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Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by deltateam: 5:12am On May 06, 2019 |
kclem: Word |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by ednut1(m): 5:15am On May 06, 2019 |
AlphaT1:there are many pple who could secure a job in due time. If the job was her reason to marry him then the marriage don crash. Not everyone is business inclined too. Truth is life has no manual. U can marry a well to do man and the marriage crashes while another marries a jobless man and the marriage works. 1 Like |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by KingLennon(m): 5:15am On May 06, 2019 |
deltateam:Joblessness is temporary.... |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by deltateam: 5:17am On May 06, 2019 |
Sard: Thats the new breed of youths we are seeing o. Hmm. They don't want to work but want to eat. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by deltateam: 5:19am On May 06, 2019 |
KingLennon: Did I say it was permanent before? Just don't tie an innocent girl's destiny down while in the 'temporary' situation. 1 Like |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by KingLennon(m): 5:26am On May 06, 2019 |
deltateam:That should be our personal decision. The lady and the man will decide how to work it out. I've seen cases like that.... |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by deltateam: 5:34am On May 06, 2019 |
KingLennon: You think I haven't seen such cases abi? There's nothing to work out. Go and get a job or start hustling. Anything that gets you busy constructively. Don't work out the sharing formula of the woman's salary. 1 Like |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by KingLennon(m): 5:40am On May 06, 2019 |
deltateam:You're so weak mentally. No one is sharing the woman's salary, that's permanent joblessness. You are just down for a while hoping to get back up. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by deltateam: 5:44am On May 06, 2019 |
KingLennon: Indeed. How will you marry her? Which money?How will the family be feeding then. Who will pay house rent?Oya let's 'work' it out here now. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Ajibaba101(m): 5:57am On May 06, 2019 |
Don't just sit there.... you need to chose a career... see how you can chose a career path https://explicitsuccess.com/how-to-choose-a-career-path/ |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Softness147: 6:48am On May 06, 2019 |
frank317: Don't mind him |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Dwhyte(m): 6:50am On May 06, 2019 |
and that even those that have job, your female church members want to marry them, when all they ask is, how much is d guy’s salary asif na salary be Love.... fake RCCG female pipo |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by KingLennon(m): 7:00am On May 06, 2019 |
deltateam:Lets say you were working in a company when you met her. And in a couple of months you are fired then you are jobless and plans of marriage were ongoing. What will you do? Cancel the marriage? But your wife insists on the marriage as she will be able to frontier the marriage. Maybe she loves you and see the vision. Are you saying we shouldn't get married because am jobless? I might be low for the moment but I will surely bounce back. It's a man without vision that a woman is not supposed to marry. Yes she will pay the bills o but it's for the time being |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by deltateam: 7:13am On May 06, 2019 |
KingLennon: Till when? That's starting a marriage on a faulty foundation already. There's a tendency he will relax, get depressed, take it out on the wife through beating. Feels insecure. You think the cycle has not been occuring? |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by frank317: 7:29am On May 06, 2019 |
AntiWailer: ![]() |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by frank317: 7:36am On May 06, 2019 |
justinceejay: 40k? What priorities do u want to set right? You people like acting like other people's world is just a theory while urs is real. A few years ago I was earning 80k... I had aged parents to take care of, siblings who are worst of and need the littlest token from me, my house upkeeps, transport, I needed to look nice... I set my priorities right still I couldn't go into marriage with that because I knew it would be tough. I worked harder to ensure I earn more than five times above that amount before I got married. I am sure u don't earn 40k, but u want someone else to set his priorities right and be comfortable with it. Adeboye should engage his young 'jobless' male congregation and understand what they are going through before asking his ladies to reject them. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by frank317: 7:38am On May 06, 2019 |
deltateam: U didn't even answer my question,... Why do u think a young girl would marry a lazy man? Just try to answer and I will tell u what u don't know. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by 9jaRealist: 8:02am On May 06, 2019 |
. But if you are jobless, why would you even be looking for a wife?! ![]() Unless you actually looking for a woman to support you, sounds like misplaced priority! . |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by teewhydrums: 8:13am On May 06, 2019 |
Old story of how many years. If there is no more news please. No need to post |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Sard(m): 8:54am On May 06, 2019 |
deltateam:Bro, I was baffled seeing the comments. No wonder people are giving birth to kids they can't feed or take care of. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by bankolefun(m): 9:02am On May 06, 2019 |
