my ex and I are not in talking terms, she left for my friend and we all living in same neighborhood, how do I relate with them any time i come in contact with them that will show maturity, we have never met eye ball to eye ball, but I do see them from my apartment and they are also aware that we all living in same estate, sincerely speaking I feel very hurt anytime I see them cos Iove this lady in question, I don't want the devil to use me as his sanctuary to councils evil, mature advice please, thanks in anticipation .

Your ex knows you will be hurt when she went for your friend.

It's your choice to dance to her plan and be as sad as she wants.

Your so called friend was actually an enemy in disguise.

Biglittlelois:
Your so called friend was actually an enemy in disguise.

You can't be big and little at the same time Lois. What's your size

iTearHerToto:
You can't be big and little at the same time Lois. What's your size

So you are now a female, we have so many shèmales on here lmao.

Biglittlelois:



So you are now a female, we have so many shèmales on here lmao.

Lol what do you expect?. ..

Now back to my question. What's your size according to your moniker? M, L or XXL

iTearHerToto:
Lol what do you expect?. ..

Now back to my question. What's your size according to your moniker? M, L or XXL

Whatever comes to mind.

Biglittlelois:


Whatever comes to mind.

Ok according to ur name lemme say you're Short small and obese. And you do have difficulty in breathing atimes. Ermmm did I get it wrong

iTearHerToto:
Ok according to ur name lemme say you're Short small and obese. Ermmm did I get it wrong

Lmao whatever you say.....

I hate to say I've been in this situation

lolxx...
dude i can relate with what you are passing through cause am passing through the same thing..

my advise?

dude deep within you, just fucking trow the both fuckers out of your life...
learn/train your mindset to ignore them, block them on social media and anywhere you think you can come across them...but dnt force your self to ignore them cause you will atleast once in a while coincidentally meet them and when you do, no matter how sad you are or where your mind fly go when u see them, guy APPLY HAPINESS,no matter how sad you are that moment, always be happy and make one or two short conversation with them if necessary.. dnt go seeking for them or try to do something to get their attention and make them jealous cause you will loose...

just mind your business, develop yourself, do something else to keep yourself busy.

build/train your a mindset that you dnt know or relate with them anymore.
also have it at the back of your mind that the relationship wont last,so why disturb urself? no be area relationship again? na the girl go hear am

though it wont be easy ooooooooohhh

all in all,just try and mind ur business, keep urself busy, go out n relate with other people, watch movies,play video games, dress well, build/develop yourself not for them,but for ur self.

trust me dude, in as far the relation wont lead to marriage, that relationship with last the end of this year..
apart from the Bleep n pussy, dnt kill urself over a girl

Its sad many young guys are not focused see wetin dey bug u

Lol.. Smh


Firstly, the guy is not your "friend"...

To the main issue... Is your head paining you? No?

So why would you give yourself hypertension cos of a girl that left... When you finally meet eyeball to eyeball as you said, don't avoid them, greet them casually.... " Chairman Watsup" and the girl "Babe Watsup"... How's that a problem... Na dem go dey avoid you and in 3weeks or so, they will break up... MOVE ON!

op ur ex is sharing her national cake BTW hope you took ur own cut? if yes,then she should be the one to be ashamed when u guys come across each other but if no,best is to ignore and move on,get urself doing what u like doing and also try and develop urself so in the nearest future,she would have a sense of loss.