Omega30:
Saffi my babe is here again!!U no I follow u every where u go. Girls, listen to this girl and be SINGLE forever!!!

Awe4luv:

u seem touched....but it's the blunt truth u know it deep down.....I have never had much luck around women coz am a soft guy who doesn't derive joy from hurting them, but my friend? u need to see how they flock around him, he abuses, curses and shout at them but they seem to love him that way....

Would you stop mopping please. you're virtually littering everywhere with tears. Be a man

catwalq:


That's trauma that affect one's psychic. And treating them badly isn't gonna help. Sometimes women show you their vulnerability so you can show them their strength. Putting them down isn't helping,that's abuse. While it further shatters their ego,you are also being a jerk..

I don't believe in reverse psychology ( though it can be thrilling to work it on people ). If you like someone be nice,if you don't like em still be nice and let em go. No benefit in playing God.

u saying something but my dear, it doesn't work that way, I mean u are not a man, that guy up there just told you what works and that's it....lol...women, I still can't forget a girl I dated from June to august last year...#spits.....I played so nice, spend money on her but what do I get, she comes back to call me stingy, saying I was been a fool and in love, those comments hurts me till today....

sweetilicious:
I don't agree on this one.

Na lie?

sweetilicious:
You did.I will call you

081005122--

ubunja:
lmfao.
It's everywhere. It's just that guys don't go for the girls who really love them but force themselves on girls that never really love them. When a girl loves you she puts effort. She never sits on her hands.
It's sad but most guys will die never knowing the love of a girl that is pure and self-generated.

I'm suprised!
kunleweb, your friend has suprised me.

Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense

Seriously ,, it's very appalling ... Very very ..
And it has made me to be a philander ,, cos most girls don't worth it ...
The last one that vexed me is this girl that I met online ... ,, She is studying in my Alma mater tho... Seriously I really fall for her ,, I liked her with much enthusiasm and admiration. Seriously my heart leapt in joy each time I think about her... I spilled many words to her .. words I have never spilled to any girl . Our chat was more like a face to face conversation... ,, I noticed that I was always the person to call and text ... Going to my Alma mater to meet her is a Small challenge... ,, At a time ,, I decide to stop being the one to text first and call... Lo and behold ,, babe started being non-challant ,, babe was lackadaisical to text me first .. ,, as an exuberant guy ,, I decide to forget ,, and live my life ... Up till now ,, babe never call or text ... Since last year till now

prudentsolution:




Would you stop mopping please. you're virtually littering everywhere with tears. Be a man

for saying that style works wonders?

MissJoy29:

I'm suprised!
kunleweb, your friend has suprised me.

Ubunja's one of the most intelligent men on the planet, Show some respect. We both belong to the highlest league of elitesmen. Whatever we say, the universe rubberstamps it. Show some respect

ubunja:
the day you learn that generalizations are the name of the game you'll go far.

Nope, generalizing is nonsensical!

Saffi is rubber glued to this thread like her existence is dependent on it. Tufia. Abeg i need to go, everyday fight on this forum

GiantParrot:


It's actually funny. A vendor may have a very high opinion of her wares, but what does it matter when the buyer has a low opinion of said wares? The vendor may sing praises of her wares from morning till night, that is irrelevant to the buyer. The wares will grow old with the seller until it is sold at a price the buyer approves of.

That captures everything.

As a woman, you start losing it at age 25. It may not appear immediately but that’s the starting point.

Saffi:
Wait. Do you know how many 23 year olds look 31 in this generation? You won’t even be able to tell the difference between at 24 year old and a 30 year old woman so what the hell are you saying?. But realistically, 23,23,25 to 30 the difference is relatively 5 years. I’m sorry but are you telling me in 5 years a single woman will just crumble into an old woman that automatically becomes undesirable to all men? You guys really need to grow up. Realistically most women do not start losing their looks until they start having children and add weight, but age wise, I’ll say after 36/35 the looks start to fade and aging begins. And this depends on the person. Listen, I’m a realist I don’t have to lie about nothing, I see things for what they are. But I need you guys to stop being delusional and actually wake up.

tiptoe1:


It's never a dull moment reading ubunja's posts. That very post alone should make all these sissy men get wise

Using this thread and the kind of comments i read from the responsible 'NICE' men, i have come to a conclusion

Foolishness can't be genetically modified...

kunleweb:




Ubunja's one of the most intelligent men on the planet, Show some respect. We both belong to the highlest league of elitesmen. Whatever we say, the universe rubberstamps it. Show some respect

Lol....you are not serious.
Highest league indeed!

MissJoy29:

Lol....you are not serious.
Highest league indeed!

If you know, you know. If I were you ill be begging Ubunja to take you.

[quote author=Imoh555 post=78172599]Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyki

kunleweb:



If you know, you know. If I were you ill be begging Ubunja to take you.

I can't go to hell...
Isn't that where he'll take me to?

Lmao

Omega30:
Saffi my babe is here again!!U no I follow u every where u go. Girls, listen to this girl and be SINGLE forever!!!

MissJoy29:

I can't go to hell...
Isn't that where he'll take me to?

Ubunja is one of the best. Minds I've ever met. If you can discern beyond words. You folks will see beneath his words into the glorious person he is. I Don tell you.

kunleweb:

Ubunja is one of the best. Minds I've ever met. If you can discern beyond words. You folks will see beneath his words into the glorious person he is. I Don tell you.

Indeed!

