can't possibly see how that Satan is lying flat at your feet. You may not even need prayer to get you out of this. What you need is an accurate knowledge of your identity; of who you have become because of the finished work of Christ. You are the visible image of the invisible God! You are his manifest presence! You are righteous! You are holy as he is!
Shift your mindset and let this truth be ingrained in your mind. This is the reality of everyone that have been baptized into Christ. Do you even understand what it means to be baptized into Christ? You are Christ! You are immortal! This is your reality; take it up!
In other aspect concerning your business, someone already pointed that out. You simply lack business acumen. You don't need to become a believer in order to succeed in business, neither do you experience success in business because you are a believer! There are laws that govern the universe with regards finance. Even a child of darkness can take advantage of it and profit from it. Do you know why Jesus at one point told his disciples to make friends with children of mammon? This is it!
Like someone suggested, get a job and be wise with your spendings. That's what you need. And do not make the mistake of opening a church without being specifically sent. We already have too many outreaches whose founders don't even understand what redemption is all about. I'll pray for you. Peace.
You must be a motivational speaker... Lol. Christ Embassy Things... May God help us. Sorry o, if I offend u. Kai, different mindset in this world . May God help us.
You have experience in Restaurant or Buka Or Food Business. Let’s start the business together. You fail many times, it’s time to pass many times. Be positive, stay positive and think positive. If you are ready, we can start the planning right away. I don’t need any dine. Let’s hit d street and hustle. We will cook good and sweet food, at a busy place and people will locate our hustle. No need to talk too much Brother. If you ready make we start , we go open a separate thread on nairaland for the business updates, plans , start up and all the routines daily. No dulling oh.
dungburu: You must be a motivational speaker... Lol. Christ Embassy Things... May God help us. Sorry o, if I offend u. Kai, different mindset in this world . May God help us.
Motivational speaker ? Nah. In fact, I personally detest motivational talks. And I have never at any point identified with Christ embassy, though I am not oblivious of the depth in Pastor Chris' teachings. He is a father, and I honour him.
If what I had written there sounds new to you, you should hold your Pastor responsible for not feeding you with the right nutrient for growth. A lot of people desire spiritual growth but don't have an idea of what they are to grow up to look like. Christ is the image that we are, and are to grow into. We do this by seeing ourselves as he is. What you behold, you become.
And no, I'm not offended by your submission. You are loved.
PSTEMMA1960: A Dying Soul Needs Ur Urgent Advice B4 It's 2 Late.
Good evening my good people of nairaland..hope everyone is doing fine?
don't know the right section to post this but I think i'll get mature response here...
Note: the post is going to be very long, but pls read to the end, I just want to pour out my heart to get an answer to some issues about my life.
My Name is Emmanuel born December 25-1991 from isiala mbano local government area of Imo state. My grandparents gave birth to 11 children, as I type now all 11 of them are dead, none of them married b4 death, my dad was the only one that married.....
My dad died December 25 1997 and my mum died in the year 2000... it hasn't been easy since then.....my mum's people rejected us saying that my dad did not legally married my mum...
my 2 sister are in Lagos now (married with children) I came to Abj in the year 2006 with a woman that owns a restaurant at area3 (my aim then was to save some money and go back to the village and start doing okada)
after working there for 2 years I was able to raise some money (my salary then was 3k) when I told the woman that I wanted to go, she asked me not to do so, that she really wants to help me...(I was happy) she asked me to go and learn how to drive with a promise of buying a car for me on higher purchase.
after the driving school no car, she sacked their driver and I became their driver (1k was then added to my salary) I didn't complain I waited till December again, I told her that I want to go, she now explain that I must drive her for like 4 good years b4 she can buy the car, i lost interest immediately. .
then to give my my 3 years salary became a problem (I was telling her to save it for me because i was naive then)
the woman did plus and minus money for driving school, shortage of beer and other stuffs....i was left with only 1500 after 3 years of my hard labour.....I had no option but to carry my Ghana must go bag and start sleeping with Hausa guys outside. ..
that wasn't still enough the woman arrested me that her life was in danger because she has sacked me.....police asked my to sign an undertaken that if anything should happen to her I'm responsible which I did.....after 3 days I was released. .
