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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 07, 2019
Kinjikitile:

Seriously ,, it's very appalling ... Very very ..
And it has made me to be a philander ,, cos most girls don't worth it ...
The last one that vexed me is this girl that I met online ... ,, She is studying in my Alma mater tho... Seriously I really fall for her ,, I liked her with much enthusiasm and admiration. Seriously my heart leapt in joy each time I think about her... I spilled many words to her .. words I have never spilled to any girl . Our chat was more like a face to face conversation... ,, I noticed that I was always the person to call and text ... Going to my Alma mater to meet her is a Small challenge... ,, At a time ,, I decide to stop being the one to text first and call... Lo and behold ,, babe started being non-challant ,, babe was lackadaisical to text me first .. ,, as an exuberant guy ,, I decide to forget ,, and live my life ... Up till now ,, babe never call or text ... Since last year till now
She wasn't into you in d first place. Off course many ladies are too nice to bluntly say No. I think when a woman truly loves you, you'd know.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Masionreay: 11:06pm On May 07, 2019
Saffi:
Oh please just shut up. They’re women around me who are 30,31 who look 24/25/23. It’s not uncommon. Because relatively it’s still somewhat of the same age group. Women dont start aging noticeably until late 30s or until they start having kids. And even at that it depends on how well the person takes care of themselves. Stop being so dumb please for once.

This depends on her genetic make up. It is genetic. That u saw her looks young or she feigned to be young,does not mean she is. In one way or the other u would know that this one is a Grand Ma. Either through her finger,face,stomach etc.you must know.
The golden truth is that women age geometrically. Many Women who are in their middle 20s are noticeably very old.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:06pm On May 07, 2019
Masionreay:

Your type has nothing to offer except vane pompousity.
The so called high class girls are the most frustrated Women as the end there of doesn't favour them.
By the way ,how do u define "classic"?
To me it's more of manners than the whole fake body with artificial voltured nails.
The worst part is that when they wear those stuffs, they would think that they have landed.
Not savage enough for d savegery given to ur babymama bro
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by fcdgrand(m): 11:10pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja apost=78188728:
to get a girl act like you don't want her.

It's that simple. Chase her she runs. Don't chase her she chases you. When you ignore a girl she thinks you have many girls ready to do your will. So she wants you more.

If you toast a girl NEVER say you're single. Never.
ubunja the man

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Bbbwings: 11:16pm On May 07, 2019
Lordknowz:
I really dont understand why men cant just act like men anymore. Women are very tricky being in nature. They believe in trickying men to make that way thru. Thats why a man should never deal with a woman with emotions cos once they see that your falling stupidly one kind, they'll bounce on you. Instead, men should use strategies. You can always win over their trick with your strategy. In olden days, the warriors & strong men own the best women, They didnt fall stupidly for them & as you can see, the women served them well. Dont get too brainwashed about men needing women the most, its a fallacy of life! They needed us more. You can make it in life without any help from any woman. You can build your house, get your nice dream cars, travel to your dream places without any help from any woman. If not for kids & fun, they're just another human parasite. Men should stop begging for love, its useless. Dont beg for sex, its stupidity. Once you can control yourself over the 2 bullshit, then your a man for life. You'll live long and and sick less. You know when you keep prospering without worries. You go dey gallant!
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Toseenlove: 11:21pm On May 07, 2019
Saffi:
To any woman reading do not give a man a dime. Not one penny , until he has spent at least 100k+ on you. Then you can just reciprocate with something small on his bday or vday just to be nice. You are not his wife, he is the one chasing you and asking you out, not the other way round,he is begging YOU to get in your pants. You are the prize not him.


I’m out.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by realest2(m): 11:24pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
preach bro, preach!!..wow wow wow

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Bbbwings: 11:27pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
you don't have to put another woman down whom you don't even know just to make a point that doesn't exist.
You just earned a follow button.. cheesy

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by boiz2men(m): 11:32pm On May 07, 2019
Ogegod87:



Are you scorpio born? You just described me.

No I am not
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Bbbwings: 11:36pm On May 07, 2019
GiantParrot:


The bolded is your conclusion, not mine. I made no such conclusion. And the conclusion is wrong. And you're right, it sounds stupid. And since it is your conclusion, maybe you can see that you sound stupid. I do not invent the facts. As I have consistently maintained, nature cares not about anyone's delusions.

This will be my last response to you. You're uncouth and will not be dignified with any further response.
Saffi is being emotional.
There is a reason that the risk of a child being born with down syndrome increases significantly when she starts reaching 35. The more reason to marry younger ladies.
I don't want no stupid kids.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:36pm On May 07, 2019
Na those ladies go finally kill you. Go and make something of your life jare
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Korllami007: 11:46pm On May 07, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
She wasn't into you in d first place. Off course many ladies are too nice to bluntly say No. I think when a woman truly loves you, you'd know.

Not in all cases. Abi no be naija girls you de talk about? Girl go like guy but she go still form hard to get. How d guy wan te know say she like him. Unless you're not talking about naija girls. Some girls wan guy to chase them for 10 years before them say yes in the name of play hard to get.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Bbbwings: 11:47pm On May 07, 2019
Contumely:


So women start egg production at 0 age?

What type of study was that?

https://amp.flo.health/getting-pregnant/trying-to-conceive/fertility/how-many-eggs-do-women-have


More like a reserve they have at birth.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by GiantParrot(m): 11:51pm On May 07, 2019
Contumely:


So women start egg production at 0 age?

What type of study was that?

Apparently females are born with all the eggs they will ever have. You can check the links for more.

