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Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by babyfaceafrica: 4:32pm On May 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel:why are u in pains?..it is his decision ..so let him be 1 Like |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 4:43pm On May 08, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:Am not in pains, I should let him be? He brought it to a public forum to hear what others have to say right |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by crossfm: 4:49pm On May 08, 2019 |
The guy has alway been on his way out of the relationship.in this forum I have read countless cases of a man claiming to have impregnated another lady while he was still married and alot of peaple supports his action of bringing the child home which I believe is the right thing because the child has not wronged anyone. The above sinario could be applied here.wost case could be they give up the child for adoption.alot of couple are out there praying for this opportunity to adopt a child they can call their own. The term love if truly applied is good which nothing greater can be conceived of. 1 Like |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Xisnin(m): 5:06pm On May 08, 2019 |
If this story is not fake, then she wanted the baby or wasn't rape. The first thing any sensible lady would do in case of rape is to prevent pregnancy. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Xisnin(m): 5:08pm On May 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel:How have the African-Americans who are free from traditions fare better? Want to know a dying society? The ones without traditions. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Nobody: 5:15pm On May 08, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: No, its not bad at all. Please where do you stay, so they can bring the child to your house to help raise him. You too can contribute. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Wallade(m): 5:18pm On May 08, 2019 |
Prognose: Catholics also don't believe in sex before marriage but she has been doing sex, obviously from the message, without qualms. Hence, I see no reason she could not do an abortion based on religious beliefs. She managed the rape in confidence, why not manage abortion in confidence too. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by oduademonest: 5:24pm On May 08, 2019 |
Wallade: SHe was raped. We were not having intercourse |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Wallade(m): 5:26pm On May 08, 2019 |
Princeofasia: Honestly, I believe there is more to the rape story than the fiance knows. 2 Likes |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 5:28pm On May 08, 2019 |
Xisnin:Who said African-americans are free from tradition, the negro mentality is still with them, typical African-americans are still in mental chains , most of them look down on their sisters or brothers who are married to White's |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Wallade(m): 5:31pm On May 08, 2019 |
oduademonest: I noted the rape you narrated earlier but I did not know you guys weren't having sex. I assumed you guys were doing sex when you calculated the pregnancy term and indicated you were abroad to confirm that it was not for you. Anyway, I think you did the right thing to quit the relationship if she would not abort it. I also think there is more to the rape story than you know. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Xisnin(m): 5:39pm On May 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel: What is negro mentality?
Care to explain further? Where did you get your statistics from? Some conservatives also see white liberals as traitors. The people who don't look down on others usually don't are not loyal to families and are breeding themselves out of existence. Many African-Americans are free from the "shackles" of marriage. So, they engage in casual sex and have most kids outside marriage. That has resulted in long-term disaster. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 6:17pm On May 08, 2019 |
Xisnin:To answer your first two questions, lets look at what tradition is, a culture or part of culture that's passed from person to person or generation to generation family to family, right, now the African-americans might be free from the ancient African tradition we in Africa still practice, but the one they created for themselves during slavery or rather the one that was forcefully tossed on them by the whites to show a difference between negro slaves, and the white supremacy is still with the typical ones, a lot of them still hate the whites, there are certain lifestyle that African-americans consider a white man's lifestyle, from dress code, to accent the way the talk, typical blacks train their kids differently from the way a white man will do there certain characters African-americans posses that's different from the White, now everyone has a tradition no one is totally free from tradition but the one we practice here in Nigeria and the way we practice it has caused more harm than good |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Prognose: 7:59pm On May 08, 2019 |
Wallade:Choi ![]() |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Next2Bezee(m): 8:31pm On May 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel: I never mentioned prohibitions or tradition. I just said you can't expect everyone to do such a thing, and that's the truth. Refusing to raise a child that does belong to someone in no way makes them a coward. That's a fact. Don't let your issues cloud your view of reality. 1 Like |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 8:52pm On May 08, 2019 |
