Good day everyone, I have an issue which I need your candid and sincere advice. I will appreciate if it's attended to.. Please pardon any grammatical errors. I will welcome your constructive criticism/advice, thanks.

Before now I had broken up with my girl based on trust and infidelity issues.I hated it when she lied and it was and is a big turn off for me. We came back strong and better with her showing a better positive attitude and signs of a changed person. Before coming back together, I told her about earning my trust again and to avoid things that would trigger any suspicion.

Recently she has been taking me for granted owing to the fact I would always come to terms with her whenever she commits. She would rather play a reverse psychology on me than see the wrong in what she did. Apologizing when she is wrong is now a problem and this was not so from the beginning. Her actions these days make me insult/call her names which I don't like...How do I handle this issue? Your candid advice will be appreciated.

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Good day everyone, I have an issue which I need your candid and sincere advice. I will appreciate if it's attended to.. Please pardon any grammatical errors. I will welcome your constructive criticism/advice, thanks.

Before now I had broken up with my girl based on trust and infidelity issues.I hated it when she lied and it was and is a big turn off for me. We came back strong and better with her showing a better positive attitude and signs of a changed person. Before coming back together, I told her about earning my trust again and to avoid things that would trigger any suspicion.

Recently she has been taking me for granted owing to the fact I would always come to terms with her whenever she commits. She would rather play a reverse psychology on me than see the wrong in what she did. Apologizing when she is wrong is now a problem and this was not so from the beginning. Her actions these days make me insult/call her names which I don't like...How do I handle this issue? Your candid advice will be appreciated.

lolxx...i really dnt know if i should say 'good you came back strong'..but before you came back stronger, haven't you heard of OKAFOR'S LAW??

if am not wrong, from ur post, despite knowing she cheated/infidelity stuff on you, i can deduce you were the one who initiated or wanted the come back badly and that has made her or making her toying/manipulating you and emotions or feelings

my advise?

dude,trust? you mean you still want to trust her?

DONT!!! i repeat, DONT!!!

just let her know you trust her, but deep within you, dont fucking trust her!..even for a bit!..you will end up digging your grave if you do..

just activate that i dnt care attitude, dnt care or show her much love..drastically reduce any attention u are giving to her..all this will shield/guild you from any manipulation or up coming breakup..

meanwhile, nothing fucking piss me off than hardly apologize even when you know you are wrong.

and lastly, please stop insulting her,its gonna piss her off, it might make her think you are over looking down on her.
just stop so she wont find fault on you should in case anything happens..

i may be wrong in any of the above comment though

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lolxx...i really dnt know if i should say 'good you came back strong'..but before you came back stronger, haven't you heard of OKAFOR'S LAW??

if am not wrong, from ur post, despite knowing she cheated/infidelity stuff on you, i can deduce you were the one who initiated or wanted the come back badly and that has made her or making her toying/manipulating you and emotions or feelings

my advise?

dude,trust? you mean you still want to trust her?

DONT!!! i repeat, DONT!!!

just let her know you trust her, but deep within you, dont fucking trust her!..even for a bit!..you will end up digging your grave if you do..

just activate that i dnt care attitude, dnt care or show her much love..drastically reduce any attention u are giving to her..all this will shield/guild you from any manipulation or up coming breakup..

meanwhile, nothing fucking piss me off than hardly apologize even when you know you are wrong.

and lastly, please stop insulting her,its gonna piss her off, it might make her think you are over looking down on her.
just stop so she wont find fault on you should in case anything happens..

i may be wrong in any of the above comment though

On the contrary, she initiated the come back and was strongly begging..However I will do as you've just said..thanks

dz ain't love,
u better end it

It’s always advisable not to restart a relationship again with the same person. She cheated on you before, she will do it again and again. Just convert her to your sex machine and dump her whenever you’re tired of her. Don’t show her love, care or any affection.