BruncleZuma:
That's a big NO...thank you for your tip OP but no...

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jossylad86:
I've always wanted to date one. Recommend any pretty one for me please

joyberry

JejeNaija:


Wow, I never new we had a beautiful military babe here on NL. Now am crushing

I pity you that crushing go crush you like trailer crush bicycle we dey tell you you say you no wan hear abi

RemiTinubu:
you're really beautiful
no doubt i don't fear approaching military ladies
there was this beautiful military girl i met in my Nysc days in camp she's one of my platoon commander such a lovely soft nice girl and young too she's also friendly
and me as a matured man not ready to play around but a permanent relationship taught about approaching her after some days in the camp i summon the courage to ask her for some few minutes of her time but honestly the reply i got and the tone of her voice got the remaining liver in me cut to pieces
i apologized and go away in peace before she go change am for me

I really do get attracted to military ladies alot but some of them won't even give you the chance to start with
they're always harsh
mind you I'm never a player nor look like one oo

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Sparkle777:
Obviously, na small pikin full nairaland. Military and para military women are just like any other women. They don't even understand the big deal in being afraid of them. Besides not all are combatant, as for those that think the Ogas sleep wit them on the regular, go borrow sense cos they are the most respectable sets of women to have as a wife.
Go on and ask the single ones out,date them and come back here for testimonies.

testimony keel you dia

nellyelitz:
chai! Hahahahaha this wetin this one dey fear lol

LoL... Prevention is better than cure

joyberry:
Nairalanders as usual showing their myopic reasonings,i cant marry a military woman cos of promiscuity, am not going to deny the fact that we get involved with our colleagues and superiors alot.When u are always confined to a particular space,work and live in the base,of course u become attracted to people u see everyday. We tend to marry ourselves aot too cos we understand the dos and donts of the job,drills,fire alarms and all.
About the promiscuity angle,every woman has a tendency to be promiscuous, its all about opportunity,Including the civilian ladies sef,Having performed duties at yhe main gate alot and ushered in a lot of military events, i hv seen the number of ladies who troop into the base on daily basis to hook up with senior officers.Corpers in the base hv turned to our officers sexmates and cleaners all in the hope of getting a job or becoming NAFOWA.Most of my civilian girlfriends hv begged me to hook them up with senior officers.
Am not slandering civilians here,am just trying to get a message passed accross the promiscuity angle isnt limited to military personnels alone.Most of those ypur civilian girlfriends will leave u and run away if a very senior officer ask her out, hv seen a case where a civilian female staff walked out on her boyfriend and followed a one star general for a rendezvous.
Lastly no one is making it a must to date military women, if u like one fone if u don't fancy them fine too.We are flesh and blood like civilians, nothing different about our bodies. Shalom

Finally, I found one

bustthem:

Finally, I found one

you found frog jump and serious beating you better be careful

Ohraykon:
how true is dis stuff my navy friend said same to me yet to believe

Your navy friend is right on the money. I have a cousin too in the Army he said he will never allow me date his colleagues. Its that bad

Jaqenhghar:

Your navy friend is right on the money. I have a cousin too in the Army he said he will never allow me date his colleagues. Its that bad

naija I was thinking of having one as a bride since i cant become an officer bcus am an activist so sad!

Sparkle777:
Obviously, na small pikin full nairaland. Military and para military women are just like any other women. They don't even understand the big deal in being afraid of them. Besides not all are combatant, as for those that think the Ogas sleep wit them on the regular, go borrow sense cos they are the most respectable sets of women to have as a wife.
Go on and ask the single ones out,date them and come back here for testimonies.

E be like say you be military woman

Ohraykon:
naija I was thinking of having one as a bride since i cant become an officer bcus am an activist so sad!

Not only in naija . Even in the US I don hear gist. Im sure they cant all be bad. there will be one or two ( ugly ones most likely) who dont ft the bill

BruncleZuma:
That's a big NO...thank you for your tip OP but no...

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uncle why nah

Jaqenhghar:

uncle why nah

What I do nah

I Don laugh burst my belly. Is it how dangerous it is to date them military women?

itspzpics:
1.Your first impression can let her be interested in what you want to say to her; Introduce yourself as a man not a boy. Be straight forward in whatever u want say to her. Be bold to ask her nicely that u want 5 mins of her time as you know she is a busy woman. Don’t let your heart beat fear. And be interested in her career (Military) Ask her questions about her job.

2. Treat her like a lady; Although tactical road marches and field exercises are a part of her work life, she should still be treated with the same respect afforded to any civilian lady. Know that many military women feel relieved to be treated like a lady instead of “one of the boys”.

