You toasted her and she did you you hard-to-get for over 4 years, but suddenly she now loves you so much and has decided you are her real choice...

Nairaland guys, will you accept her now??

Depends

bukkyemotions:
She tortured you for over 4 years, but suddenly she now loves you so much and has decided you are her real choice...

Nairaland guys, will you accept her now??

You are vague, Bukky. What was the conditions of both then? By conditions, I met financially, mentally and otherwise. Was he poor and now rich? Were they teens? Were they distant? Was it she feeling puffed up with pride because of the luxuries from the opposite sex to her? Employ more narratives so as to enable one understand and comment in line.

I don't ever see myself chasing after a woman's love for 4years. Nah. If I need a degree, I'll simply write jamb.

Degreed chasing .

bukkyemotions:
You toasted her and she did you you hard-to-get for over 4 years, but suddenly she now loves you so much and has decided you are her real choice...

Nairaland guys, will you accept her now??

Explain better. I would if I really loved her and her reason for playing hard to get was because she was in a relationship.

4 years? Are women extinct

If your financial statues have visibly changed this years pls run from her to avoid stories that tourched.

Lol.. Someone even said it depends...

It depends on no shït

Avoid her like shït...

If what she sees in you now perishes, she will bail....

Don't waste your time, they don't worth it...

Me I may not agree

bukkyemotions:
You toasted her and she did you you hard-to-get for over 4 years, but suddenly she now loves you so much and has decided you are her real choice...

Nairaland guys, will you accept her now??

No I didn't.

She still stares at me when she thinks I'm not looking and looks the other way when I stare back.

That ship has sailed. Better luck next reincarnation.

Lol

Yes.

For appetizer.

Yes...and dump her two weeks later.

agree Ke?? Kai Lai lai.. even..if she was in a relationship then she should go stick to her Mr right.. since she felt the guy was way better than me..

It is well

Fuk and dump

BigDick70inch:
agree Ke??
Kai Lai lai..
even..if she was in a relationship then she should go stick to her Mr right..
since she felt the guy was way better than me..

Do not take this as an attack. I just find this line of reasoning to be quite strange. Why do you think she refused your advances because she felt the guy was better than you? Don't you think it's possible she refused because she has a classy quality called loyalty? If things didn't work out with the guy in the end, why should she be punished for being loyal? Or do you expect her to be a diviner who can see the future and tell that a stable relationship wouldn't work out? Imagine sometime in future your daughter is in a stable relationship and she begins to get offers from other guys then runs to daddy for mature advice because she is getting confused. What would you tell her?

GiantParrot:


Do not take this as an attack. I just find this line of reasoning to be quite strange. Why do you think she refused your advances because she felt the guy was better than you? Don't you think it's possible she refused because she has a classy quality called loyalty? If things didn't work out with the guy in the end, why should she be punished for being loyal? Or do you expect her to be a diviner who can see the future and tell that a stable relationship wouldn't work out? Imagine sometime in future your daughter is in a stable relationship and she begins to get offers from other guys then runs to daddy for mature advice because she is getting confused. What would you tell her?

wow!! glad u reason this way but see ehn..
some of dis girls are just brainless..
some even know their relationship with most guys ain't headin nowhere..
but will still prefer to stick with him..even when someone better keeps disturbing them..

GiantParrot:


Do not take this as an attack. I just find this line of reasoning to be quite strange. Why do you think she refused your advances because she felt the guy was better than you? Don't you think it's possible she refused because she has a classy quality called loyalty? If things didn't work out with the guy in the end, why should she be punished for being loyal? Or do you expect her to be a diviner who can see the future and tell that a stable relationship wouldn't work out? Imagine sometime in future your daughter is in a stable relationship and she begins to get offers from other guys then runs to daddy for mature advice because she is getting confused. What would you tell her?

Brother, your line of reasoning is really good, but you're deviating from the context of this topic, which is why you might be wrong. The key phrase here is 'PLAYING HARD TO GET'. A girl in a stable relationship like you said doesn't have to play hard to get with another guy.( She could just consistently rejecting his advances outrightly. )That would mean she's leading him on. And such a girl shouldn't be taken seriously if she comes back begging. My 2 cents.

TOMSY:
Brother, your line of reasoning is really good, but you're deviating from the context of this topic, which is why you might be wrong. The key phrase here is 'PLAYING HARD TO GET'. A girl in a stable relationship like you said doesn't have to play hard to get with another guy.( She could just consistently rejecting his advances outrightly. )That would mean she's leading him on. And such a girl shouldn't be taken seriously if she comes back begging. My 2 cents.

Good points.

bukkyemotions:
It is well

Biglittlelois:
Lol

The girls are not finding this funny