I was still sleeping outside..... so many other experiences...but the last one was in Asokoro hospital canteen.....my salary then was 15k I was able to save 270k there was an Alhaji that was always coming there to eat almost everyday then "mr Haruna" there was a sallah period that he even dasshed me 20k.
so one evening I met the man he was telling me that he doesn't like the nature of my job, that I should give him my C.V for a better Job...when I told him my qualifications he was not impressed ..
then on my own i went to him after one week that since he is already willing to help me that he should assist me in getting a car. ..he said it was a minor thing, that his brother a custom officer at zone3 was in charge of auctioning......I told him how much I had, he said he was going to add it up to make it 500k I went to Oceanic back then and withdrew the 270k gave to him. ....till today I didn't set my eyes on the man ..
it was not 2 long our madam employed a new staff, David from Cross river state......in less than one week the guy ran away with the money that our madam kept with me (she has been keeping money with me close to 2 years) to buy drinks and chicken the following day....87k. I had to work and pay her back...... after that I decided not to work again .....
in 2011 December 31st I gave my life to Christ and started going to church.....
because of my zeal and commitment I was ordained a minister in 2012, the following year as a pastor.... in 2015 I was sent to a state to open a branch which I went.... in less than 6 months I was having close to 74 members....
but the offering was not much, I pleaded with the head qtrs to give me time let the place grow numerically first. but they refused and closed down the branch.....(I was sad, so I left the church in 2016)
I tried driving work I always have issues, if I get a car today the same night I'll hear audible voice telling me that I won't succeed unless I come back and serve them in the village...(my grand mum was an idol worshiper she was always going to the native doctors meetings with me when I was 4-7 years)
Right now things have gone worse for me, no food no clothes no house no job....... stange dreams I am even tired of praying......
I am loosing my mind and sleep as if I am running mad, I always ask am I going to die like my uncles without any achievement...... I haven't seen my only brother since 7 years.....i'll always think that this year things would be better but it will turn out worst.....
even a small car that I managed to buy last year broke down I had to sell it anyhow when my younger brother told me that our old house had collapsed in the village.......
I don't know if I can cross this stage of my life .....has anyone been in my situation b4? is there hope for me? pls someone should talk to me, i am frustrated.............pls no 2 much insults....thanks and God bless...
mod abeg front page....
Which did you join in the past? Have you been to MFM? Can you go for deliverance? It's a strong battle, but you need to be delivered.
all you need is make up your mind for a change of life simple and hold on to God. Forget the negativity and let's talk privately. I'm also a minister. And understand what's happening..
I saw worst than this before I get sense.
You need to be looked after and monitored spiritually while you undergo deliverance. It's all happening cause you don't have a spiritual covering over your life.
While I'll give you some prayers here I feel led to ask you this, how many people have told you to stay away from your family!? 2. Did you hear and obey?
Allow me. Recommend some prayer points while you put any other thing into effect.
Ask God to separate you from every spell of I'll luck and end the cycle of generational curse in your family
Ask God to fill you with renewed passion, energy, hope for life as your life force has been badly battered
Ask God to terminate every curse of not ending well and instability in your life
Ask God to uproot every spirit of wrong decision and choices, and spirit of fear
Tell God you covenant yourself and your offspring to His service and to shield you from vile attacks of the pursuers of your life.
Tell the Lord that every curse placed upon you by anyone from birth to the destroyed and swallowed up by the blood of Jesus
Tell the Lord every legal ground that gives the enemy the access and right into your life to be swallowed up by the blood of Jesus
Ask God to restore your joy, laughter, passion and happiness
Ask God to expose and remove every satanic projections in your life
Tell God to restore your star, glory and possession powers of darkness hijacked.
God is really with you, you are a great man. I need to discuss something private with you pls. I sent you an email
My thoughts too sis. The thread has been tainted with stupid comments
I tell you sis, imagine someone telling him to visit one scammer in Kaduna. Some people damn too dumb to see how life works. They are too brainwashed..
For anyone experiencing this and leaves in Lagos or can visit Lagos, I can recommend a church of God's presence and power to visit for complete deliverance. You won't be meeting me personally. If this interests you, send me an email.
Op, things will fall back in place for you again. You will laugh again. Your pains will be turned to joy and your shame will be turned to fame again. Contact me at your earnest convenience. You will laugh again.
thanks ma......I don't know why the mod banned my account....
the ban expires tomorrow morning.....
I have already copied u number.....once I recharge i'll call u ma....thanks..
PSTEMMA1960: A Dying Soul Needs Ur Urgent Advice B4 It's 2 Late.
Good evening my good people of nairaland..hope everyone is doing fine?
don't know the right section to post this but I think i'll get mature response here...
Note: the post is going to be very long, but pls read to the end, I just want to pour out my heart to get an answer to some issues about my life.
My Name is Emmanuel born December 25-1991 from isiala mbano local government area of Imo state. My grandparents gave birth to 11 children, as I type now all 11 of them are dead, none of them married b4 death, my dad was the only one that married.....
