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Prayer is the key.

you are stressing yourself by giving ursef a timeline to get married.
"HE'LL make everything beautiful in time"
why really worry yourself over what u have no control of?

Nothing like prayer is the key... That's fallacy! Relax and look inward... Is either there is something you are lacking or you have not meet the right person that deserve you... Work on your self...

wealth25:
My story goes like this.
Sometime in 2014,I was engaged to a man I loved and loves me as well(as he claimed), but don't know how the relationship scattered all of a sudden..I cried and cried because I loved him with everything I had but what can I do,,than just put myself together and move on..Since then I found it so difficult to love again but lately, i decided to give it a trial again as am approaching my late 20s already but I notice that whatever relationship I tried getting into ends up for no just cost within 2 months. I don't have a bad character, am a v good cook, am beautiful and still pure (a virgin )which was the promise i made to God when i was still tender. I have fasted prayed and cried to God to the extent of almost loosing my flare to pray. Am even afraid of visiting men of God this days because when u visit them the first thing they'd talk about is money..which I don't have much for now..Pls fellow nairalanders what can I do to break this yoke? Because i want to surely settle down this 2019. Am tired of been a virgin,I want to know what it feels like to have sex..Am sorry if this is not the right place for this but I'll appreciate it if solutions are proffered. Help a weeping sister pls,,Thanks.

are you really sure you have left your pass behind?

Blakjewelry:
are you really sure you have left your pass behind?

Yes I have forgotten totally everything about my past.

Call for advise

abluck:
Prayer is the key.

Ave been praying for long,I think is time for answers to come.

Being desperate leads most times to seeking desperate solutions to what you went in desperately

Marriage is a life long decision that you have to carefully calm down and make a decision on who you feel you'll be comfortable to spend the rest of your life with.

Don't also forget, good things come to those who wait

slimjohn2k5:
Call 08037343545 for advise

Pls i'd appreciate it more if u could give ur answers right here.

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kingphilip:
Been desperate leads most times to seeking desperate solutions to what you went in desperately

I am not desperate i just think its time I feel like others.

cornel994:
you are stressing yourself by giving ursef a timeline to get married.

"HE'LL make everything beautiful in time"

why really worry yourself over what u have no control of?

Am only reacting as a human i am..so i think its normal.

wealth25:

I am not desperate i just think its time I feel like others.

hope this is not the sole reason you want to get married

kingphilip:
hope this is not the sole reason you want to get married

Its not but i think its the second

wealth25:

Its not but i think its the second

what's the first

abluck:
Prayer is the key.

But how long?

wealth25:
Am only reacting as a human i am..so i think its normal.

these phase will pass, focus on building a better you for yourself.
if u eventually get married now, what's next?

cornel994:

these phase will pass, focus on building a better you for yourself.
if u eventually get married now, what's next?

lolz to build up a future with my family ofcourse

kingphilip:
what's the first

companionship.

wealth25:

Yes I have forgotten totally everything about my past.

why I asked is sometimes when we really loved and it didn't work out sometimes its hard to move past. like when you get into another relationship it becomes cold because it is either we hold back because we are afraid of been hurt again or tend to do little comparison, like you misses those little thing your ex does or both of you do together and all that.

then if that is not the case, then you have to look at the type of guys you are hooking up with are they the type that are ready to settle down or those who are just fishing.

also I think you should let love come on its own, as in don't go into a relationship because you feel time is running out if you do are only going to end up making the wrong decisions.

wealth25:

Pls i'd appreciate it more if u could give ur answers right here.

Bringing your personal issue to the public is bad
Helping u to take it off because the advise u get, I HV never seeing anyone that said they helped.
Well if u feel is taking your personal life to the public that favors u, good n fine by me.

wealth25:

companionship.

how have you tried building that??

kingphilip:
how have you tried building that??

I have tried in my own little way

slimjohn2k5:

Bringing your personal issue to the public is bad
Helping u to take it off because the advise u get, I HV never seeing anyone that said they helped.
Well if u feel is taking your personal life to the public that favors u, good n fine by me.

I brought it to the public because I could no longer confide in any one around me,,I felt I could get solutions here before frustration kills me..And pls don't take it off,,at least some advice's am getting from here is already releiving me a bit.

Blakjewelry:

why I asked is sometimes when we really loved and it didn't work out sometimes its hard to move past. like when you get into another relationship it becomes cold because it is either we hold back because we are afraid of been hurt again or tend to do little comparison, like you misses those little thing your ex does or both of you do together and all that.

then if that is not the case, then you have to look at the type of guys you are hooking up with are they the type that are ready to settle down or those who are just fishing.

also I think you should let love come on its own, as in don't go into a relationship because you feel time is running out if you do are only going to end up making the wrong decisions.

Thanks a lot for this piece.

wealth25:

I have tried in my own little way

if you don't mind I'll like to know the ways

thanks for having the courage to seek counsel,many ladies out there are going similar experience but cant voice out.

Aladdin1:
thanks for having the courage to seek counsel,many ladies out there are going similar experience but cant voice out.

Yes i voiced out so that I won't die of frustration.

wealth25:
My story goes like this.
Sometime in 2014,I was engaged to a man I loved and loves me as well(as he claimed), but don't know how the relationship scattered all of a sudden..I cried and cried because I loved him with everything I had but what can I do,,than just put myself together and move on..Since then I found it so difficult to love again but lately, i decided to give it a trial again as am approaching my late 20s already but I notice that whatever relationship I tried getting into ends up for no just cost within 2 months. I don't have a bad character, am a v good cook, am beautiful and still pure (a virgin )which was the promise i made to God when i was still tender. I have fasted prayed and cried to God to the extent of almost loosing my flare to pray. Am even afraid of visiting men of God this days because when u visit them the first thing they'd talk about is money..which I don't have much for now..Pls fellow nairalanders what can I do to break this yoke? Because i want to surely settle down this 2019. Am tired of been a virgin,I want to know what it feels like to have sex..Am sorry if this is not the right place for this but I'll appreciate it if solutions are proffered. Help a weeping sister pls,,Thanks.

Say no more.

I'm looking for a wife especially someone like you who has kept herself chaste this long.

If you are certain that you have good character and are good looking, then we can get married this year. I'm dead serious.

If you don't mind my asking, which part of the country do you come from?

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Say no more.

I'm looking for a wife especially someone luie you who has kept herself chaste this long.

If you are certain that you have good character and are good looking, then we can get married this year. I'm dead serious.

If you don't mind my asking, which part of the country do you come from?[/quote

wealth25:

Am a Nigerian

That's good enough. I sent you a mail.