Cannicus:


Me too.

When should I bring wine?

Cannicus:

Me too.
When should I bring wine?

Bossjakande:
once u see a girl u begin to think wit ur dick

mysticgal:


shey I wrote it and nairaland wants to crucify me.

they are beautiful but I would pass

Cannicus:

Me too.
When should I bring wine?

folake4u:



You're not welcome

folake4u:



. Lol.

Can I send you a PM?

mysticgal:

yes love, why not

blissgregory:
D probability of finding one is zero.it will only be possible wit a single mom

HannahHitler:
Don't ever say zero. I know lots of girls who don't want children. All of my female friends don't even wanna get married talk more of kids, some think adoption is better others don't want at all. That you haven't met any doesn't mean it doesn't exist. PS they are young single women.

Contumely:
This is weird. It's strange and outside the societal norms.

But then, I have yet to see compelling reasons why I should have kids especially in this sinful world, nay Nigeria.

The most prominent reason I hear is

"I want someone to bear my name"

This reason to me is asinine.

I mean, what's my business with people bearing my name?
Will it matter upon my demise? Of what benefit or use is that if I die?

I feel If I care so much about immortalizing my name then starting a company like Toyota, Toshiba etc should do that. Or maybe writing books : Achebe, Robert Green etc.. Or establishing a school, hospital etc.


Another reason is "Who will take care of you in old age?"

I feel like this shouldn't be an issue if there is some money somewhere that one could rely on. Money answers all things you know!



I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together.


I love women. But don't feel like I want kids. Could it be that I feel I may be unable to sacrifice a lot for them?

Or could it because I feel the world is evil with so much pain hence no need bringing kids into the world.


It seems I am an antinatalist you know.


Firstly, What do you think about this?

Secondly, How do I find a woman that has same views?

Cheers!

Logobenz:
We are the same bro.i cannot sacrifice my happiness to make anyone's future better,hence I think I don't want them.
God those little things are work!can't deal.

HannahHitler:
OP please ignore these ignoramuses. There are lots of fertile, healthy women that do not want kids. i have met a couple who are happily married but dont want kids. you life is in your hands and anything you need is achievable.

Unfortunately tho, most of the women i meet who dont want kids are gay. there is something about being gay that makes you more open minded and ready to shiiiite on society and its norms.

Femi316:
You want a wife, you no want kids......nie be you get head but you no get sense.....?

Amanda4life:
Pls dont abuse him or her there might be a medica condition behind this.

A girl or a lady who's womb has been remove may want marriage without kids.

A man who is impotent may want marriage without kids.

He or she may give flimsy excuse like " taking care of kids is much work bla bla bla
But not true

Contumely:

No confab with dolts.

Canicus:

Me too.
When should I bring wine?

Contumely:
This is weird. It's strange and outside the societal norms.






I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together.


I love women. But don't feel like I want kids. Could it be that I feel I may be unable to sacrifice a lot for them?

Or could it because I feel the world is evil with so much pain hence no need bringing kids into the world.


It seems I am an antinatalist you know.


Firstly, What do you think about this?

Contumely:


Nne not a medical ish.

I expected valid reasons to convince me otherwise.

There are few antinatalists just like there are a few atheists despite the vast majority being the opposite.


Do those atheists have medical conditions?


Hitler never had a child and was only married for 40 hours despite his status.

HannahHitler:
Don't ever say zero. I know lots of girls who don't want children. All of my female friends don't even wanna get married talk more of kids, some think adoption is better others don't want at all. That you haven't met any doesn't mean it doesn't exist. PS they are young single women.

MVPtesley:
I hate kids with passion... they make u go apprehensive, they give u headache and heartache and body pains... u try to get some sleep and the thing will be crying in the middle of the night when sleep dey sweet.


no be me... to born for Naija no follow.

MVPtesley:
children could even be a curse... u ll train and train and train and some will still choose to be touts and olosho, some will be like etinosa that smokes wildly and uses the holy bible as ash tray.

melody91:
I guess you turned out a curse to your parents....

melody91:
I pity your parents...cursed child