all these niggas on black and white suits say alot of things...buh it is left for the followers to use their senses.. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Sard(m): 9:06am On May 06, 2019 |
frank317:Listen to yourself, bro. You're contradicting yourself. Your first opinion made it look as if getting married without a job is okay. But now you said you were earning 80k but couldn't marry because you knew the reality on ground. You knew you won't be able to feed an extra mouth. So, tell me, if someone who was earning something avoided getting married because it would make things difficult for him, why would someone jobless (and doesn't earn anything) think about marriage? To me, it doesn't make any sense to get married when you're jobless. By the way, having a job doesn't necessarily mean doing a 9-5 job, it's all about doing something that puts foods on your table. Something you're paid for. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by AlphaT1(m): 9:13am On May 06, 2019 |
ednut1:To every theory there are always a few exceptions....even to the law of gravity there are exceptions...that's why in research you have d plus or minus say 2% or 5% margin for error....what you stated just falls within d error margin i.e those few cases are rare..The simple message is for our ladies to look critically before they leap....Just like you said, some ppl will tell you they are not business inclined, some will say they cannot do this or that and they remain jobless for ten years, that is an error i.e they are jobless both mentally and physically..No able-bodied male graduate should stay idle for ten years unless your education was worthless or the person is under a spell/curse. After 2 or 3 years, think of an alternative, think of a way out, will I continue saying I am not business inclined and remain jobless for ten years? Think of a skill....a graduate must think differently! After 2 years of NYSC, my cousin learnt photography on youtube and started small, even doing it for free sometimes just to market himself. Today, he is well established. He is married, has a car and got another for his wife as birthday gift...A graduate should not stay idle for many years waiting for bank job...education is the key to the door of many opportunities. Yes life has no manual, some ppl succeed without education so I guess there is no need to enrol kids in school. There are general principles in life that work for majority of d ppl (with just a few exceptions like I said earlier).......There is always something to learn from the elders, sometimes we may not agree with them or we may consider what they are saying as obsolete but it doesn't mean they are not saying the truth or the reality. Realistically, it is easier for a single person to hustle for a job than a married person. You can go anywhere, work anywhere, anyhow, anytime...which is not so when you are married. Even the job I do now, it is not every project that I am interested in...coz of family! |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Section7: 9:20am On May 06, 2019 |
Before nko, which girl wan marry jobless man? |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Michelle55: 9:24am On May 06, 2019 |
Kumadami:Uwc.. BTW, I'm a lady |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Michelle55: 9:25am On May 06, 2019 |
Delivar:Female.. Hope no problem? |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 9:37am On May 06, 2019 |
Indomixx:urs and the great ancestors are what you address like that, you call them the same name, even your 70yrs+ are also f and MD |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by frank317: 9:38am On May 06, 2019 |
Sard: Now u can go back and read my first post, this time not in a hurry. My main post is that he is preaching the obvious... But I am pointing out that when a lady decides to marry a jobless man, most times she has strong reasons for that. Nobody like to suffer, but sometimes these decisions are take for specific reasons. Joblessness should be analyzed. Nigerian economic situation should be talked about, reasons why people marry should be dissected. I mean there is whole lot of topics that can get people thinking in a different direction than telling people not to marry jobless men. Its like coming to the pulpit and preaching that people should eat when they are hungry. Why will somebody not eat when he is hungry is a deeper question here. 1 Like |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by jay2019: 10:14am On May 06, 2019 |
Well to be honest he is wrong, because if a lady leaves a jobless man that is hard working with a great vision, to marry a man that has a job with no vision and the jobless man that is hard working with a great vision get blessed by God with a good job and the other man get to loose is job, how would the lady feel when she comes out one day for financial help and it is the same man she love so much but left because at the point of marriage he was jobless but now has a good job and a business of his own because of his great vision and he rendered the help, in which the decision she took was because of her pastor preaching, how would she look at the pastor when she goes to give testimony in church on Sunday for the urgent help and the man that God use to help her? |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Indomixx: 10:17am On May 06, 2019 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:Gid punish ur head. I repeat one more time. Your father is a fool. A very big fool. |
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Delivar(m): 10:41am On May 06, 2019 |
Michelle55:Your response was fair and understanding to come from a female who will typically applaud what the pastor said and make fun of jobless men. |
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