Imoh555:


Ubunja is the nightmare of hungry nairaland girls and a rabbi of great eye opening secretes...

comfirm

Saffi:
Well no high class confident sensible desirable woman in her 20s will become a babymum to a man who doesn’t even have money. I need you to stop being delusional. Your baby mum is not extremely desirable and she never has been. Stop feeling yourself for no reason. Your tricks can only work on below than average women.

is obvious you're single you just got fuckeed and was paid 100k, so 100k is the the highest amount you have recieved and you feel you're ontop of the world' young girl get a job and make some real money, 100k is not worth opening vagina for any dick available.. before you die premature

Please save the rest of what makes you a man by not ever calling her or try to reach out her in anyway.

Kinjikitile:

Seriously ,, it's very appalling ... Very very ..
And it has made me to be a philander ,, cos most girls don't worth it ...
The last one that vexed me is this girl that I met online ... ,, She is studying in my Alma mater tho... Seriously I really fall for her ,, I liked her with much enthusiasm and admiration. Seriously my heart leapt in joy each time I think about her... I spilled many words to her .. words I have never spilled to any girl . Our chat was more like a face to face conversation... ,, I noticed that I was always the person to call and text ... Going to my Alma mater to meet her is a Small challenge... ,, At a time ,, I decide to stop being the one to text first and call... Lo and behold ,, babe started being non-challant ,, babe was lackadaisical to text me first .. ,, as an exuberant guy ,, I decide to forget ,, and live my life ... Up till now ,, babe never call or text ... Since last year till now

Jodha:
Yhu sound like a weakling... How will yhu be contributing 50-50 with a woman...tufiakwa...even dates...

Yhure not ready at all ...

And as for the girl...I don't blame her at all...yhu were the one chyking her ..so why would she call yhu?...it's not like yhu guys were in a relationship sef..

shut up there.
Your brain is so dull and filled with maggots

Kinjikitile:

Seriously ,, it's very appalling ... Very very ..
And it has made me to be a philander ,, cos most girls don't worth it ...
The last one that vexed me is this girl that I met online ... ,, She is studying in my Alma mater tho... Seriously I really fall for her ,, I liked her with much enthusiasm and admiration. Seriously my heart leapt in joy each time I think about her... I spilled many words to her .. words I have never spilled to any girl . Our chat was more like a face to face conversation... ,, I noticed that I was always the person to call and text ... Going to my Alma mater to meet her is a Small challenge... ,, At a time ,, I decide to stop being the one to text first and call... Lo and behold ,, babe started being non-challant ,, babe was lackadaisical to text me first .. ,, as an exuberant guy ,, I decide to forget ,, and live my life ... Up till now ,, babe never call or text ... Since last year till now

you're not alone bro.
The girls of this generation are so utterly useless

jojothaiv:

Using this thread and the kind of comments i read from the responsible 'NICE' men, i have come to a conclusion

Foolishness can't be genetically modified...

Advise them from now till Jesus comes, they'll never listen cause they think being nice gets them women easily(yes it does but the type of women you get matters) but Ubunja aka wikileaks has said it all

BEING BAD GETS YOU WOMEN AT THE BEGINNING WHEN THEY ARE FRESH AND SWEET AND BEING GOOD GETS YOU WOMEN AT THE END WHEN THEY ARE DAMAGED TRASH.

ubunja:
this is the reason why we always tell guys STOP SIMPING. STOP BEING NICE GUYS. The problem is the sexual market has been oversaturated with Beta Mangina Simps who are competing to worship women.
When we tell Martin0 to stop idolizing women it's like we are bad guys. But worshiping women gets them mentally spoiled. On Social Media, guys desperate for pussy will tell an average girl who is a 5 that she's a 10 just to flatter her. And the same idiots complain that average girls on the street are forming like 10s. Yet these same niggahs are responsible for that behaviour in women. Men need to stop simping and everything will revert back to normal.

Stop giving compliments everywhere. Stop validating these whôrés. You're making things difficult for yourselves

I Love you for this post

catwalq:


That's trauma that affect one's psychic. And treating them badly isn't gonna help. Sometimes women show you their vulnerability so you can show them their strength. Putting them down isn't helping,that's abuse. While it further shatters their ego,you are also being a jerk..

I don't believe in reverse psychology ( though it can be thrilling to work it on people ). If you like someone be nice,if you don't like em still be nice and let em go. No benefit in playing God.

None whatsoever. Prioblem is, women sometimes are confused about what they want. and its difficult to get a complete package in man. Women Want it all though.

Saffi:
Your ex girlfriend is either below average or unattractive or has extremely low self esteem and will receive any type of validation from a man. You probably didn’t spend a dime on her and she opened her legs to be your baby mum? Not matter what you say, you can’t compare her to desirable ladies in society. Now that she’s your babymama her value has decreased so of course, she will chase you endlessly. I can assure you that she’s not a high class woman with many options, that men crave to have. So keep on feeling good about yourself because you have the lowest of the lowest class of woman as your babymum begging for your attention. The fact that she’s your baby mum already tells me the type of woman she is.

Your type has nothing to offer except vane pompousity.
The so called high class girls are the most frustrated Women as the end there of doesn't favour them.
By the way ,how do u define "classic"?
To me it's more of manners than the whole fake body with artificial voltured nails.
The worst part is that when they wear those stuffs, they would think that they have landed.

ubunja:

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.

Lol, Oya remove that (f) from your username, its creepy

GiantParrot:


The bolded is your conclusion, not mine. I made no such conclusion. And the conclusion is wrong. And you're right, it sounds stupid. And since it is your conclusion, maybe you can see that you sound stupid. I do not invent the facts. As I have consistently maintained, nature cares not about anyone's delusions.

This will be my last response to you. You're uncouth and will not be dignified with any further response.

Born with it then