My dad died December 25 1997 and my mum died in the year 2000... it hasn't been easy since then.....my mum's people rejected us saying that my dad did not legally married my mum...
my 2 sister are in Lagos now (married with children) I came to Abj in the year 2006 with a woman that owns a restaurant at area3 (my aim then was to save some money and go back to the village and start doing okada)
after working there for 2 years I was able to raise some money (my salary then was 3k) when I told the woman that I wanted to go, she asked me not to do so, that she really wants to help me...(I was happy) she asked me to go and learn how to drive with a promise of buying a car for me on higher purchase.
after the driving school no car, she sacked their driver and I became their driver (1k was then added to my salary) I didn't complain I waited till December again, I told her that I want to go, she now explain that I must drive her for like 4 good years b4 she can buy the car, i lost interest immediately. .
then to give my my 3 years salary became a problem (I was telling her to save it for me because i was naive then)
the woman did plus and minus money for driving school, shortage of beer and other stuffs....i was left with only 1500 after 3 years of my hard labour.....I had no option but to carry my Ghana must go bag and start sleeping with Hausa guys outside. ..
that wasn't still enough the woman arrested me that her life was in danger because she has sacked me.....police asked my to sign an undertaken that if anything should happen to her I'm responsible which I did.....after 3 days I was released. .
I was still sleeping outside..... so many other experiences...but the last one was in Asokoro hospital canteen.....my salary then was 15k I was able to save 270k there was an Alhaji that was always coming there to eat almost everyday then "mr Haruna" there was a sallah period that he even dasshed me 20k.
so one evening I met the man he was telling me that he doesn't like the nature of my job, that I should give him my C.V for a better Job...when I told him my qualifications he was not impressed ..
then on my own i went to him after one week that since he is already willing to help me that he should assist me in getting a car. ..he said it was a minor thing, that his brother a custom officer at zone3 was in charge of auctioning......I told him how much I had, he said he was going to add it up to make it 500k I went to Oceanic back then and withdrew the 270k gave to him. ....till today I didn't set my eyes on the man ..
it was not 2 long our madam employed a new staff, David from Cross river state......in less than one week the guy ran away with the money that our madam kept with me (she has been keeping money with me close to 2 years) to buy drinks and chicken the following day....87k. I had to work and pay her back...... after that I decided not to work again .....
in 2011 December 31st I gave my life to Christ and started going to church.....
because of my zeal and commitment I was ordained a minister in 2012, the following year as a pastor.... in 2015 I was sent to a state to open a branch which I went.... in less than 6 months I was having close to 74 members....
but the offering was not much, I pleaded with the head qtrs to give me time let the place grow numerically first. but they refused and closed down the branch.....(I was sad, so I left the church in 2016)
I tried driving work I always have issues, if I get a car today the same night I'll hear audible voice telling me that I won't succeed unless I come back and serve them in the village...(my grand mum was an idol worshiper she was always going to the native doctors meetings with me when I was 4-7 years)
Right now things have gone worse for me, no food no clothes no house no job....... stange dreams I am even tired of praying......
I am loosing my mind and sleep as if I am running mad, I always ask am I going to die like my uncles without any achievement...... I haven't seen my only brother since 7 years.....i'll always think that this year things would be better but it will turn out worst.....
even a small car that I managed to buy last year broke down I had to sell it anyhow when my younger brother told me that our old house had collapsed in the village.......
I don't know if I can cross this stage of my life .....has anyone been in my situation b4? is there hope for me? pls someone should talk to me, i am frustrated.............pls no 2 much insults....thanks and God bless...
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Sorry for all you have been through
First of all, from your narrative, the mantle of taking over from your grandum fell on you.
She must have initiated you because of the love she has for you and you can't run away from it so you might not be stable if you don't follow up
But bear in mind that you can take it up and perform it in a religious way, there us a way they do it and it gets combined
PSTEMMA1960: frankly speaking the issue was somehow then, that man was like a helper to me, he was always giving me money....secondly it was a job he wanted to give to me.....I was the one that called him and told him about the car myself.....
Is this the man that gave you the N1M loan that you are castigating like this?
Chai
I hope after all said and done, you'd be able to repay the loan. This your story and the sudden twist, especially how this man who was once a God sent helper quickly turned to "a suspect" na wao.
PSTEMMA1960: frankly speaking the issue was somehow then, that man was like a helper to me, he was always giving me money....secondly it was a job he wanted to give to me.....I was the one that called him and told him about the car myself.....
Satan can turn your helper to your enemy Maybe he lost the money too and was too ashamed to return
The pattern is just too clear
You can't afford to stop praying my dear. Even if you pray with your last breath you just can't afford to stop praying rated is the only way out
You must also seek Gods revelation
Does God speak to you in visions and dreams ?
This is the channel by which you will know what to pray for
I was even going to offer him a 40k a month job and an accommodation till he stands his feet. But since you all see the worst in people, I've decided to not have anything to do with him at all
Do you know that all those people that attacked you don't know what they are doing
You and I know they don't know what they are doing
Its all part of the pattern
They don't know this mans pains .
You and I know what this man is talking about from experience
Don't let Satan take this one from him again. Help him with what you can then you would know you've tried
This might be his last hope.
You might be raising a man of God that will liberate thousands
Some peoples lives, liberation are tied to this guy.