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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by OLAJADON: 5:07pm On May 07, 2019
Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense


God bless you for this, I am also facing this same thing in my relationship. A relationship should be two sided not everything has to be the man the man all the time

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by airprinz(m): 5:08pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
I can't coz I don't remember dating one. Or I did without realizing it.

Not that I put much value in star signs, but what I have seen on the forums I frequent, the consensus is that Geminis seem to work well with Aquarians.
What star sign are you
And what of Pisces? Who well can they work with?

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Ginalex(f): 5:09pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
that's the best you can do? Dragging my family into NL...
You didn't think about them when you made the statement "All women are whores" now did you? grin, Awwn! Well I just did well to remind you that they're part of the female race...

Oya cry undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Masionreay: 5:09pm On May 07, 2019
Athena4:
And you weren't getting"screwed".So you proceed to go full blown INCEL mode on NL.You sound pathetic man.Your followers are sad, insecure pussy nîggers that can't believe that the whole world does not revolve around them. U sound like your mama sexually abused you as a kid or something.Seriously.
Psychologically, u lack the analytical reasoning. You didn't get the message OP wanted to pass.
Some guys are sex crazed that they can sell there character just to have sex with a Lady.
Don't forget that women are like babies...praise them today...they expect it forever and vice versa

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Kingjames(m): 5:09pm On May 07, 2019
fecosequence:
I thank God for this post. you deserve one bottle of beer op .let me reserve my comment before my inbox go full
na me dem dey talk to honestly

have learnt a lot from this thread

most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by emmyreelz(m): 5:10pm On May 07, 2019
Entitlement mentality is the word. some have been pretty conditioned to believe that men owe them the world. Even speaking to them could be a privilege.
If you're a lady reading this, hear this loud and again, No man owes you nothing. Deal with it.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Acidosis(m): 5:12pm On May 07, 2019
Truth is if you enjoy the kind of attention the average woman enjoys on a daily basis, you wouldn't give a flying fck about who calls you or not.

If you want to understand the trick, try and date at least 4 women at the same time. It would take you around 2-3 days to realize you haven't heard from one of the four women. Why should you care or remember when 3 have gotten you overwhelmed with calls and chats?

Bottom line is many of you guys are nothing but mere OPTIONS. That you make them your priority changes nothing.


[NB: This analogy is not applicable to those in serious and committed relationships though]

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by DearIsrael: 5:13pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
Hmmm...I need lectures from you o

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Athena4: 5:14pm On May 07, 2019
Masionreay:

Psychologically, u lack the analytical reasoning. You didn't get the message OP wanted to pass.
Some guys are sex crazed that they can sell there character just to have sex with a Lady.
Don't forget that women are like babies...praise them today...they expect it forever and vice versa
You are such a Booooring Droooool.Ur mamas infantile disabilities aren't present in every other woman. Other women are not like the ones related to you my dear.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ginovera: 5:16pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:


Alcohol is like a smile. Its better when shared.

Very well said...looking forward!! smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Revolva(m): 5:18pm On May 07, 2019
Follow dis

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by airprinz(m): 5:18pm On May 07, 2019
Newguyhere:


Scorpio
Dude, don't give up. Persuade her to find it out for you...She's a good researcher, gifted in studying humans a lot

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by oshaosha2014(m): 5:19pm On May 07, 2019
You are very right oh. Even in the process that I am asking a lady out I am always on the lookout to see any bit reciprocation from her. If I don’t see any I just give myself sense immediately and know I don’t belong there. We all deserve to be loved, man or woman.
ubunja:
lmfao.
It's everywhere. It's just that guys don't go for the girls who really love them but force themselves on girls that never really love them. When a girl loves you she puts effort. She never sits on her hands.
It's sad but most guys will die never knowing the love of a girl that is pure and self-generated.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Ekakamba: 5:19pm On May 07, 2019
This one na ace oooo... Make I follow you for nyash. cool
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Toseenlove: 5:20pm On May 07, 2019
highcollide:
That is a known fact. Even if you're 30 years older than a woman, or she's your maid, once the two of una don climb bed, una don be mates....

Lol precisely...... Very nonsensical ladies these days, Even though Some Useless Starved Pussy Men were the cause of this Jagbajantis.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 5:20pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
You are indeed smarter than an average Nigerian lady. Had to click on your moniker to see who this is? Alas, you South African. Well done intelligent head.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by davidadenrele: 5:22pm On May 07, 2019
Hello OP,


