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| Why The Rejections by buhariski(m): 4:19pm On May 21, 2019 |
Guys i'm ready for your bashing. I don't care. I need to say what's is in mind here. I'm in my late twenties now, you know i am not getting any younger. It's has been five years, Since the break up from the last relationship I had. I have been single since then. The problem right now whenever I'm trying to go into any relationship either friendship or courtship with any girl i always get rejected. even before showing my intentions and that leave me heart broken.for Instance why will I approach a girl at the initial stage thinking she is different from others base on her response and doings hoping dat at least if even though na friendship i use take start e no bad. I go come collect number reach house finish. I go say make i call the number na man come dey answer the call or she will give wrong number. Some girls will attend to me nicely for the first time,but the next day they will act totally deferent. Some will snub if I try to approach again. Some girls will just change direction,may be they used to walk a particular road in my street before. The moment I approach them they wil change their movement. The one that angered me most was when i visited a girl we both live in the same street , so one Sunday evening I decided to pay a visit at her home. The moment she saw me at her place she come dey act strange. I just tell myself this girl no need me ,within a seconds na so she tell me say she dey go some where. Oboy so the girl use take discharge me comot from her house oo. So nairaland I need your comments I just want to relief myself from unnecessary thinking if you like call me low self esteem or ugly, body nd mouth odour agree. I just want to clear off my mind. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why The Rejections by Mikocake(m): 4:51pm On May 21, 2019 |
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| Re: Why The Rejections by habsydiamond(m): 10:08pm On May 21, 2019 |
Bro u need to be patient ooo... Ur wife will never marry someone else.... The ones u have been seeing are the ones wey go pour u hot oil for head when una get quarrel. Just be patient and prayerful... Cos getting a good girl is like reading waec textbooks to prepare for jamb. U know it will be difficult but prayer is always the key to open lock doors. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by lilianofentse(f): 11:25pm On May 21, 2019 |
It depends on your dressing sense, Do the girls you've tried courting like bad looking boys or gentlemen men? Secondly, there might be a rumor going on around your area of residence that paints you as a bad person or sm1 with an std. If you date women nearby, this mostly happens. Thirdly it might be mouth or body odour. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by Kingsteve(m): 11:41pm On May 21, 2019 |
I wanted to write: 'no comment', but when I saw your moniker...buhariski. That, my friend, is the root of your problems! Who wouldn't reject a combo of Buhari and Bob riski?  7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why The Rejections by wike54(m): 11:43pm On May 21, 2019 |
Bro no vex ooo....for more clarification abeg post a selfie of ur self or any pics... So we know where to start from 1 Like |
| Re: Why The Rejections by Nobody: 11:57pm On May 21, 2019 |
so girls reject u even b4 u make an advance? hmm dis is serious o.na ur appearance go be d reason.i suggest u start packaging urself.trim ur beards and ur hair and start dressing neatly then stop smoking excessively cos heavy smoking cos black lips and wen ur lips are too black girls will run away frm u.dress like more like a gentleman and less like a thug and smile always .if u do all this one and girls still dey run away frm u then i suggest u go make money and buy benz.there is no how no how wen u don get benz then babes wont start chasing u.lemme call my friends luminouz,potbelly,Iamgrey ,mikejj make dem giv their own advice. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 21, 2019 |
wike54:if oshiomole can get d hottest woman in d world why not op? abeg lets forget about op's pix. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by wike54(m): 12:03am On May 22, 2019 |
lefulefu: We'll know she married him.for money not love bro.......
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| Re: Why The Rejections by Nobody: 12:04am On May 22, 2019 |
Perception matters. Op you need to b positive and confident. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by Nobody: 12:06am On May 22, 2019 |
| Re: Why The Rejections by luminouz(m): 1:19am On May 22, 2019 |
lefulefu:Make the bros chillax...na anxiety dey cause am..he is too eager...let him be laid back and nonchalant a little...some swagga won't hurt ur game...no be every girl u like u suppose toast naaaa... N go far away from his street if he wan chyke babe...dress well too...women are too plentiful for so many to reject his advances.... Cheers 5 Likes |
| Re: Why The Rejections by CAPSLOCKED: 6:50am On May 22, 2019 |
buhariski: DO YOU HAVE MONEY? 1 Like |
| Re: Why The Rejections by buhariski(m): 7:02am On May 22, 2019 |
I don't have money but i be dat hustling guy sha. Why you dey mention money how e use take relate with ordinary friendship with girls. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by buhariski(m): 7:05am On May 22, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:I don't have money but i be dat hustling guy sha. Why you dey mention money how e use take relate with ordinary friendship with girls. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by CAPSLOCKED: 8:21am On May 22, 2019 |
buhariski: YOU NEVER SEE ANYTHING. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why The Rejections by MJBOLT: 8:28am On May 22, 2019 |
search for HARDDON on nairaland and start reading his dating drills thread buhariski: |
| Re: Why The Rejections by Nobody: 8:31am On May 22, 2019 |
You know the problem yourself. So tackle it. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by McCoy662(m): 8:59am On May 22, 2019 |
be like this guy really get issue. bro I would advise u make friends on social media, try chatting her up for a while and get her understand u before u ask to meet her. it is psychological that we love people that are close to us for a while despite all odds. if u can get her fall in love with u over the net with ur real identity, I don't think there will be a change of mind when she finally meets u. stay away from snipper oo |
| Re: Why The Rejections by WhiZTiM(m): 9:23am On May 22, 2019 |
Have you checked your mouth odor? |
| Re: Why The Rejections by buhariski(m): 9:37am On May 22, 2019 |
WhiZTiM:. I understand you bro. So you want to tell me now all these people DAT are into relationship don't have mouth odour or body odour. Well I don't joke with my hygiene. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by buhariski(m): 9:45am On May 22, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:pls i don't understand what you me by I never see anything. |
| Re: Why The Rejections by anthonyuncle(m): 10:25am On May 22, 2019 |
u sure say u no get mouth or body odour |
| Re: Why The Rejections by mikejj(m): 5:45am On May 24, 2019 |
lefulefu:well said lefu..but first thing first no man/woman is ugly..and if a thousand lady rejects you,the one thousand and one will like u..u just have not meet the real person for you,keep on searching bro..perhaps just focus on your career and trying to make yourself a better person and in the process you may meet the one for you.... |
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