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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 8:05am On May 02, 2019 |
LordKO: For the first time. Since I know this moniker I disagree with you. While we see from different perspectives and you reserve the right to your comment, I choose to disagree. Anyway, it's human to disagree doesn't make superior over the other. I just don't agree with your position on this issue atall |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by kunleweb: 8:07am On May 02, 2019 |
DukeofNZ wetin you think about wetin we dey read here. |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by kunleweb: 8:08am On May 02, 2019 |
generationz: Funny you happy married life. 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by LordKO(m): 8:19am On May 02, 2019 |
MiddleSpot: We'll always disagree to agree. Are you for or against the OP's actions and inactions? I'll like to know your perspective in detail. 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 8:20am On May 02, 2019 |
LordKO: You are completely wrong o. I feel sad to ask if you have private concerns troubling you. Cause this isn't you. Find your way back to whom you used to be is only what I'll say Sir |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by LordKO(m): 8:20am On May 02, 2019 |
MiddleSpot: We'll always disagree to agree. Are you for or against the OP's actions and inactions? I'll like to know your perspective in detail. |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by simpleAg(m): 8:38am On May 02, 2019 |
Chai nwanne you try ooo immediately she bring out ring and ask you to put it just give a good story about your family traditions before you can give anything like that, u go think of better lie wey she self go fair, no allow anybody push u do anything u no want ooo a lot of unwanted children Dey street Dey suffer. One babe like that in the middle of d thing when I was about to *** she just ask me to wait wait I thought she wanted me to change style or something then she asked me do you love me? I said yes, then will marry me? I said only God has d final say I am just a small ink on a paper, she come say uhmmm... ok promise me you will never leave me? and you will marry me no matter what? (all these while my thing still dey inside) I just tell her make I land first she say no, make I comot am she say no, there I just tell myself guy use ur bring ooo. I just don’t know why 9ja babes mostly see sex like if a guy have it with them na must he suppose marry them after Dem still go collect money do hair, buy cloth etc My advice guy just tell her one better lie ooo, most of them don’t want d truth, although some dem are very kind and good but extremely few, if you’re not ready forget about the blood thing ooo no allow one fake man ** come dey use that one they enter u collect money all in the name of braking one covenant. 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Whispereye: 8:57am On May 02, 2019 |
I guess you need to think twice about this issue of marriage. I personally hate pressure, especially if you are bieng forced to go ahead with it when you are not ready. Marriage is a life-time committment, so you should ensure you don'r make simple misakes 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 9:58am On May 02, 2019 |
issylarry:lols I feel am being misunderstood by u...am not a bad person and she is not stupid either |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 9:59am On May 02, 2019 |
MissRaine69:lols very soon but definitely not with her |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Dagelv: 10:04am On May 02, 2019 |
Never jump into marriage juts because your girlfriend wants you to. After all, you could be reading from different pages. But let me advise you that ladies sometimes lack the patience of men when it comes to such matters, so if you feel convinced that she is the one, make a move before someone takes her from your loose grip |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 10:22am On May 02, 2019 |
LordKO:tank u bro |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 10:23am On May 02, 2019 |
Samshumy:hahahahaha bros e tire me... |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Samshumy: 10:24am On May 02, 2019 |
rowland545:I Dey surprise as well. But she’s just being emotional because dem one use and dump a woman like her |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 10:26am On May 02, 2019 |
simpleAg:nice one...thanks |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Samshumy: 10:28am On May 02, 2019 |
rowland545:Bros lemme tell you confirm truth. Any girl wey you marry, you are doing her a favour. So marry anyone you feel like at any time and make sure you have total control over this particular girl if you wanna marry her including her phone password if there is any 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by issylarry(m): 10:32am On May 02, 2019 |
rowland545:U said u dont love her,u only needed d juice and she needed marriage |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Nobody: 10:41am On May 02, 2019 |
the words of Sansa in the game of thrones, she said and I quote "men do stupid things for love" literally what that love mean to me is to "Bleep." a man can withdraw all his money, sell his cars and house and even sell his destiny just to Bleep toto. here comes I have seen one |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 10:51am On May 02, 2019 |
LordKO: Permit me to put it short but aptly, one answer please would you like your sister in the same exact position? No lengthy answers sire..! |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by LordKO(m): 11:26am On May 02, 2019 |
MiddleSpot: Yes, so long as my understanding of what transpired between the OP and his girlfriend, as he (OP) narrated, remain the same. 2 Likes |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 11:32am On May 02, 2019 |
