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Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by GrossPrice: 10:54pm On May 03, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Mizwisdom(f): 11:44pm On May 03, 2019 |
grandlexuz: Forgive her for the sake of your kids |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by bukatyne(f): 6:19am On May 04, 2019 |
grandlexuz: Thank God for healing. Forget about getting together with your wife, she/ your combo might be inducing stress. You might also want to have a domestic help/relative help around with the kids. I would have said send them to your parents however, you can't live alone now. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by bukatyne(f): 6:20am On May 04, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: I hope you are not advising he takes her back? Forgive? Yes. Take back? No now/never. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Raalsalghul: 6:23am On May 04, 2019 |
DeeMain:Nna ehn. The Op matter tire me. Provided he can forgive the woman. Under no circumstances should he take her back. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by bukatyne(f): 6:24am On May 04, 2019 |
kafulka: Nice angle. OP might have been a terrible husband who all his worth was hinged on money and as soon as that finished, there was no need to stay. @OP: have you cheated or beaten her before? If yes, did you genuinely repent and stop? Did you treat her like trash prior to now? If yes, you have sown the wind and reaping the whirlwind. However, if you have been a good husband to her, just note that she has sown the wind and will definitely reap the whirlwind elsewhere. Get well soon. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Raalsalghul: 6:28am On May 04, 2019 |
bukatyne:Provided the Op is the lowest of them scum. Does it warrant the woman to leave her kids. Don't think you've looked at it from that angle. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by bukatyne(f): 6:40am On May 04, 2019 |
Raalsalghul: In some cultures /areas, a woman exiting the marriage leaves her kids behind. They are seen as the property(ies) of the father. The OP might have also refused her going with them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:19am On May 04, 2019 |
kafulka: So since dem born you no body don tell you say assumption na mother of all fuckups or dem tell you but you no agree because you no get sense even as pride no go allow you admit am. People way get sense like many wey don comment dey always comment based on information wey de available. Na information wey dey available be fact. No make me vex because me I no dey pity or fear somebody. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:19am On May 04, 2019 |
Admin: I wonder why I can't post on my own thread.. As of 5:30pm yesterday I only have a quote and share button. When I click on quote I get pushed back to the login page with a " You can't do this tight now. Try again in a few hours" Admin please can that be rectified. I have now just created another profile so as to be able to reply to my post.. My original profile is grandlexuz.. I can log into it, and respond on other threads but cant on this. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:22am On May 04, 2019 |
grandlexuzz:You got banned. That's why |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by metroid(m): 8:25am On May 04, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:29am On May 04, 2019 |
DeeMain: Thanks for your 2 kobo. You certainly very right about the damning effects of stress. However the sky-rocketing of my BP was guessingly tied to some hormonal disorders. That said a stress free environment would have helped with healing. Imagine being stressed while on a BP of 220 and about. Infact by her actions and utterances I developed severe anxiety. Had to be put on Melex for two months. Her slogan had become " I don't care what people say. Let them talk" Offcourse neighbours were grumbling, whispering and cursing! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:33am On May 04, 2019 |
FortifiedCity: Banned. What for? I havn't gone against any of the 22 rules.. I have reread my posts and can't tell why.. Maybe I used a censored word or so.. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:40am On May 04, 2019 |
Also just realised it is against the rule to create a new profile when banned. I have been on nairaland for over 8 years and never encountered this. Will now have to close this account and complain directly to the admin.. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:52am On May 04, 2019 |
I checked on my initial profile and got this.. "Banned by the antispam bot in Family for https://www.nairaland.com/5167136/wife-abandoned-me-while-bp#78075495. Ban expires on 4:59pm" I suppose that explains it. I did give an instant and quick response to all those who posted on my topic... At such the antispam bot mistook me for a spammer.. I think the right thing to do is wait till 5 pm.. Thanks |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by DeeMain(m): 9:39am On May 04, 2019 |
grandlexuzz: Guy, I am a health therapist so I didn't write you out of ignorance. When doctors say hormonal imbalance is the cause. The next logical question is what caused my hormones to become imbalanced? The body creates balance through homeostasis. When that balance is disrupted something led to it. Usually stress is the culprit and stress could come from myriad and unimaginable sources. Mind, body and spirit are inseparable. If your mind or spirit is not at ease, before long your body will show that unease or 'dis-ease' as disease. It's why even doctors are prescribing lifestyle changes as healing tools. Hormonal imbalance is at the body level. To solve the problem permanently you need to move to another level (you can't solve a problem at the same level that created it). The next level is the mind. So my question still stands: what are the stories/events in your history that so disturbed(dis-eased) your mind that your hormones (body) had to go haywire and afflict your heart (body) with disease? This will help you find the cause(s). Scientific evidence in mind-body medicine is teaching us that what happens in our mind affects our body. Google mind-body medicine for more on this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by JoannaSedley(f): 10:52am On May 04, 2019 |