3. Learn something about the military; While you don’t have to learn every military cadence or historical battleground, it would be nice to know about life in her military world. What is her rank or company motto? Taking the time to learn new things will show her you care about her daily life and experiences.

4. Understand that she has military obligations that often do not allow her to make choices about her schedule; The military is a highly structured, detail oriented organization that emphasizes readiness and accountability. Although she may want to attend the weekend long festival with you, it may conflict with a scheduled assigned duty or test.

5. Keep her motivated; There may be times when she is depressed about upcoming events or procedural changes. For example, your date may be nervous that she won’t pass an upcoming mandatory physical fitness test. Provide comfort and support to help her through tough times.

6. Respect her role as a military service member; Although you may not agree with every military action, it is important to show appreciation for the sacrifice made by the soldiers. Do no belittle your date for her choices or views of the views and choices of those who command her.

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Only if the cockroach is wise enough will it know that no true friendship can exist betweeen it & the chicken cos one day level go change. My candid advice: go & woo a civilian lady.

KingAzubuike:
So what's special about them wey u no fit approach? If female soldier harass you them u no be man be that. For we hood we dey beat their male counterparts anyhow. They are not strong. Na just the gun dem dey carry and ability to recruit and regroup easily dey always give them ginger.

I wanted to insult you but I had a rethink when I saw your name and gender you bear. Regrouping of soldiers is what makes them soldiers. They were not trained to fight alone. Meanwhile, can you alone challenge a soldier?

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OP just chop bellefull and feels military women are the next ladies to start chasing. is this not Wonderful?!

To all fellow men who are already considering this, my advice is, respect yourself and save yourself the embarassment and future regrets.

if u eventually talk to her and she accepts, then what happens ?

You start dating her, their romantic gestures, an Aggression !

You have argument, It's either u get slapped at any slightest provocation and if u try to act funny and be a man u think u are, u will get planked by the team, at this point, just make sure you have a mother or sister who ll treat your broken bones and Ligaments.


she catches you with another chique. you are fired, with few days in guard room to top it up.

she is a typical woman, you know when women have the upper hand or are in power, things are always different. Military power dey always boost their ego seriously.

ok lets say u eventually marry her.. wetin you gain ?

Be a wise civilian

In Kizz Daniel's Voice, "No go dey do pass yourself".

Jaqenhghar:

Not only in naija . Even in the US I don hear gist. Im sure they cant all be bad. there will be one or two ( ugly ones most likely) who dont ft the bill

its so funny the top female officers keep quiet this is wat baffles me about women in naija dey dont trip me career wise most are not astounding. All they know is money money money.

Ohraykon:
its so funny the top female officers keep quiet this is wat baffles me about women in naija dey dont trip me career wise most are not astounding. All they know is money money money.

The ones at the top will say they too passe through the process so the ones coming up must go through the same. you know as the country be.

Jaqenhghar:

The ones at the top will say they too passe through the process so the ones coming up must go through the same. you know as the country be.

you are right sha i remember how they disgraced a female air woman who dint allow dem dey even raped her. I felt bad dat the female lawyers dint even help her. It was still the men dat condemned it. I weep for dis nation sha....

uchwar1:
I wanted to insult you but I had a rethink when I saw your name and gender you bear. Regrouping of soldiers is what makes them soldiers. They were not trained to fight alone. Meanwhile, can you alone challenge a soldier?

Lol for we yard Ikeja we dey beat them like fowl.

Ohraykon:
you are right sha i remember how they disgraced a female air woman who dint allow dem dey even raped her. I felt bad dat the female lawyers dint even help her. It was still the men dat condemned it. I weep for dis nation sha....

Dear leave all the whole talks,the discrimination in the military in Nigeria is on another level.None-commissioned officers are seen as errand boys and girls for the officers, as far u are an Oscar no level fr u.U dress well ,hv nice gadgets or even hv a car as a young nco,double wahala fr u.Its as if they expect us to an epitome of suffering. As for the senior female officers just leave those ones alone, majority of them see the younger airwomen as competitors for their officers boyfriend's and sugar daddies.The master slave relationship in the military is overwhelming dats why most times soilders lash out on innocent civilian

Ohraykon:
you are right sha i remember how they disgraced a female air woman who dint allow dem dey even raped her. I felt bad dat the female lawyers dint even help her. It was still the men dat condemned it. I weep for dis nation sha....

