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Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by tunwumi: 5:43am On May 19, 2019 |
"let he who be without sin cast the stone Mr investigator" why not give her a diary to fill so you can know how many people mark her. When it comes to fornication or adultrey the female is always guilty. What about you,? Can you swear like she confessed. You see some truth are better left untold. How will you handle the truth of infidelity if your mother confess it and you are the product? I'm sure you will be blaming yourself for researching into what brought such. Note that if you can not endure and move with this the next girl may be worse and be better at guiding her secret. I'm not advising you to continue but allow the girl meet someone who will accept her with whom she is. It will not take her 1s to tell you get out. timmybabyface: |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Unionised(m): 5:50am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface: You really are something else. What you don't know will not kill you. I assume you were faithful all that time away, abi. That your superiority complex will not kill you. Abeg, free the girl, she deserves a better man, not an entitled one. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by jaxxy(m): 5:51am On May 19, 2019 |
mrAMG2: This is a recipe for fathering another mans child. U better be careful ur choice to ignore what’s important in a relationship leading to marriage not a fling. A causal gf can cheat no biggie cos u probably have like 3 maybe bt fiancée cheating is a no no. It all comes down to what u want in life. That gal can not be trusted when the guy isn’t around and it might still be the case when they are married. A lady must understand and know when to hold it, not moving up and down and jumping into the wrong company u can’t handle then give stories. Same applies to a guy at sm Point. U shud know how to behave. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by wifeesnatcher(m): 5:54am On May 19, 2019 |
like some guys said the word cheat is for married couples. * have you even propose to the girl? do introduction? any marriage plan before you leave us to this Buhari incompetency? I don't know how you people forgive a cheater, if I caught my girl once with a guy, there is no second chance in my own side. you need to stop giving yourself unnecessary wahala man, face your academic, you can easily get a woman when you're back home or before, after all you're a man she&parent might be using you to even play puzzle knowing that you're abroad. Nigeria idolized people in oversea a lot hence why the mother stoop so low to be begging a man that had not pay her daughter bride price wise up man! |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by david22uu(m): 5:54am On May 19, 2019 |
Donald7610: Gbam U never marry am so she is not cheating on u |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by elexjojo745(m): 6:02am On May 19, 2019 |
Marry her and she will keep the pussy for you. Guys code: Don't hurt your emotions by asking a lady silly questions |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 6:07am On May 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:poco poco how you dey |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by jaxxy(m): 6:07am On May 19, 2019 |
david22uu: If ur gf cheats on u close to ur wedding or as ur fiancée my brother chances she will cheat on u after ur wedding with either same guy or another is 80% better don’t dull urself. We are not talking about causal gf here where u have like 3 ur dating. A gal who can not hold it can not hold it period! When Ure out of town u will understand the consequences of ur actions. This is what I call cluelessness of Jonathan and Buhari. Donald7610: 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by sojayy(m): 6:11am On May 19, 2019 |
SageMK:Werey ni e ! |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by macaranta(m): 6:18am On May 19, 2019 |
I think you should focus more on the log in your eyes, how can anyone make their fiance swear first with a Bible just to catch them cheating? You have serious trust and low self esteem issues |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by poseidon12: 6:32am On May 19, 2019 |
You gave her the Holy Bible to swear on and that made her to confess her infidelity. It shows she has the fear of God. Some Nigerians will swear and still lie (except if they are swearing at a shrine). It may be that she still doesn't think you are serious. Have you been faithful to her? To prove to her that you have been faithful, you should also swear by the Holy Bible. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 6:33am On May 19, 2019 |
jaxxy: Then he should find someone else |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 6:34am On May 19, 2019 |
[quote author=sexyyoyo post=78513346][/quote] Do you read to understand at all? |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by poseidon12: 6:37am On May 19, 2019 |
daddytime: Funny dude. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Kenturkey048(m): 6:43am On May 19, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:okay. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by poseidon12: 6:44am On May 19, 2019 |
iTearHerToto: You puked ? From someone with your moniker? Please remember to remove the log in your eyes before looking for a speck in someone else's eyes. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nat404: 6:46am On May 19, 2019 |