A good woman will never leave a good man to suffer vice versa. Enough of the sob story, go and find out what is going on with your wife if you really want her back. We are all selfish animals. Most men will bundle a sick wife to her parents and abandon her there but a wife is expected to remember for better for worse....hian. Lucky you. No aneurysm, organ failures and CVA. You've been given a second chance to make things right for your kids. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by henmaris: 11:13am On May 04, 2019 |
grandlexuz:Ashia my brother from another mother. Ur wife huh mmmm, no comment. Quick recovery papa. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 12:27pm On May 04, 2019 |
Cameroonian women are fond of running away when things go bad. That is why I only Bleep them and run!Nigerians hardly marry your women for that reason. Is she ewondo,bassa,Douala abi bakweri? Heard those women do that a lot and even kill their husbands for property.na true? |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by grandlexuz(m): 5:19pm On May 04, 2019 |
Octopusssy: Thank You Octopussy.. I really had no plan B thus it feels strange having to start life all over again with another lady. However I trust the Lord has the best for a poor sinner like me.. His grace has been immense. How I have survived so far beats my imagination. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by grandlexuz(m): 5:33pm On May 04, 2019 |
Logobenz: Hahaha.. Bad boy.. It is well known that most Nigerian business guys in Cameron certainly go back home to get a wife after messing our girls in and out..Lol There are lots of loyal Cameroonian wives out there. I just had a bad experience. You heard right about certain tribes. Interestingly my wife is half Bassa. Her mum is Bassa and she grew up with her maternal family. Hmmmm |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by grandlexuz(m): 5:46pm On May 04, 2019 |
henmaris: Thank you lots.. I trust I will overcome this. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by grandlexuz(m): 6:08pm On May 04, 2019 |
JoannaSedley: Life is just so complex. Two good people have been known to give birth to criminals and vice versa. Six months after my wife abandoned me I got a call from her. Apparently for a couple of days she had been extremely dizzy with spells of vertigo. It was severely hampering her daily life. I got so worried about her situation and asked her to immediately go to the hospital. She couldn't walk with the risk of falling because of vertigo. Besides she had no money. I had very little myself and it was money for my medications. That not withstanding I had someone go pick her up ( I live in a different town) to the hospital. I sent all I had and called every now and then to get updates. The story is longer than this, but I only wanted to give you an idea of how far I can go for her. Despite my hurt and pain I will never abandon her if she needed my help especially in a time of bad health. I certainly thank God for the chance of life and for me now it's really about my kids.. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by grandlexuz(m): 6:33pm On May 04, 2019 |
kafulka: Bros you can vex for Africa oh..hahah.. Even me way my wife abandon I no vex the way you vex.. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by grandlexuz(m): 6:39pm On May 04, 2019 |
DukeofNZ: Hahaha.. Thanks bro.. No mind the yeye guy. Make yi pray say make yi no ever go through what I experienced. Like yi go waka empty lass for road like onyara. hahaha 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by JoannaSedley(f): 6:48pm On May 04, 2019 |
grandlexuz:You see. You never visited nor cared for your wife while she was sick with such a debilitating ailment like vertigo but you are wailing because she did not wait on your arm and foot. You sent money while she needed you to be there or close to you. Cunnyman die cunnywoman bury am. Who knows how the poor woman is now. I just hope it is not Menieres she is suffering from. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Octopusssy(f): 8:29pm On May 04, 2019 |
grandlexuz:Unrequited love is a bitter pill to swallow, but swallow you must otherwise you will slowly waste away because of heart break. The woman you love abandoned you when you needed her the most, so how can you keep hanging on to the vain hope that she will come back? You are her plan B. "If all fails, I can always go back manage him". Such a person will not hesitate to leave you again. They dont deserve your loyalty. Or are there things you aren't mentioning? You better wise up. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 8:40pm On May 04, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by kafulka(m): 9:27pm On May 04, 2019 |
tommyken:Oga ..takam easy nah!!..even in our village square everyone is entitled to their opinion. I just said it the way I see the matter, . 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 04, 2019 |
kafulka:Sorry for my rude reply But I was thinking everyone deserve help and pity on their sick bed no matter how bad they may have been, even considering the fact that the man is the father of her children. At least she should have stood with him in his hard. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by Richy4(m): 9:48pm On May 04, 2019 |
JoannaSedley: Forgive me for asking u this because I don't really understand your problem...Are u deliberately looking for a fault from the OP or is it a comprehension issues that was the problem here? ..... OP said that they were leaving in different town... he took money that he should have used for himself and sent it to her... Asked a friend that was leaving in that same town as the wife to quickly take her to the hospital..... And This happened when she has already abandoned him...Haba!!!.. What is it that u don't understand in these now... What has Cunnyman die... got to do with these? 7 Likes |
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