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Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by springtech(m): 11:52am On May 01, 2019 |
Tsam96: Matured mind sighted. Wish there was a club for matured minds. 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by dochenaj: 11:53am On May 01, 2019 |
MissRaine69:You can't tell what the purpose of showing that chat was, since you cannot read his thoughts. But it has sure raised awareness on how surreal suicide is, and some people have become more educated about getting help for people depressed around them. You're experienced. But you must remember that not all suicidal ideation translate into attempt at suicide, and the guy didn't know better, now he does. Didn't they say "experience is the best teacher" unfortunately at the loss of his friend. A while back a friend, a medical doctor committed suicide and considering his training he was a high risk because he knew how best to end a life. I was stunned when I learnt about it. I wouldn't believe in a thousand years that he would contemplate that. The attitude towards mental health is global, and worse in our country with little literacy and awareness about clinical depression (only mad people visit a psychiatrist). It's sad. 2 Likes |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Nobody: 11:57am On May 01, 2019 |
depression & suicide is real. I'm a victim & still struggle with it sometimes. some nairalanders are evil & sometimes curse u to go kill ur self even depicting it with meme almost took my life some years ago cos of Owliver ( nl moniker) asking to do d needful & die. He will surely bury his children for wishing another man child dealth & if is reading dis, & resend dis to me He sha reap it all in infinite googolplex. prophecy sealed. Unless he is older than me, curse & prophecy cancelled. wicked soul. 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 12:04pm On May 01, 2019 |
dochenaj:So what’s the point of putting it on social media? Assumptions are what stops us from helping. Your friend being a doctor does not make him immune to depression. When something does not feel right, you don’t need experience to act. I am sure your friend alluded or changed a lot before he took his own life but in most instances especially when it involves a man the point of view is to just ask them to “soldier on” even when they are running on empty. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by fowlyansh181(m): 12:04pm On May 01, 2019 |
Ziel20:stop accusing the person for doing the best they could in that situation.. not many are cut out for being therapist or advising others.. you expect an ordinary person to give same advice a therapist that studies for years in school gives? |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 12:04pm On May 01, 2019 |
dochenaj: ... |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Mikhailkutusov: 12:06pm On May 01, 2019 |
DREagon:You are a part of the problem,depression is not an excuse,its a reason. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 12:06pm On May 01, 2019 |
fowlyansh181:You don’t need to be a therapist to go and check on your friend who says they are struggling. Presence alone is therapeutic. 2 Likes |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 12:09pm On May 01, 2019 |
Truest:Ignorance is rife on this forum. What you read here is a snapshot of the mentality of the society that you live in. 3 Likes |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by PeacenLove2: 12:11pm On May 01, 2019 |
Parents need to teach their children SELF-LOVE right from childhood. People need that confidence and must do away from finding that sort of validation from another human being. History has shown time and again that human beings are too selfish to be able to fill that gap for another. With less expectation from another, we will learn to handle inevitable disappointments, betrayals and what have you? RIP dear angel. I hope she finds peace and pray her loved ones are comforted. To all those who are depressed out there ... please always learn to find the silver lining. Believe me it is ALWAYS there. That down time is the lowest you can go and you have no where else to go but up. Go out there, make new memories, find hobbies however little, get that body back into action, be active, love and don't fret. This life is for everyone. Sieze every moment. Whatever you do, don't give up. Hugs and kisses. 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by PeacenLove2: 12:12pm On May 01, 2019 |
Parents need to teach their children SELF-LOVE right from childhood. People need that confidence and must do away from finding that sort of validation from another human being. History has shown time and again that human beings are too selfish to be able to fill that gap for another. With less expectation from another, we will learn to handle inevitable disappointments, betrayals and what have you? RIP dear angel. I hope she finds peace and pray her loved ones are comforted. To all those who are depressed out there ... please always learn to find the silver lining. Believe me it is ALWAYS there. That down time is the lowest you can go and you have no where else to go but up. Go out there, make new memories, find hobbies however little, get that body back into action, be active, love and don't fret. This life is for everyone. Sieze every moment. Whatever you do, don't give up. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by dochenaj: 12:12pm On May 01, 2019 |