Lots of drama going on here. Dude, why can't you find someone else right there in Holland? Most Nigerian women are un-faithful. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by bayulll011(m): 6:47am On May 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:waoo thousand clap for u. very dumb and simply,uncle my advice for u run for your life. sometimes love is not enough to wifed a woman |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by elasticlala: 6:48am On May 19, 2019 |
annford: I just like what you said & the way you presented it. You are sensible. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by bayulll011(m): 6:51am On May 19, 2019 |
SageMK:wicked evil soul.why do all that pop. guy u go badt gan oooo |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by adejoseph1980: 6:54am On May 19, 2019 |
Donald7610:you damt right |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by instinct57vm(m): 6:55am On May 19, 2019 |
Well, I think asking a woman to swear is unecessary and barbaric. If you have to be away from a woman you are not married to, let alone a gf for about two years, these things are a possibility. You need to understand all babes comes with their baggage and under same circumstances they will all behave alike. That some women will collect the bible from you and swore doesn’t mean they didn’t cheat! In view of these, I think you are in a position where 98% of women will do same. These position is ur long distance. My candid advise: It sounds crazy but I think its better to settle with a lady that tells you she cheated rather than the ones that swore they didn’t and they did. Not all women cheat because they want to, some are due to the circumstance of long distance. However if u decide to forgive n marry her, u still need to keep close tabs on her to ensure she’s changed for real. PS: If you know that ure still travelling n not gona be in the space with her for long to observe all these things, pls just move on coz theres no point. Reason being that the chances of it recurring is 99% or even marrying sum1 else. Women are also human not robots. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Edojoma(m): 6:56am On May 19, 2019 |
Omihanifa: No disrespect bro,, I'm kinda lost here, pls enlighten ME... Which law is Okafor's law?? 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by ImaIma1(f): 7:01am On May 19, 2019 |
This is not hard to figure out. You can continue with the relationship since you don't mind being cheated on. Since you have been forgiving her, you can as well keep doing so. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by bantex4uu(m): 7:01am On May 19, 2019 |
U r just an idiotic fool. U even gave her a Bible to swear. U r senselessly senseless |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Omo9ja147(m): 7:07am On May 19, 2019 |
Omihanifa:bros... state this law abeg... I wan hear am. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by efikoefiko(m): 7:13am On May 19, 2019 |
Twice! I don't believe her,she has lost count. Forgive her, observe her or put her to test if she fail dump her ass
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Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by HARMYMY(f): 7:15am On May 19, 2019 |
SageMK:You are a badest guy ever liveth |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by ogunsbanjul(m): 7:15am On May 19, 2019 |
My own advise. Firstly, please point of correction you did not catch her cheating on you rather she intentionally narrated her weaknesses(cheating) probably because she loves you, because she was not 100% sure if you will still come back to marry her, because she was tempted by nature which can happen to anyone, because she believed that your coming to Nigeria is for a real relationship business rather than making a mobile phone calls and social media love vhats or messages, because she knew her parent will be disappointed and be mad at her if they eventually been told she was cheating on you and because there is need for her to learn a lesson. My question to you is, have you ever cheated on her too since you started the relationship with her? If yes please pray,confess to her too,promise her not to try it again, talk to her, counsel her ,beg her ,advise her and tell her the implication of wife or husband cheating on each other. Summarily, the 2 of you should endeavour to forgive each other, ask God for forgiveness. Then try get a matured and experienced with happy home elder in the church or spiritual father for spiritual intervention like MFM or RCCG or as the holy spirit directs. Happy Sunday |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Bizibi(m): 7:16am On May 19, 2019 |
saasala:that is self control,it can be used against you if one cannot control his third leg and actions. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by adanny01(m): 7:24am On May 19, 2019 |
The fact that she cheated isnt a big deal but the fact that she did repeatedly is the problem. If you dont trust her not to cheat, you should never consider marrying her. |
Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by franchasng: 7:24am On May 19, 2019 |
The only thing that makes me scared of sex is fear of God and fear of STDs and STIs. If not for God and STDs, I am sure by now, I should have like 1000 hottie sex partners So any man or woman that thinks his or her partner is not cheating on him or her because of that nonsense non existent thing they call ROMANTIC LOVE is a joker! The only thing that can make a man or a woman faithful to their partner is fear of something: 1.) Spiritual: fear of the God or god they worship 2.) Financial: fear of loosing money or their financial lifeline should they be caught 3.) Fear of disease 4.) Fear of being caught All humans desire to tango with appealing opposite sex other than their partner, its natural in all humans! That a girl or a guy love you is not enough reason to stop them from cheating!! 1 Like |
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