You made quite a touching salient point here that's very most peculiar about most of Nigerian ladies, without generalizing it can be painful and disappointing why our ladies form hard to get only to fall cheap at the end, your point are undeniable fact but if you ask me your thought and expectation from this babes are foreign and and not localize, its only the first world you asked a babe out on date with simple courtesy and she said yes!!! no big deal and if the friendship would eventually lead to something serious she already see you as her boyfriend and she will endlessly get to know if you aint serious anymore about the relationship cos she will observe you are not the same guy she used to know, thats not to say all our Nigerian babes are terrible personal experience are involved sometimes, i have seen a situation where a babe i asked out once surprised me without any serious motive give me call and asked that we should go out to watch a movie, i didnt want to act as if i wasn't man enough neither do i know whats this babe is up to, cos i know what our typical naija babes can do sometimes, to i agreed and we meet at ozone, before i said hey, she has paid for the movie, bought 2 soda drinks and 2 pop corn, trust me she was damn pretty i was so scared and i was feeling very... very uneasy throughout while the movie lasted i kept wondering is this babe for real guess what i chickened out at last cos the babe didnt see any of this nice moves as any big deal she would call me most times, and would always want us to hang out together she was damn too independent in cause of dating her i found out that was her personality, she wasn't in anyway desperate or trying to be with me or impress it the moral lesson of this not all our Nigerian babes are all that bad, just pray you meet the right one that would appreciate you and you would appreciate her back, i lost out cos i was naive and i was not experience enough to handle the said babe trust me there are very good babe out here.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Masionreay: 5:22pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:


With everyday of this kinda power play the woman relinquishes more of her worth to the man. This goes on until a narcissistic husband is born. You can divide that into physical,mental and emotional abuse. Just because the nigger is too weak to treat her nicely regardless of her issues.

Truth is one can't give what one doesn't have. Be it respect,tenderness,affection whatever. So you can't really blame em. They need help too,they just don't realise it or won't admit to it. And so the cycle continues

From my research...if you're being too nice to a woman ur name is gonna . she wants to see that real man in you by being decisive and stiff no matter how beautiful or wet toto she gives. In her subconscious mind she wants a man like that. Even u does same ...if doubt it , look through ur inner self.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by akiOYIBO: 5:27pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
call it what you want.

All I know is that it makes women drop their panties and open those legs.
pls teach me reverse psychology
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Masionreay: 5:30pm On May 07, 2019
Athena4:
You are such a Booooring Droooool.Ur mamas infantile disabilities aren't present in every other woman. Other women are not like the ones related to you my dear.

I can clearly see your pains. You're a frustrated buffon.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Athena4: 5:31pm On May 07, 2019
aaronson:
You are indeed smarter than an average Nigerian lady. Had to click on your moniker to see who this is? Alas, you South African. Well done intelligent head.
*Laughs in xenophobia*
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Gabson001(m): 5:32pm On May 07, 2019
You nailed it bro.. Nairaland girls go hate u bcuz them hate truth, buh no fear i dey your back
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Toseenlove: 5:33pm On May 07, 2019
Philpham:
Nigerian men are devils, women should never give then anything back, even love

Lol very funny.

Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Athena4: 5:33pm On May 07, 2019
Masionreay:


I can clearly see your pains. You're a frustrated buffon.

That's it?.You wouldn't recognize a good woman even if she had "Good woman" carved on her head. U come here they form psychologist. Well You are Boooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooring. Go cry to your baby brained mother and sisters.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 5:34pm On May 07, 2019
akiOYIBO:

pls teach me reverse psychology
to get a girl act like you don't want her.

It's that simple. Chase her she runs. Don't chase her she chases you. When you ignore a girl she thinks you have many girls ready to do your will. So she wants you more.

If you toast a girl NEVER say you're single. Never.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by oshaosha2014(m): 5:35pm On May 07, 2019
The ones that catch your fancy, go after them, and look out for the traits ubunja mentioned up there, in them. It’s that simple.

Akuruoulo:




A GIRL WHO LOVE YOU WON'T MAKE A MOVE ABOUT IT , AND SO A GUY WILL ALWAYS GO FOR A GIRL HIS EYES IS PLEASED WITH FIRST. SO...
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Raalsalghul: 5:35pm On May 07, 2019
Acidosis:
Truth is if you enjoy the kind of attention the average woman enjoys on a daily basis, you wouldn't give a flying fck about who calls you or not.

If you want to understand the trick, try and date at least 4 women at the same time. It would take you around 2-3 days to realize you haven't heard from one of the four women. Why should you care or remember when 3 have gotten you overwhelmed with calls and chats?

Bottom line is many of you guys are nothing but mere OPTIONS. That you make them your priority changes nothing.


[NB: This analogy is not applicable to those in serious and committed relationships though]
Bitter Truth!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 5:38pm On May 07, 2019
Ginalex:
You didn't think about them when you made the statement "All women are whores" now did you? grin, Awwn! Well I just did well to remind you that they're part of the female race...

Oya cry undecided
you're not making the point you think you're making.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by oshaosha2014(m): 5:39pm On May 07, 2019
Everything is not about money. You should see signs she’s willing to give to you even if she doesn’t have money. That alone shows she’s a keeper. Not the other ones that believe it is their birthright to receive and not give little back at least.

CaesarDon:
You can't give what you don't hAve

It's a well known fact that 90% of naija girls are broke

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 5:39pm On May 07, 2019
tintingz:
You're generalizing too much and it's a problem.
the day you learn that generalizations are the name of the game you'll go far.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Ogegod87: 5:40pm On May 07, 2019
boiz2men:
my busy mode spikes at uncertain times of the year.... during those times, i know those that want me too as much as I want them... During my free time, I chat and call.... When I am busy, I completely forget (even family) to call or message anyone.. This is when I know people I am not forcing myself on. And I have a weird wiring. Super easy to move on (except they have more money). grin cheesy


Are you scorpio born? You just described me.

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