Samshumy:u talk sense for here ooo....but I no get any plans to marry DAT girl ooo |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Nobody: 11:44am On May 02, 2019 |
rowland545:Sir, you have no choice as this matter is concerned. You are no longer in the position to make any decision , you have been tied into an agreement stronger than paper works and events. Seek the counsel of an Elder for you are a married Man already. |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Samshumy: 11:48am On May 02, 2019 |
rowland545:Then Dey enjoy your life Dey go |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 12:00pm On May 02, 2019 |
MariaLavina:lols not me abeg ... |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 12:15pm On May 02, 2019 |
LordKO: Just a yes or no. Take it easy with your egalitarianism. I just feel i should warn you that behind your liberal way of thinking is trouble looming. You act like you exist for laws which can be something my brother. You continue to earn my respect anyday anytime though |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by dreamwords: 3:06pm On May 02, 2019 |
rowland545:Blood is not normal biko unless she is in her period , Maybe she has std |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by generationz(f): 5:00pm On May 02, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Fear Fear As long as you abide in Christ , are prayerful and don't deliberately do evil to people you are safe . |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by generationz(f): 5:20pm On May 02, 2019 |
LordKO: You are right in what you wrote But what if the girl had an Agenda. she might not want to marry op na Just to destroy his life. The fact still remains a Liar There are some women who will agree if you plainly tell them " I have a girlfriend ,wife etc I can't marry you" Op doesn't have to lie with marriage. When some women enjoy hanging around you or if he is good In the other room he may not spend money sef You are talking as man . I'm talking as one who has been in deliverance ministry for many years now and has read widely on the subject. Op is guilty. He has made promises and they are binding. Many men get away with these fake promises. Op should just pray that the babe isn't diabolical. Witches have no regard for an innocent person let alone someone who has used his hands to buy trouble all for pleasure sake. 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by djon78(m): 5:50pm On May 02, 2019 |
generationz: Don't mind op. Most guys think that women reason the way we men reason. Why will you be sleeping with a woman you are not ready to marry or claiming you are in relationship with her. If you want sex, you buy it not going about deceiving women. He should just wish this one is not diabolical. If she is diabolical, there is no Jupiter that will stop the repercussions. I was talking with a guy yesterday who was lamenting how he ended up with a girl he met in this same scenario. Guy that was doing extremely well, totally reduced to a pauper and worse than nothing. This is why we have many useless men all over the place. Men who have brought curses on themselves. Like they don't know that we an Africa again were diabolical things abound. 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by generationz(f): 5:56pm On May 02, 2019 |
djon78: They still won't learn their lessons 1 Like |
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Michelle55: 6:16pm On May 02, 2019 |
Congratulations Op, can't wait for the pre-wedding pics .. It's time to rock that my aba-made shoe
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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by LordKO(m): 6:36pm On May 02, 2019 |
Citing his submission, he didn't make any marriage promise to her, even when she tried to cajole him into doing so in the middle of an action and, remember, they're in a relationship - a convenience relationship from the inception citing the indications available. Her action at such juncture amounted to cajolement which the OP pretentiously dodged - which is bad, diplomacy could have been a better option - through his act of silence. His action, however bad, was justifiable because the lady didn't come into equity with clean hands - what transpired at that juncture was a case of two "too clever by half" (sly) entities in a battle of wits. Once more, I know that telling someone that you love him/her doesn't automatically mean promising marriage to such a person - and loving someone will always remain different from falling in love with the same person or having reason to remain in love with the same person forever. In fact, someone that made a promise of marriage to another can cancel same at the 11th hour - I'm not saying/justifying that one should trick or intentionally treat another in such manner - if s/he doesn't feel convinced (on principle) to continue with the arrangement. To be late is better than to be late. My perspective is from my position as a conscientious libertarian, an altruist and a spiritual but not religious person; As such, I can't see things from the religious viewpoint - this doesn't invalidate your opinion in any way. I can never be caught using servility to sustain anything, and by extension, I don't support and expect others to do so. . . It was absolute disingenuousness on her part as she tried to cajole the OP into a cause under duress. Everyone deserves liberty - of course, liberty doesn't negate decorum. Meanwhile, my submissions on the scenario under discussion don't nullify the obvious fact that the OP is of the manipulative ethical leanings as both pronounced and unpronounced connotation of his submission suggested. I don't hold brief for him. generationz: 11 Likes |
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