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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 4:39pm On May 07, 2019
ginovera:


Am all smiling saying yes to your line of thought. Very brilliant response dear. Wish i could share a Campari with you on this! wink

Alcohol is like a smile. Its better when shared.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:39pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
that feeds my dick
... Funny guy

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Akuruoulo(m): 4:39pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
she makes a move but guys always miss the green lights. Because they are so subtle. Very minimal. And can be mistaken for other things. Green lights are always very dim.



green light isn't a move , and she will be forming on top am. THAT ON NA MOVE ?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by moorevic(m): 4:40pm On May 07, 2019
Osheee de don pussy hunter
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by prudentsolution: 4:41pm On May 07, 2019
Toseenlove:


Ogbeni shut up your fucking stinky mouth. Woman pants drycleaner. Akidanidani Gbewudani. Thunder fire u there mtcheeew.




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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Jaapaa: 4:42pm On May 07, 2019
You’re the one allowing all these bullshit. I hardly call the girls I have Bleep and I made it known to them I’m doing them a favor not the other way round. It’s like Christmas to them whenever I pick their calls. You need to make it known to them that it’s a privilege been with you!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:42pm On May 07, 2019
Akuruoulo:




green light isn't a move , and she will be forming on top am. THAT ON NA MOVE ?
that's how girls move. That's the best you'll get. Girls choose you. You respond.

When they form it's because your opening lines disappointed. She thought you were Alpha and you openned like a Simp.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Angy55(f): 4:43pm On May 07, 2019
highcollide:
Our society is filled with useless men. Men who have no self-respect and self-control. Men who run after all kind of women. Men without taste. Men who fall for big ass, big breasts fine face etc.....


Go to the atm, a man will allow a woman enter the line just because she has a fine face. Etc....


In as long as I'd love to bash women, I'd also admit that our present generation of men is filled with manginas. Men who desperately seek validation from women. This same crop of men have brought the standard of men so low that women are now seeing men as rubbish, hence bringing up stupid ideologies like feminism, misandry etc

Stop weakening our masculinity to please or worship women and watch them revert to their factory settings.

Well said.. imagine my colleague shouting at the BM in my place of work without him coughing., She comes to work late, she's always breaking rules all because he is yanshing her.. Men brought this upon themselves. It wasn't like this in the times of old. Breast lovers, big yansh lovers, make up face lovers etc.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Dami12345: 4:43pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
she makes a move but guys always miss the green lights. Because they are so subtle. Very minimal. And can be mistaken for other things. Green lights are always very dim.

Like walking past you a million times? Always happening to be alone and close by?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:44pm On May 07, 2019
Dami12345:


Like walking past you a million times? Always happening to be alone and close by?
in definitely writing on this.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ecclize: 4:44pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:


Every time I see something like this,it gets me thinking what it is about women that attracts them to people who treat them like shit? Is it low self esteem, fear of the unknown, age or just plain foolishness? And I don't want to hear LOVE biko..

For heaven's sake everyone - male and female - deserves to be celebrated and appreciated. Why is it difficult to leave the asshole who treats you like shit whether male or female?
if i tell u that does not surprise me then nothing will ever surprise me again
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by prudentsolution: 4:44pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
blame the Law of the Jungle that is alive and active in all of us. We mistake Kindness for Weakness. And THAT is where things go south



Ubunja, you're spot on on this We mistake Kindness for Weakness. And THAT is where things go south


I stopped talking with a chick for 6 months now because she mistook my kindness for weakness, now she's begging and crying for my attention. grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by moorevic(m): 4:44pm On May 07, 2019
Biaa did you finish your WAEC, you sound so much like a retard. grin grin
Jodha:
Yhu sound like a weakling... How will yhu be contributing 50-50 with a woman...tufiakwa...even dates...

Yhure not ready at all ...

And as for the girl...I don't blame her at all...yhu were the one chyking her ..so why would she call yhu?...it's not like yhu guys were in a relationship sef..

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Dami12345: 4:45pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
she makes a move but guys always miss the green lights. Because they are so subtle. Very minimal. And can be mistaken for other things. Green lights are always very dim.
Like walking past you a million times? Always happening to be alone and close by?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 4:45pm On May 07, 2019
prudentsolution:



The wholeness in the mind of the individual is worth appraising Ubunja, and when i see such, i stand to appluad. Don't worry, i won't simp, i promise

Dance if you want,play nice,jump,clap,simp if you f**king want to. No one should lead their lives and teach you how to lead yours...
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by MrCuteking(m): 4:45pm On May 07, 2019
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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:45pm On May 07, 2019
Angy55:


Well said.. imagine my colleague shouting at the BM in my place of work without him coughing., She comes to work late, she's always breaking rules all because he is yanshing her.. Men brought this upon themselves. It wasn't like this in the times of old. Breast lovers, big yansh lovers, make up face lovers etc.
agreed. FULLY.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Dami12345: 4:45pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
in definitely writing on this.

Will expect.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by pansophist(m): 4:46pm On May 07, 2019
This female behaviour is completely understood when you understand the underlying female psychology. Female psychology is in reverse to the Male.

