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Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Toks2008(m): 10:35am On May 25, 2019 |
In recent times we have read about people taking their lives over a failed relationship or heartbreak and I keep wondering why an individual will take his or her own life over a failed romance whilst the other person has moved on and cares less if you are alive or dead...Nevertheless, studies have shown that people who drift into a state of depression following a heart break are at a very high risk of a medical condition of the heart called "taktsubo cardiomyopathy" — or heartbreak syndrome and this is because they put too much trust and expect so much from the union. Heartbreak hurts deeply especially when you deeply desire that person but one vital question anyone contemplating suicide over a heartbreak should ask is...'' Will the suicide stop that person from moving on with another person'' If someone truly wants you, h/she will not leave you and if that person leaves then you never had such and you can't lose what you never had. This means that the person was never meant to be yours so rather than kill yourself or go into depression just shake it off and thank GOD that person is out of your life. Yes cry in your closet if you must to let it out but let it ends there. The best way to handle a heartbreak is to prepare your mind for it and if it eventually happens it won't hurt much. The best part is that heartbreakers usually want to see their victims depressed and unhappy and the best way to drive them crazy is to be happy with another person and not to be 6feet below.Suicide or depression over heartbreak is never the way out. I hope this makes sense. 59 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by PUSSYHOE(m): 10:39am On May 25, 2019 |
the fastest way to deal with break up is to fvck the hoe's sister 103 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by BdorianGray(m): 11:01am On May 25, 2019 |
Sure makes sense.. But i think its easier said than done in practical life. 58 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by chiommy123(f): 11:03am On May 25, 2019 |
I find it difficult to believe people kill themselves cos of failed relationship. 27 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by IamD18: 11:09am On May 25, 2019 |
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart. What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more. Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love. 286 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Toks2008(m): 11:37am On May 25, 2019 |
IamD18: Only about 1% of the world's population have this notion but unfortunately the rest still believe human love exists. 91 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by IamD18: 11:47am On May 25, 2019 |
Toks2008:Then they should be ready to learn the hard way. 49 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by flokii: 8:46pm On May 25, 2019 |
I don't think it has anything to do with medical.. to me it's low self esteem coupled with the effect of social media like twitter, facebook etc.. Only strong minded. ones can survive the technology age. So many people paint fake lives on social media that leads to depression and suicide for the "yet to be successful" ones. 15 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 8:51pm On May 25, 2019 |
Exquisite camera angle. |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by hisexcellency34: 11:09pm On May 25, 2019 |
No. Drinking sniper is better 1 Like |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by kenzosky: 11:09pm On May 25, 2019 |
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by XaintJoel20: 11:10pm On May 25, 2019 |
If suicide was a solution to problems, no one will be alive, including myself. Suicide is not the solution to heartbreak and will never be a solution. 11 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by jaxxy(m): 11:11pm On May 25, 2019 |
Rule no1: Don’t get too Attached!!! Sm people say love is a scam bt I also know love can be real bt then humans can be unpredictable so I wud say love is like playing betnaija or is it naijabet lol. U can play and win bt u can also loose too, there are safe games and sure odds which may work bt there are people trying to scam u too. Don’t stake too much. Love is game even when u don’t play or know Ure playing bt u cud still win or loose. Disclaimer: I’m not a bettor 43 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by sketchlyrics(m): 11:11pm On May 25, 2019 |
heartbreaks sucks.... i hate gals 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by id4sho(m): 11:12pm On May 25, 2019 |
Go to the bar and flenjo. I cannot come and KEE myself. Nigerian Army has been training since I was a kid but have never had any war... Why can't they just organize a friendly match with Iraq or Pakistan? JUST THINKING 29 Likes
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Ayindesegun10(m): 11:12pm On May 25, 2019 |
Heartbreak sucks Meanwhile, I'm a social media influencer with over 10k+ active followers on twitter. Dm me to advertise your products. I build and sell twitter and instagram followers and accounts. 1 Like |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by ideatoprince18(m): 11:14pm On May 25, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE:. ... What if the hoe no get sister?? 1 Like |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by popweezy(m): 11:14pm On May 25, 2019 |