And it isn't just even about the number of eggs at a given age. The quality of available eggs also vary with age. There have been IVF studies that show donor eggs from younger women have better chances of resulting in pregnancy.

https://extendfertility.com/facts-figures/fertility-statistics-by-age

https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article/14/11/2755/859721

I didn't make up these facts. The literature is freely available online for anyone who is interested.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:20am On May 08, 2019
tintingz:
Nope, generalizing is nonsensical!
remember even votes go by generalizations. The voice of the majority is the voice of God.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by rekeson: 12:20am On May 08, 2019
Once you use the word bad guy, our ladies and the wimps that call themselves men become all defensive.

Being a bad guy simply means u know ur worth as a man and u are not ready to take trash or silly drama from women.

The moment u take trash from a woman associated with you, be prepared to continue taking her trash coz they have an entitlement mentality.

Stop taking her bullshit and watch her worship you...

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:23am On May 08, 2019
catwalq:


What the f**k did I just read?
So if you intentionally treat a girl like shit and she still stays then she's a keeper??
I'm so sorry to point this out but you're delusional,you need serious help.

So if a man beats,ignores, neglects,behaves unruly ( and in your case where there is a child - curves his obligations) but she stays,then she's a "keeper"

What ever happened to real men

this is as real as it gets.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Papertrail11(m): 12:24am On May 08, 2019
One of the reasons why love, relationships and mariage sucks nowadays aside the finaces part is

Love nowadays is too scripted do this do that say this say that love is ment to come with this natural flow with your other partner that would make you be in support of each other (SUPPORT)


Secondly, a lot of young folks dont have relationship experience am sure if we do a research on young folks on nairaland here you would find out that a lot of guys are and girls and single and that comes with its own downsides which would play out in marriage and if things goes south they would seek relationship advise from the internet knowing fully well it dosent apply to every relationship.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by jojothaiv(m): 12:25am On May 08, 2019
tiptoe1:


Advise them from now till Jesus comes, they'll never listen cause they think being nice gets them women easily(yes it does but the type of women you get matters) but Ubunja aka wikileaks has said it all

BEING BAD GETS YOU WOMEN AT THE BEGINNING WHEN THEY ARE FRESH AND SWEET AND BEING GOOD GETS YOU WOMEN AT THE END WHEN THEY ARE DAMAGED TRASH.
Exactly....
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by djon78(m): 12:26am On May 08, 2019
From experience, it is true. The more you suck up to s woman, she takes you for granted.

A man has to be firm.
Don't be a Sissy.

Its not just in relationships but also in marriage.
Respect a woman, but don't be a Sissy.

And another thing; go for a woman that want you. If a woman is not into you, don't waste your time.
A woman into you will sacrifice a lot to please you and be with you.
but a woman not into you is like pouring water on stone. In fact it is a waste of precious time.

Am talking from experience.

And the sad thing is that many men waste there time on women not into them and thereby Pierce themselves with many sorrows.

It is not a wise thing to do.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:27am On May 08, 2019
rekeson:
Once you use the word bad guy, our ladies and the wimps that call themselves men become all defensive.

Being a bad guy simply means u know ur worth as a man and u are not ready to take trash or silly drama from women.

The moment u take trash from a woman associated with you, be prepared to continue taking her trash coz they have an entitlement mentality.

Stop taking her bullshit and watch her worship you...
Yes sir.
guys keep coming and clarfying truth more and more.

Being a Bad Boy does not mean being a criminal and breaking the Law. It means going against the grain of society and breaking those unwritten rules that so many men live by but that are all about putting women at the centre of your life. Bad Boys put THEMSELVES at the centre of their lives. And to pussyworshipping losers that's blasphemy.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by IamD18: 12:31am On May 08, 2019
Anywhere I see Ubunja's post herein. What do I do?

Click LIKE grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by uthlaw: 12:34am On May 08, 2019
many guys they Bleep up because of sex,after I bleep you twice I no go even remember watin I used save your number not to talk of calling you again....waste my card,my tfare,my sperm who them help!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:39am On May 08, 2019
IamD18:
Anywhere I see Ubunja's post herein. What do I do?

Click LIKE grin
I smile. You always know how to raise a niggah's spirits
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by IamD18: 12:41am On May 08, 2019
ubunja:
I smile. You always know how to raise a niggah's spirits
Your siggy is funny as fvck grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:43am On May 08, 2019
IamD18:

Your siggy is funny as fvck grin
It's a reminder of how triggering my writings can be
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by IamD18: 12:46am On May 08, 2019
ubunja:
It's a reminder of how triggering my writings can be
Keep your work up, Bruv. You are smart.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:47am On May 08, 2019
kunleweb:




Ubunja's one of the most intelligent men on the planet, Show some respect. We both belong to the highlest league of elitesmen. Whatever we say, the universe rubberstamps it. Show some respect
mah niggah cool

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:53am On May 08, 2019
Deicide:
Lol, Oya remove that (f) from your username, its creepy sad
it stays till Christmas

EDIT: or maybe till my birthday on the 12th of June. I will see
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 12:58am On May 08, 2019
kikelomojessy:


Just small talk now you are boiling already, I was on my on with babe wen abi den you carry yourself come quote me.

I bet you can't tell that guy that is treating you bad to shut up.

I wish you all the best.
you said you never see anything in your hood. So what's there to talk about?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by COOL10(m): 1:10am On May 08, 2019
ubunja:
that feeds my dick
.


Lmfao. Ubunja my man. I really gotta learn how you keep on dishing out these witty replies cheesy

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