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I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 11:30pm On May 29, 2019 |
This is weird. It's strange and outside the societal norms. But then, I have yet to see compelling reasons why I should have kids especially in this sinful world, nay Nigeria. The most prominent reason I hear is "I want someone to bear my name" This reason to me is asinine. I mean, what's my business with people bearing my name? Will it matter upon my demise? Of what benefit or use is that if I die? I feel If I care so much about immortalizing my name then starting a company like Toyota, Toshiba etc should do that. Or maybe writing books : Achebe, Robert Green etc.. Or establishing a school, hospital etc. Another reason is "Who will take care of you in old age?" I feel like this shouldn't be an issue if there is some money somewhere that one could rely on. Money answers all things you know! I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together. I love women. But don't feel like I want kids. Could it be that I feel I may be unable to sacrifice a lot for them? Or could it because I feel the world is evil with so much pain hence no need bringing kids into the world. It seems I am an antinatalist you know. Firstly, What do you think about this? Secondly, How do I find a woman that has same views? Cheers! 8 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by IamPlato(m): 11:46pm On May 29, 2019 |
Somebody else will give her kids 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Oluromantic: 11:50pm On May 29, 2019 |
And some ppl want kids but don't want wife 21 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Bojack(m): 11:51pm On May 29, 2019 |
op no try am for Naija oh ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Bojack(m): 11:53pm On May 29, 2019 |
Oluromantic:wait.....what |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 11:58pm On May 29, 2019 |
IamPlato: She has to agree ab initio. But how do I find someone that will agree? |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 29, 2019 |
We are the same bro.i cannot sacrifice my happiness to make anyone's future better,hence I think I don't want them. God those little things are work!can't deal. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 12:25am On May 30, 2019 |
Logobenz: How do you explain to Nigerians that won't mind their business? And do you think you will ever regret it? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 12:29am On May 30, 2019 |
Contumely:No I don't think I will regret it. All that money from not spending on any kid will go a long way.las las you hire a butler that will clean and keep you company. I may or may not get a wife.i want my freedom. Besides I've got a huge family that will give me all the company I might need. And den no born the idiot that will confront me about my life choices well... N.a. so ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Dantepet3000: 12:37am On May 30, 2019 |
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Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 2:12am On May 30, 2019 |
And u tink u will see such a wife??old age neva catch u.Money is nt everytink wen it cums to having somone to care for wen u r old.Raising ur kids is d best tink dat can ever happen to mankind.R u impotent or scared of responsibilities?? Contumely: 2 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 2:15am On May 30, 2019 |
Behind d scene Logobenz: |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Ryan03(f): 5:41am On May 30, 2019 |
Logobenz:You'll think you Cant handle them or sacrifice for them until you have one. You will want to drop the world at their feet if you can' talking from experience 9 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 9:06am On May 30, 2019 |
blissgregory: Know there is a difference between impotence and infertility. Impotence is when I can't get the peniis up or sustain it's erection. . I can get it up. As per responsibilities, I doubt if I can make sacrifices required to raise kids because I hate mediocrity. I like A one in all I do. I love the best. Again, I feel this world is unfair and painful. I don't think I want to bring anyone here. I feel I may find a woman with such views too. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 9:23am On May 30, 2019 |
D probability of finding one is zero.it will only be possible wit a single mom Contumely: |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by dingbang(m): 9:24am On May 30, 2019 |
Ah ah, they are plenty in Nigeria. They have messed up their womb with abortion. Go to the hospital and get your leads from there. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 9:26am On May 30, 2019 |
blissgregory: A woman with fertility issues and knows may agree. Or someone like Nse Ikpe Etim who had to remove her womb as a medical solution. Again, I have heard few girls say they don't want kids. |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 9:32am On May 30, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 9:34am On May 30, 2019 |
Gudluck on ur searching.Me,i love kids Contumely: |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 10:00am On May 30, 2019 |
blissgregory: Nice to hear shaa. |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Deepfeel(m): 10:00am On May 30, 2019 |
Contumely: Op simply go for a vasectomy and you won't have to ever worry about having kids you will f*ck as much as u want no kids, it's a simple process it doesn't take much time 2 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 10:09am On May 30, 2019 |
Okkk Contumely: |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Phenomenal16(f): 10:12am On May 30, 2019 |
Are u a Nigerian? I doubt..... |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 12:09pm On May 30, 2019 |
Phenomenal16:Yes, I am from the East too. 1 Like |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Phenomenal16(f): 12:13pm On May 30, 2019 |
Contumely:....nwannem nwoke this is quite surprising...... U don't want onochie....wait until your mom hears this 4 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Contumely: 12:17pm On May 30, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: Lol |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 1:09pm On May 30, 2019 |
I hate kids with passion... they make u go apprehensive, they give u headache and heartache and body pains... u try to get some sleep and the thing will be crying in the middle of the night when sleep dey sweet. no be me... to born for Naija no follow. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Nobody: 1:30pm On May 30, 2019 |
aswear I never see how this thing take concern nairaland. baba na ur life 1 Like |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Martinez39(m): 2:29pm On May 30, 2019 |
Contumely:Oga, you owe no one any explanation. Personally, I don't want to get married but I want two children from surrogate mum(s). That's how I want it and I owe no one an explanation. See, people are going to talk but they can't stop you from doing what you are going to. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by folake4u(f): 6:30am On May 31, 2019 |
Cc:
mysticgal. I don't want kids too. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by Cannicus: 8:16am On May 31, 2019 |
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Re: I Want A Wife But I Don't Want Kids. by mysticgal(f): 9:55am On May 31, 2019 |
folake4u: shey I wrote it and nairaland wants to crucify me. they are beautiful but I would pass ![]() 2 Likes |
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