U SHOULD HAVE SHOWN THIS WRITE-UP TO JACK IN TITANIC..maybe u would av saved a live ![]() Now, lemme com back to u. Well, I don't think real love actually exists in this generation, but if it does exist, pple falling in love for real will hiss to this writeup.. this is bcuz when u fall in love for real, u become blind. Nothing then looks better or sounds better than that devilish feeling (love). How on Earth can u then prepare 4 heartbreak?? That would be the last thing and the weirdest thing to be imagined. I don't support suicide but I don't judge pple committing suicide in the name of love.. reason bcuz I don't rili know how they are feeling.. I Neva pray to be in such situation though.. but believe me, u can go to any extent if REAL love is involved and not LUST 10 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by GrowYourSales(m): 11:16pm On May 25, 2019 |
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by IzzyyUnique: 11:16pm On May 25, 2019 |
Heartbreak can be a bad thing especially when its someone you cared for, someone you ready to take a bullet for and shoot a for their sake. oops! Love is stupid! Blind! Inconsiderate and can be biased at times. That's how I've been feeling unwell since weeks ago because my girlfriend been acting nonchalant. Grins! Love is a good thing tho! It feels good when you love someone and you have the feeling they love you back in return and they make you feel loved! Damm! it feels good to be in love. . 33 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 11:16pm On May 25, 2019 |
Even if you prepare for it, it will hurt like hell at times and you have to allow these feelings and then get busy and put all your energy into a project/a goal. In other words, redirect the pain into ambition or better passion. Distract yourself and devote to something bigger. It will take you places ... Even if it sounds cliche, if life gives you lemons ... 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 11:16pm On May 25, 2019 |
toks2008 tell dem oo. all these brokenhearted hombres be making sniper selling like hot cake in naija. 1 Like |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by LarrySun(m): 11:17pm On May 25, 2019 |
Always expect disappointments. When it happens, you will not feel so hurt. You will have the strength to move on. You don't have to endanger your own life over another person's personal decision. You're heartbroken? Feel good with this preview below: Then I did what the other idiot should have done but remained watching and mouthing off like the buffalo he was. I threw the bloodied knife at him. It caught him in the mouth. I had never thrown anything more accurate in my life. It caught him when he was about to say the word ‘I’. He trembled on his feet for a few seconds before he fell down to continue his trembling. From his face, I could see that he was crying, but he was not shedding tears, he was shedding blood instead. His eyes were as red as the pit of hell. Well, isn’t that where we are all going? Let him set the tables for the arrival of the VIPs. *IT HAS FINALLY DROPPED!* Follow the story from the beginning here: http://www.pentinent.com/2019/05/24/kanu-the-brutality-of-a-rogue-update-1/ 1 Like |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Offpoint1: 11:17pm On May 25, 2019 |
She broke up with me yesterday night and this evening she saw me Dancing to "Zero Problemè" by Patoranking in my Nigga's Saloon. I feel more hurt when MtN deduct N50 for a caller tone I didn't subscribed for, than when anyone break up with me. Like I always said "The moment I asked you out, that very moment I start preparing for breakup so when it finally happens you'll be wondering if I was ever in love with you in the first place" Precisely, the only time I've ever considered suicide was when I was trying to download a porn video of 5mb with Glo network. 51 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by mubarak001(m): 11:19pm On May 25, 2019 |
Replace the person with two more friends, ensure u use them to heal by distraction. Get busy, cut ties from tins you guys do togeda, be on low-key, engage ursef in productive matter, each time tot of your ex drop, don't fight it, smile and reach out to other person's with topics of relevance. Ensure you don't fight the feelings, Just follow the ride while... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by maynation(f): 11:20pm On May 25, 2019 |
Why prepare for a heartbreak when you can love without the heart in the first place? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by ArmaniUhuru: 11:21pm On May 25, 2019 |
Use your hand break your heart(zero love), before you go into a relationship. When you’re in the relationship, there won’t be any heart to break. 3 Likes |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by GeneralPula: 11:22pm On May 25, 2019 |
1 Pakalin don do. You’ll forget about everything 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by nijabazaar: 11:22pm On May 25, 2019 |
Suicide x a choice.... |
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by ken6488(m): 11:23pm On May 25, 2019 |
![]() Be in charge.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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