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Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 8:26pm On May 31, 2019 |
Am in love with a single mother, she had her daughter she was in secondary. Though she and her lover had seperated since the birth of daughter years ago. My question - is it cool for a single to go ahead to marry a single mother of 1. Thanks |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by dingbang(m): 8:30pm On May 31, 2019 |
Yes its cool, please dont listen to negativities. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Nobody: 8:30pm On May 31, 2019 |
lardor:how do you mean "body count of 1"? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by GozieAchara(m): 8:30pm On May 31, 2019 |
I'm sorry.. body count of 1 ![]() |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Vizzim: 8:39pm On May 31, 2019 |
Please explain the body count of 1 |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by SageMK: 8:39pm On May 31, 2019 |
Ask yourself these questions first? 1. Is the love one side or reciprocated? 2. Does she have a source of income or are you her source of income? [If she doesn't, sorry, dump her ass.] Dude, your concern is understandable. After all, you are imposing yourself on an existing family. You need to be sure she also loves you & you've no problem taking care of her child as your own. Think hard about this. ![]() Personally, I'd have no qualms. |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Timmypromise(m): 8:46pm On May 31, 2019 |
Cool If she have a good job But if it is vice versa It is a Big No |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by babyfaceafrica: 9:03pm On May 31, 2019 |
your choice...their are positives and negatives |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Nobody: 9:09pm On May 31, 2019 |
lardor:If her name is Frances no |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Deepfeel(m): 9:09pm On May 31, 2019 |
Nothing bad about it, as long as you accept the challenge that comes with it, it's not going to be all Rosy bro |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by internationalman(m): 9:13pm On May 31, 2019 |
I will only when the father of the baby is no more. |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by blinking001(m): 9:26pm On May 31, 2019 |
Of course you can, that's if only you've got the Emotional stability that is required. Best of luck. |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Blankstare(m): 9:30pm On May 31, 2019 |
Nawao..this after one people just full everywhere.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 31, 2019 |
Why is it that a man can marry a woman who had a child out of wedlock and still live peacefully but when its the other way round, the man's kid automatically turns the house help or even the punching bag of the wife. Why is this common with Nigerian wives ? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by ibkayee(f): 9:54pm On May 31, 2019 |
Nothing wrong with it, if you love her I don’t think it should be a dealbreaker. Bear in mind it comes with some extra responsibilities though (I won’t say ‘cons’). There’s the possibility of having to deal with her ex, you are signing up to help raise someone else’s child, this will involve both financially and emotionally supporting the child. Disciplining the child may be awkward or even out of the question. Depending on what age the child was when they were introduced to you, developing a relationship may take a lot of time and patience. Usually, the younger the child, the easier to 'adjust' to the 'newfangled' family dynamic, if they’re older it’s unlikely that they’ll think of you as their parent immediately if at all, you’ll have to earn their trust and respect. Best of luck. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:23pm On May 31, 2019 |
lardor:Not Cool man |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Nobody: 11:34pm On May 31, 2019 |
lardor:Nothing cool about it ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 1:22am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Sorry for late response, the body count , i mean just having only one intimacy with lady all my life, |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 1:28am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Thanks for your input, am grate for your honest contribution. Thanks to you all |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by chinchonglee(m): 1:29am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Guy nor try rubbish.. U re too young to die due to complications.. |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 1:30am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Vizzim:let skip that please |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 1:34am On Jun 01, 2019 |
SageMK:your advice is noted thanks so much |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 1:36am On Jun 01, 2019 |
internationalman:the daughter is already in her teen age, she gave birth in her secondary school days |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by lardor(m): 1:51am On Jun 01, 2019 |
ibkayee:your huge advice is well taken 1 Like |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by internationalman(m): 9:07am On Jun 01, 2019 |
lardor:If the father is still alive chances are they could still connect anytime.. A child has a way of connecting parents |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Sierusvirus(m): 11:15am On Jun 01, 2019 |
It's a bad idea if you want to listen but if you don't, be ready to dance to the tone, Strictly on your own. I won't advice you to go into sure marriage. |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by don4real18(m): 11:23am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Shibaraba:Why don't you want anyone to marry your baby mama since it's clear you aren't ready? ![]() |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by internationalman(m): 1:31pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
[quote author=IfYouKnowYouKno post=80991082][/quote] So what do you want me to do with these pictures |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by Nobody: 2:06pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
OP she is beautiful, go with your heart. But if it's my brother I would say no. A woman's love is in layers: Her first love > Her child > her children > husband. You need to know that that child would always be loved more than you. And if you both have kids, the child would be loved more than your kids. It's her imprint, her experience. No one can ever take the child's place in her heart. She might even be marrying you to have resources to care for the child. Except you want to adopt him/her as your own, then prepare to play second fiddle. You wouldn't be able to discipline the child, because it's HER OWN. He/she might never respect you Single mothers ( except in the case of a window/rape) are a big no for men around me, as most are consequence of horrible decisions made by those women. I am all for having sex, have all the sex you want but don't get pregnant. We, matured ladies don't get pregnant by accident, that is a conscious decision, made with deep emotional commitment. ( look at the Baby mama phenomenon, those ladies are already hurt with the imprint that they are worth nothing and wouldn't take a serious commitment seriously) Some nice guy once ask Sophia Mamodu out and she laughted at his request because Davido has destroyed her normal reasoning of her self worth. To her she is worth nothing less than a Davido leftover. Even if she marries the husband would never "meet up with the standard of Davido, she has in her head " it's a stuff called an "Alpha Window" Most Single mother's would continue to make bad decisions. No hating. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Cool To Marry A Single Mother Of One. by XhosaNostra(f): 2:18pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
There must be some qualities you love about her, hence you're considering marriage. Why does it matter what anyone else thinks? |
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