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Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by damiloladuke: 4:52pm On May 11, 2019 |
A Nigerian writer Sugabelly has explained the reason why a child should take the woman’s surname, instead of the man’s. In her opinion, she believes the pains of childbirth are enough for the the child to be named after the mother and not the father. Read her post: Everyone fights so much about women taking their husband’s name when the real issue is why should the child bear the father’s surname when women are the ones who face death to give birth, and the ones who do majority of all child care worldwide? And it’s actually true. Every woman who gets pregnant knows or should know that there is a distinct chance of her not making it out of the labour room alive. That’s the reason why the first statement always made about a new birth is “Mother and child are both healthy” Women die. One of her followers then wrote that he who proposes should get the name She then responded saying proposal can never be equated with giving birth to a child and nurturing the child for a lifetime. she replied: Because proposing marriage is equal to giving birth and nurturing that life for a lifetime not to mention years of unpaid and unappreciated domestic labour https://lailasnews.com/reason-why-a-child-should-take-the-womans-surname-writer/ 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by LesbianBoy(m): 4:59pm On May 11, 2019 |
I have no problem with idiots like this and their opinions! What I have a problem is how they still want to be treated like queens like other humble and sensible girls who knows the right thing to do. In fact if you are a man here and your wife has a hyphenated surname YOU ARE A MUGU! YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO REAL MEN! **Spits* ![]() 137 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Harrymig1(m): 5:42pm On May 11, 2019 |
The fastest way to end your marriage with a Blackman. 9 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Ryan03(f): 5:42pm On May 11, 2019 |
If my wife wishes to add her father's name to my name, i really Dont care, even if she Dont want to change her name after marriage, as long as it will not affect my home negatively then it shouldn't be a problem. Some things we take too serious are not really serious, for a couple that really loves each other, name seem very trival to cause issues 83 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Martinez39(m): 6:06pm On May 11, 2019 |
Stupid set of entitled women who feel they are entitled to every thing just because they have a vagina. Who forced you to give birth? Did anyone hold you at gun point to force pregnancy and child birth on you? When you were having sex, didn't you know what will come after? Why then should you be rewarded for doing something willingly? Nonsense. ![]() 65 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by QueenSekxy(f): 6:08pm On May 11, 2019 |
Martinez39:Now, repeat this to your mother. Ajo nwa ![]() 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Martinez39(m): 6:11pm On May 11, 2019 |
QueenSekxy:Ajo nwanyi ![]() 35 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by QueenSekxy(f): 6:18pm On May 11, 2019 |
Martinez39:Asi asi ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Martinez39(m): 6:31pm On May 11, 2019 |
QueenSekxy:Eziokwu Eziokwu. ![]() 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Nobody: 8:17pm On May 11, 2019 |
Lmao ![]() ![]() ![]() Sugarbelly...sounds like a name of a comedian ![]() ![]() ![]() I wonder why African women feel they should have thesame voice like their European/American counterparts Adele (musician) just got divorced to her husband She earns the highest between them...so she had to split her £200m wealth in two for her ex Those are the ones that when they talk about feminism or gender equality, people will listen Not one black slay queen without sense that will divorce her husband and still be looking for ways to kill him ![]() ![]() This sugarbelly should go and continue her Dubai porta potty...I heard that shit makes women high ![]() ![]() ![]() PS: my maximum respect goes to all hard-working and loyal African women...from strength to strength you shall go...keep your head low and do your thing...y'all are the real amazons ![]() ![]() 65 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Bossgirl733: 8:17pm On May 11, 2019 |
You no well ![]() See My Signature ![]() ![]() |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Chuks9000: 8:17pm On May 11, 2019 |
In that case, the labourers carrying blocks and cement should be house owners na. 24 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by rawtouch: 8:17pm On May 11, 2019 |
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Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Yankiss(m): 8:17pm On May 11, 2019 |
Sugabelly is paranoid. Whose house is the lady living in? Why will the man pay bride price of the woman? Sugabelly, when u are married, take your husband to your father's house, pay for his bridegroom price ![]() 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by BOOOMNAIJA: 8:18pm On May 11, 2019 |
Ur hands up if u think that can never be possible in Nigeria..... 8 Likes
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Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Kasali226(m): 8:18pm On May 11, 2019 |
Are you using you mom's surname Werey 15 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by lilmax(m): 8:18pm On May 11, 2019 |
have you guys noticed something? people like these do not talk about women asking guys out ![]() women want to keep that privilege to themselves they want every other thing to change,but this one? lie lie ![]() if women don't give up this privilege they aren't ready for whatever crap this one wrote and btw is this not the same babe that trend that year for being a hoe or something? 11 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Queenboy123(m): 8:19pm On May 11, 2019 |
Who does the bedroom work? hmmm? Isn't it the man? |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by HigherEd: 8:19pm On May 11, 2019 |
O ma ga o 1 Like |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by yusfatedeeprof(m): 8:19pm On May 11, 2019 |
With the way these people are going, it will get to a stage where wives will say to their husbands, i give birth to one you give birth to one, i can't be doing all the birth giving ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by DissTroy(m): 8:19pm On May 11, 2019 |
Patriarchy benefits women even more. Men just get the names while women reap us off in the long run. You bear your father's name but your mum gets all of the benefits. Hey. In parts of the world, matriarchy is in full effect. I know this to be true in Nembe, Rivers State, Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by SMUTHKAY: 8:23pm On May 11, 2019 |
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Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by cyprus000: 8:24pm On May 11, 2019 |
without man, you'll never have the baby. the baby is his seed. it's only apt that he/she bear the name of the father, because he can produce same child with another woman, but she can't produce same child with another man. what's hard to understand here, dunce. 1 Like |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Oshin56(m): 8:24pm On May 11, 2019 |
Nonsense and ingredients 1 Like |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by immortalcrown(m): 8:28pm On May 11, 2019 |
Endtime confusion! You cannot be sensible in this your opinion, as long as your husband's name replaces your father's name when you get married. As a married woman, you bear your husband's name because you belong to him, your child bears the same name because the child belongs to you and your husband. 3 questions for you: 1. Why do you change your name when you get married? 2. If your child does not bear your husband's name, will the child have right over the father's property? 3. Is this how dangerous ladies tell their husbands that they are not the fathers of their kids? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by mozona(m): 8:28pm On May 11, 2019 |
Who is that saying rubbish. |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by coolie1: 8:30pm On May 11, 2019 |
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Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Tallesty1(m): 8:35pm On May 11, 2019 |
LesbianBoy:The idiot once called for women to start killing men. She's sick upstairs. 2 Likes |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 11, 2019 |
no be the same sugarbelly wey dey popular some years back say governor son rape am or something like that lol....... I truly believe that women who get used and dumped take up feminism almost immediately ![]() ![]() Abeg shift make person see road ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sugabelly: Why A Child Should Take The Woman's Surname - Writer by sowilli: 8:37pm On May 11, 2019 |
Which does a surrogate child takes? A times letting women do their thing can cause more danger to the economy. Abortion, surrogacy, birth control and many others. Still they will look for excuse that they suffer most. Always seeking pity. |
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