I remember that story. If you know the rot in the military you will throw up. I hear if you have a beautiful wife and one oga Or ogas) fancies her, that could be your death warrant. First they will post you to Maiduguri to the front lines. THen start pressuring her in your absence. If you fall in battle she will have to sleep with them before she can get any benefits. ... my brother, its crazy. IF they can do that to wives of serving men you can only imagine what serving women face

joyberry:
Dear leave all the whole talks,the discrimination in the military in Nigeria is on another level.None-commissioned officers are seen as errand boys and girls for the officers, as far u are an Oscar no level fr u.U dress well ,hv nice gadgets or even hv a car as a young nco,double wahala fr u.Its as if they expect us to an epitome of suffering. As for the senior female officers just leave those ones alone, majority of them see the younger airwomen as competitors for their officers boyfriend's and sugar daddies.The master slave relationship in the military is overwhelming dats why most times soilders lash out on innocent civilian

you are so right all this makes me feel so emotional. I wish there can be a revolution in the military. It's losing its professionalism daily. May God save the military and put it back in shape. Its well Nigeria will be great again.

Jaqenhghar:

I remember that story. If you know the rot in the military you will throw up. I hear if you have a beautiful wife and one oga Or ogas) fancies her, that could be your death warrant. First they will post you to Maiduguri to the front lines. THen start pressuring her in your absence. If you fall in battle she will have to sleep with them before she can get any benefits. ... my brother, its crazy. IF they can do that to wives of serving men you can only imagine what serving women face

bros i am sad sef all dis evil bcus one wants to serve nigeria. I hope in the future all dis won't pursue agile patriotic people away from the military. This is not the military i knew when i was growing up. May God bless the good officers its not easy serving naija with all dis demons in the force.

Jaqenhghar:

I remember that story. If you know the rot in the military you will throw up. I hear if you have a beautiful wife and one oga Or ogas) fancies her, that could be your death warrant. First they will post you to Maiduguri to the front lines. THen start pressuring her in your absence. If you fall in battle she will have to sleep with them before she can get any benefits. ... my brother, its crazy. IF they can do that to wives of serving men you can only imagine what serving women face

Asin ehen,the things hv seen senior officers do is equivalent to what king David did to uriah concerning his wife bathsheba.In the sex,drugs and parties are what make up the Nigerian military and people wonders why we cant defeat boko haram.Imagine my boss telling us the first law never drag a woman with ur superior even if she is ur gf.na woman matter we come do fr military? Other civilized countries their youths join the military to serve and protect their countries,its a thing of pride,in Nigeria for where na to sample people gfs and wives and beat up civilians.Cant wait to finish my schooling,either upgrade or leave the fucking job

Funny enough, both military guys and ladies are the most humble being I ever met. Maybe because of my military background. Maybe cos I'm always around them. Get to know people. It's not healthy to generalise

You remember growing; any stubborn girl is advised to join the military, this notion has already daint their image.

joyberry:
Nairalanders as usual showing their myopic reasonings,i cant marry a military woman cos of promiscuity, am not going to deny the fact that we get involved with our colleagues and superiors alot.When u are always confined to a particular space,work and live in the base,of course u become attracted to people u see everyday. We tend to marry ourselves aot too cos we understand the dos and donts of the job,drills,fire alarms and all.
About the promiscuity angle,every woman has a tendency to be promiscuous, its all about opportunity,Including the civilian ladies sef,Having performed duties at yhe main gate alot and ushered in a lot of military events, i hv seen the number of ladies who troop into the base on daily basis to hook up with senior officers.Corpers in the base hv turned to our officers sexmates and cleaners all in the hope of getting a job or becoming NAFOWA.Most of my civilian girlfriends hv begged me to hook them up with senior officers.
Am not slandering civilians here,am just trying to get a message passed accross the promiscuity angle isnt limited to military personnels alone.Most of those ypur civilian girlfriends will leave u and run away if a very senior officer ask her out, hv seen a case where a civilian female staff walked out on her boyfriend and followed a one star general for a rendezvous.
Lastly no one is making it a must to date military women, if u like one fone if u don't fancy them fine too.We are flesh and blood like civilians, nothing different about our bodies. Shalom

True words, but you should know there's another reason civilian males mostly Stay away from females in the armed forces.


Fear of victimisation from colleagues. And to a large extent from the lady herself.


It may be unfounded, but it's true.

0ppa:

That assertion is quite wrong. In fact, we really do maintain civilian-military relationships.
If you dress properly, speak civilly and have a problem, you will be surprised how nicely you will be treated.

Both of you have a point. But the fact remains that in general an average civilian has an unhealthy dread for anyone in a uniform, and I'm sorry to say, this fear is not entirely baseless.