Next2Bezee:I called him a coward not really cause of tradition, I called him a coward cause of true love if really he loves that lady he will be man enough to face whatever challenge that comes their way, not by telling her to risk her health with abortion, or backing out like a coward, his a phony the love he had for her was fake, And please I got no issues |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 9:19pm On May 08, 2019 |
crossfm: You are a real man my brother |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Next2Bezee(m): 9:36pm On May 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel: For the umpteenth time, it is folly to expect someone to spend the rest of their life in regret and sadness because of love. Love is not a death sentence, bruh. He is no coward. 1 Like |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 9:40pm On May 08, 2019 |
Next2Bezee:I get the point love is not for everyone, simple |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by churchkilo(m): 9:52pm On May 08, 2019 |
I think the Op made a wrong decision, if the lady was actually raped, then this is the time to really show that love that you have been professing, haba I stand with the lady on no to abortion why kill an innocent baby, mistakes that many people live with the regrets. I trust God will surely see her through |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Next2Bezee(m): 10:01pm On May 08, 2019 |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Deepfeel(m): 10:49pm On May 08, 2019 |
Next2Bezee:Lol sarcasm, keep the salute to yourself ![]() |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Nobody: 1:33am On May 09, 2019 |
oduademonest:Your sure say them rape her ![]() |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by crossfm: 6:10am On May 09, 2019 |
Deepfeel:thanks for the compliment bro.we really need to view things from somany angles before we draw our conclusion and put ourselves in other peaple shoe. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by donttouchme: 6:41am On May 09, 2019 |
I feel for you man. Nobody prays for this kind of awkward situation. But when it happens, one must try so hard to forgive. You are right to leave from your personal point of view. But you have to consider every point of view. 1. It is not the child fault. 2. The child deserves to live. 3. You dont have right to kill. 4. Children born out of rape mostly are exceptional and gifted. 5. Love conquers every difficult situations. 6. The beauty of love is in giving. 7. Her decision to keep the child portrays a lady with a large heart and should be cherished not abandoned. It is not wise to break up completely from her. Casual friendship is good. May be in the future, you might change your mind. I wish you all the best my friend. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Eveezy(m): 8:21am On May 09, 2019 |
khiaa:If you were actually raped, the last thing you will want to do is to let people know talkless of telling the police, its easy to stay at home nd blame her bt it shouldnt be so |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by khiaa(f): 11:05am On May 09, 2019 |
Eveezy: The first thing I would do is go to the hospital and get the morning after pill and get cleaned out. Then justice will be on my mind and heart resulting in me calling the police, giving the description and all the details required of me. Who's blaming her? I said I don't believe she was raped because of her actions. Who would want to have a rapist child and expect her boyfriend to support this child? When a woman is raped the first thing that will be on her mind besides diseases is pregnancy, and she knows that she must take immediate action if the pregnancy is not wanted. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Eveezy(m): 1:11pm On May 09, 2019 |
khiaa:What you said is the logical thing to do but when faced with the real deal, logic goes to sleep, havent you been faced with situations were when it happens, you will be confused. Meanwhile u must have thought abt things like dt b4 nd what u would do in such situations? Bt on facing it, u were blank. A rape victim will be unable to take necessary action if the person she confides in doesnt take the necessary steps. You talk abt keeping the baby, do u think its her desire? If you were a strict catholic, you would know what she is going thru 1 Like |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Eveezy(m): 1:22pm On May 09, 2019 |
Wallade:There is no christain doctrine that will surport fornication, so having sex is not a catholic thing. The catholic church is strongly against abortion nd even the use of contraceptive(altho I find d use of any form of contraceptive hypocritical) but abortion is strongly kicked against, catholics also know that we are all humans and fall into temptation of sexual immorality, its adviceable to abstain from sex, if you cant face the consequences that comes with it which is child birth. That is the catholic belief on premarital sex, or adultery, abstain if you cant take full responsibility of the result. In this case, the lady in question was raped, it wasnt a choice, but still she is accepting the consequences even tho it wasnt her choice |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Wallade(m): 1:32pm On May 09, 2019 |
Eveezy: Well, I get your sermon. She can live with the baby then. Her fiance can either walk away or get married to her and keep the baby. Life is about choices. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by khiaa(f): 2:04pm On May 09, 2019 |
Eveezy: I'm sure she has sex with her boyfriend so you can throw the bolded out the window. |
Re: GF Was Raped & Became Pregnant. Broke Up With Her Because She Wanted To Keep It by Nobody: 4:04pm On May 09, 2019 |
please don't be sentimental nd emotional cos if d child happen to b a terror in ur home or if she sef come die before u nd leave a rapist offspring for you .... I'm a geneticist so I know wat m saying |
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