MissRaine69:I didn't imply my friend was immune, but given his education. He should have been more prone to getting help and if he couldn't it will be much more worse than the general population. That was the picture I tried to portray. And we wouldn't be having this conversation if this chat was not put on the internet. So it did serve some purpose. Howbeit it has raised awareness. The intent of the uploader cannot be judged since you have no telepathy skills. 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by murphyibiam15(m): 12:15pm On May 01, 2019 |
Kenmatt:your comments shows how ignorant you're, mental diseases occur just like physical diseases..study and get knowledge 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Nobody: 12:17pm On May 01, 2019 |
Na person chatting with her na mumu, someone talked about commiting suicide, and you reply was shush, you are a strong woman, I said woman not girl. That one na big ode. If a friend ever mention commiting suicide, even if am not around, I would call other Friends around her to keep an eye on her. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MrBen619(m): 12:28pm On May 01, 2019 |
That's why i hate chatting when it comes confidencial matters. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Edyice: 12:28pm On May 01, 2019 |
philosophie: Guy just do what you love most Those thoughts will leave you gradually Do what you love Don't let anyone stop you Remember do what you love Peace |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 12:31pm On May 01, 2019 |
dochenaj:And my point to you is Background, level and type of education is irrelevant when it comes to depression. Depression does not discriminate that’s something you are failing to grasp. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by careidon: 12:32pm On May 01, 2019 |
When are we as a serious people going to control access (tru reasonable legitimate means) to this sniper sef? |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Teedamaniac: 12:33pm On May 01, 2019 |
Ziel20:I think it's not the person's fault, that chat seem to me as though it was late night, unless off course it's not 11pm but 11am, no way the person chatting with her would have gone over to her place that night, except off course it was in the morning then I can blame the person for not playing a good role in helping her out of that situation |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by donbenie(m): 12:34pm On May 01, 2019 |
bolinjkezzy:Well, Life is never A B C D.. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by SamuelAnyawu(m): 12:36pm On May 01, 2019 |
MikeBetty: bad area back then.... Hope cultism has reduced in that axis |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Jaqenhghar: 12:53pm On May 01, 2019 |
bolinjkezzy:So is this post 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MikeBetty(m): 12:53pm On May 01, 2019 |
SamuelAnyawu:Still Headquartres Of Cultism Nom |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by ovieben(m): 12:54pm On May 01, 2019 |
When kids like this have watched so much soap operas they believe that's how life is suppose to play out, what does she know about love that she selfishly took her life. Its a sad one though 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by dochenaj: 12:59pm On May 01, 2019 |
MissRaine69:I am not saying that depression discriminates. At a point even Bill Gates suffered from depression despite being the world's richest man. My point is about seeking help. Health seeking behaviour generally is better for the educated than the illiterate. So in reference to my doctor friend, he should have been better placed to seek for help but he couldn't, thus buttressing my point about the global difficulty in seeking help for depression. Try to understand my points before jumping off the tangent. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 1:03pm On May 01, 2019 |
dochenaj:It’s going of tangent not jumping off tangent anyway I digress It’s not an access issue as even countries with far superior services than Nigeria suicides still occur. Mental illness still carries enormous stigma, that fear of being stigmatised is why people internalise rather than voice matters. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Proffdada: 1:06pm On May 01, 2019 |
nairalanduseles:religion helps. Many would have done a lot of damages if not for religious reasons 1 Like |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 1:06pm On May 01, 2019 |
ovieben:You must know that your comment comes from a place of no knowledge right? |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Proffdada: 1:08pm On May 01, 2019 |
philosophie:when there's a lot of great things yet to be done ? |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by StevenOba: 1:10pm On May 01, 2019 |
These is what happens when you start dating before you are emotionally mature. If you think sexual urge is getting too much then get married. Religion has laid out rules to live by for us but we always think we know better. I only feel so sorry for the family. |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by Proffdada: 1:10pm On May 01, 2019 |
Ziel20:the person did not know she's that serious. Don't quickly judge. Even by the responses, she wasn't expected to still commit suicide |
Re: Last Chat Of Hilkmat Gbadamosi, UNIPORT Student Who Committed Suicide by MissRaine69(f): 1:12pm On May 01, 2019 |
[quote author=Proffdada post=78011427] religion helps. Many would have done a lot of damages if not for religious reasons [/quote No it does not It just shifts causes from a mental source to a spiritual source it does not address the cause. Do you know how many families stop prescribed treatment for mental illness, take their family members to church with the view that the Bipolar will be banished out of the person’s head? All they are going is crippling that person’s life as they will never be good for anything as long as they remain off medication. Religion is not medicine. |
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