BiafranBushBoy:
There is nothing worse than financial frustration. All I see here is a Woman, claiming to be a Man Wife Beater.

In your write-up, you want to sound pathetic, pitied, garner sympathy; but you forgot that in this life, nobody cares about you.

You are jobless, a drop-out, frustrated, etc. (Nice qualities).

But let me tell you what is frustration;

Frustration is when you wake up and realize that you are old, frail, weak, with lots of regrets about things you should have done that you didn't do.

A wise man once said; "know your weaknesses and compensate them with your strengths"

You have your hands, you type good English, you are able-bodied, you can even beat a woman - which shows that every part of your body is functional.

What have you done with them?

Life will become a better place for you if you apologize to her and channel your anger towards becoming a millionaire by December.

Don't ask me how, just find a way.

If your thoughts are focused on how to make money - I mean plenty of them, you won't even have time for your wife; talk less of beating her.

I don't really like helping people, but send me a PM - let's talk!

BiafranBushBoy:
There is nothing worse than financial frustration. All I see here is a Woman, claiming to be a Man Wife Beater.

In your write-up, you want to sound pathetic, pitied, garner sympathy; but you forgot that in this life, nobody cares about you.

You are jobless, a drop-out, frustrated, etc. (Nice qualities).

But let me tell you what is frustration;

Frustration is when you wake up and realize that you are old, frail, weak, with lots of regrets about things you should have done that you didn't do.

A wise man once said; "know your weaknesses and compensate them with your strengths"

You have your hands, you type good English, you are able-bodied, you can even beat a woman - which shows that every part of your body is functional.

What have you done with them?

Life will become a better place for you if you apologize to her and channel your anger towards becoming a millionaire by December.

Don't ask me how, just find a way.

If your thoughts are focused on how to make money - I mean plenty of them, you won't even have time for your wife; talk less of beating her.

I don't really like helping people, but send me a PM - let's talk!

BiafranBushBoy:
There is nothing worse than financial frustration. All I see here is a Woman, claiming to be a Man Wife Beater.

In your write-up, you want to sound pathetic, pitied, garner sympathy; but you forgot that in this life, nobody cares about you.

You are jobless, a drop-out, frustrated, etc. (Nice qualities).

But let me tell you what is frustration;

Frustration is when you wake up and realize that you are old, frail, weak, with lots of regrets about things you should have done that you didn't do.

A wise man once said; "know your weaknesses and compensate them with your strengths"

You have your hands, you type good English, you are able-bodied, you can even beat a woman - which shows that every part of your body is functional.

What have you done with them?

Life will become a better place for you if you apologize to her and channel your anger towards becoming a millionaire by December.

Don't ask me how, just find a way.

If your thoughts are focused on how to make money - I mean plenty of them, you won't even have time for your wife; talk less of beating her.

I don't really like helping people, but send me a PM - let's talk!

sisisioge:
Just calm down first...calm...yeah calm. Get a piece of paper and write...keep writing. Then look at her...talk...talk...talk.

How do we address you anger, what triggers it? Whew...many people are in dire circumstances now because they couldn't control themselves. Control please...control yourself.

Oyindidi:
After the first 2 lines I knew you are suicidal. No go kill yourself and stop condemning yourself.

BuBuB:


PM sent.

I apologized to her over and over and over and over, she's okay now, she only accepted to talk to me properly this morning and also apologized for the disrespect and not wanting to own up to it, which was what triggered the anger.

I told her not to apologize though, hitting her outweighed the disrespect, I guess I just lost it probably because I had restrained my self a lot of times, even when it was worse than what transpired last night, I restrained myself last night too, but she came back and it was all provocations. In all, I was wrong and shouldn't have hit her, I know better now.



I'd do better next time, thank you.

keepingmum:
yes, you a woman beater and you are not remorseful

You didnt hit out once, but TWICE - meaning it will happen again and again

Rather than reflecting and willing to change - you choose to blame it on joblessness and et al making it someone or something else's fault that you are violent

You are claiming suicide, suicide/depression is the new malaria amongst nigerian youths - have you seen the economy of zimbabwe, Haiti and co? Did you check the stats on Mental health in those countries?

There are lots of jobless men who have been rejected and disappointed yet do not hit out or lash out - you are a failure and should be ashamed of your self

Learn to accept your faults AND learn to be willing to change -----dont go about accepting your faults whilst demanding people should accept you "for whom you are"

If i was your girl, i would tell her to walk, because life never gets easier and if you are already "crumbling" with these challenges, what would you then do with future challenges?

BiafranBushBoy:


Hiting her is an end product of the main cause.

I guess you didn't read my contribution well.

Goodluck then.

ImaIma1:
When your guys anger you, do you beat them? Why not? Because you know they could brush you?

Why don't you extend the same restraint you show with your friends to your wife? The one you promised to love and cherish. The one that you have become one with.

It's not rocket science to refrain from hitting people that cannot match your strength. It takes a sound mind and self control.

BuBuB:
I am a woman beater (twice), I have failed, I've got anger management issues, I am jobless, I am a drop out, I hit my woman on her 24th Birthday at about past 10 p.m. I failed her, I broke her, I love her, she didn't deserve it, no woman does, I let my anger get the better side of me, I am hurt, I can't forgive myself, I've got suicidal thoughts, I need help, a psychologist, I need a mentor.

Tonight, I am broken, I have lost it. This isn't who I am.

Mods please help move to front-page.

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Dominique
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LilMissFavvy:
Oga, if you can't control anger or refrain from beating you wife why not forget about marriage and remain single? If you kill someone's daughter, they will hang you to death.

BuBuB:
I am a woman beater (twice), I have failed, I've got anger management issues, I am jobless, I am a drop out, I hit my woman on her 24th Birthday at about past 10 p.m. I failed her, I broke her, I love her, she didn't deserve it, no woman does, I let my anger get the better side of me, I am hurt, I can't forgive myself, I've got suicidal thoughts, I need help, a psychologist, I need a mentor.

Tonight, I am broken, I have lost it. This isn't who I am.

Mods please help move to front-page.