Men are hardwired to care and be sacrificial for others, meanwhile, women are hardwired to be cared and catered for. Their psychology is in reverse to the Male, hence, the observation the poster described accurately. Treat a woman nice, she will think she is better and awesome, and might consider you undeserving of her, it appeals to her self centeredness and narcissism. Conversely, Treats a man nice and he will think you're awesome, and treat you like the best thing ever. This is also why some men are stuck in the friend zone, since they are judging a woman from their own worldview. They think that when you are like a saviour to her, she will honour and wants you, just as a man will behave. That's a fatal mistake.

To break yourself through and not be a victim of her psychology, you have to put yourself first, treat yourself nice and focus all the energy in making yourself like the best thing. In other words, be as selfish and self centred as her, and set your standards high, that's when she interpret such as a sign of a quality man, and sit up to get your commitment. Dont worship her, shower her with attention and dont even spend much on her, it's a death sentence and an instant attraction killer. Thank me later.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 4:46pm On May 07, 2019
Athena4:
And you weren't getting"screwed".So you proceed to go full blown INCEL mode on NL.You sound pathetic man.Your followers are sad, insecure pussy nîggers that can't believe that the whole world does not revolve around them. U sound like your mama sexually abused you as a kid or something.Seriously.
Get the Bleep out of this thread you wuss. Someone speaks the truth instead of countering what he said with reasoning you decided to be an idiot and attack him.


We are dealing with an issue in our society. If you have no contribution, Get lost!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by prudentsolution: 4:46pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:


Dance if you want,play nice,jump,clap,simp if you f**king want to. No one should lead their lives and teach you how to lead yours...




Sorry who d fvck r u?

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by captianfreeman(m): 4:46pm On May 07, 2019
I no fit read all this article. But the reason is simple. Once you are sleeping with a Nigerian woman, she will begin to think that she is doing you a favor. It is call
Sense of entitlement.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by moorevic(m): 4:47pm On May 07, 2019
Cheers mate
catwalq:


Alcohol is like a smile. Its better when shared.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:47pm On May 07, 2019
prudentsolution:



The wholeness in the mind of the individual is worth appraising Ubunja, and when i see such, i stand to appluad. Don't worry, i won't simp, i promise
this just made my day. cool
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 4:48pm On May 07, 2019
Angy55:


Well said.. imagine my colleague shouting at the BM in my place of work without him coughing., She comes to work late, she's always breaking rules all because he is yanshing her.. Men brought this upon themselves. It wasn't like this in the times of old. Breast lovers, big yansh lovers, make up face lovers etc.
That is a known fact. Even if you're 30 years older than a woman, or she's your maid, once the two of una don climb bed, una don be mates....

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by fabienjoe: 4:49pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:


For pie's sake what kinda people have you been dealing with? I mean,how can you put someone in a box and only refer to em when it suits you and it somehow increases their desire for you? I don't get how that works...

You expressed my outrage..I mean how twisted can one get? And how does this fit into marriage?..I mean, is she gonna continue this warped game with her husband?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Masionreay: 4:49pm On May 07, 2019
highcollide:
Our society is filled with useless men. Men who have no self-respect and self-control. Men who run after all kind of women. Men without taste. Men who fall for big ass, big breasts fine face etc.....


Go to the atm, a man will allow a woman enter the line just because she has a fine face. Etc....


In as long as I'd love to bash women, I'd also admit that our present generation of men is filled with manginas. Men who desperately seek validation from women. This same crop of men have brought the standard of men so low that women are now seeing men as rubbish, hence bringing up stupid ideologies like feminism, misandry etc

Stop weakening our masculinity to please or worship women and watch them revert to their factory settings.

You must have read lots of philosophy books...
That of Fredrich Nyetche.
Women are slaves...and Tyrants.
Slaves and Tyrants have something in common.
That's"you can't satisfy them by being your true self.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:49pm On May 07, 2019
Athena4:
And you weren't getting"screwed".So you proceed to go full blown INCEL mode on NL.You sound pathetic man.Your followers are sad, insecure pussy nîggers that can't believe that the whole world does not revolve around them. U sound like your mama sexually abused you as a kid or something.Seriously.
lmfao. Good try
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Athena4: 4:49pm On May 07, 2019
[quote author=highcollide post=78187438]Get the Bleep out of this thread you wuss. Someone speaks the truth instead of countering what he said with reasoning you decided to be an idiot and attack him.


We are dealing with an issue in our society. If my comment pain you go and jump from MTN mast.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Stillthebest: 4:51pm On May 07, 2019
Imoh555:



I am very blunt and plain with women especially when criticizing them and telling them they look terrible or they ain't shiit and the good thing is that women love it when you actually don't worship or idolize them,....treat her good and she takes you for granted, treat her like a piece of rag and watch her never wants to depart from you... (boys don't get this logic) it doesn't mean you guys should be women beaters... Thanks for your educations ubunja I hope there are some new stuffs to read from you soon.... I'm starved



You are damn correct. 120% it works like fire. It worked for me like fire. In fact I sent one Gtb staff I was dating out of my house for an offense that she committed which I hate but some nice guys will still tolerate her. She didn't Leave my door oo even after slamming it on her. But you can't form it. It must be inside of you to be a tough guy else ou will misapply it and girls will run away from you because in between you must posses qualities that won't make her want to leave.

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