Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

Abeg Let me wait for elders...i think I'm too early here.

Hardeyshinardt:
Abeg Let me wait for elders...i think I'm too early here.

please kindly say something

Report this matter in a European forum. This is Nairaland, we deal with home issues.

By the way, did you find her on Facebook?

Some how I think it is wrong. Even if she must watch, it must be both of you

She sent you to the single room

Who owns the house

She's a true feminist. Emasculating men is the goal. She has succeeded.

Weak

Give her good sex, she will forget porn...

If it is a habit for her, then sex won't solve it.

If she is doing it to satisfy herself, then find a way to make her feel like a woman again.

The first step is to make her talk...
If she doesnt talk, all over inputs here would all be fluffs.

Sorry about your wife. I can't help you other than this.

Ranchhoddas:
She sent you to the single room

Who owns the house

She's a true feminist. Emasculating men is the goal. She has succeeded.

bro, that is how it is, trust me is not weakness it is the society

kulionam:
bro, that is how it is, trust me is not weakness it is the society

It is.
Men are becoming less assertive. I don't have a solution.
We know how this ends. Divorce.

Another perk of feminism.

later some useless pple will start jumping as parrot DAT he rape his wife she admire dose men DAT act porn over her hubby. o.p if I were u I will dicipline her. cos is insult to deny me sex yet watch nauthy film

Ranchhoddas:
She sent you to the single room

Who owns the house

She's a true feminist. Emasculating men is the goal. She has succeeded.

DAT why is bad for hubby and wife to share diffrent room

You are more concerned about her watching porn, than the recurring quarrels in your home.

I think she just achieved her aim, get you jealous/triggered.

She might be trying to set you up...you too turn the table on her by pretending it was a regular movie she was watching. Don't even fuss about it.

As per your quarrels, na wa fa.

This is not a big deal in my opinion.
She was clearly hòrny while you were away.

Lol. What must a woman do to get laid in that house?

Maybe she needs to start walking around nàked for you to get the message. It's time to take your quarrel to the other room for some make—up coitus. Don't ignore her.

The fault is from you oga,.

It's quite obvious she has not had good sex in a long time. You guys should improve on your sex life and watch as things go. Who knows sef, the porn might be of good help for the both of you.

In the absence of the real thing you resort to substitute. When your wife is not getting the real thing it's natural for her to resort to the the fake. Bros reconcile asap. Porn is acting. You should learn all the tricks, styles and positioning in the art of sex. Your wife wants you to make love to her. Give her what she wants. Full stop.

Bossjakande:
later some useless pple will start jumping as parrot DAT he rape his wife she admire dose men DAT act porn over her hubby. o.p if I were u I will dicipline her. cos is insult to deny me sex yet watch nauthy film

Did you miss the bit where he said he's in Europe and not in the jungle?

Well, I know he smart pass. He knows if he touches her he'd be saying byebye to the spare room and hello to a bench in the park!

She's trying to pass a message to you.

You have to read in-between the lines.


Join her to watch the porn together, cuddle her and do the needful. She is sex starved.

But where is lalasticlala sef

Sex sterved wifey.

Do the do before you become a stranger in your own farm!

Give her porn to watch too.
walk in front of her with a fully erect phallllus and go about your duties..
make she see wetin she dey miss.
life nor hard at all

kulionam:
bro, that is how it is, trust me is not weakness it is the society

better go and sell that house and launder the money before divorce make you lose it!
Or make peace with her,y'all stay happy for a while,do everything she wants and propose a business to her that will make you use the house as collateral to take an almost equivalent loan from a bank and default it,so you get to move that liquidity outside the shores of that country.
That woman might catch you if you don't act fast!goodluck

Ardar:
The fault is from you oga,.

It's quite obvious she has not had good sex in a long time. You guys should improve on your sex life and watch as things go. Who knows sef, the porn might be of good help for the both of you.

I hope you did not break your leg as you jump to this conclusion

OGA bring one of your girlfriends home. Let's see if she can take it

kulionam:
Hello People,
Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.
However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.
Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.
I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.
Thanks

Are you a Nigerian?

What is wrong with ur wife watching porn?
U should watch with her.
Sometimes it set the mood for action.
Also u learn and experiment on different styles u see there.
Ask her the style she want best and go for it.

Or, are u lacking?

Read the content.
Something is obviously wrong.

Either she isn't satisfied anymore with u or she has her eyes out there.

The problem is now to initiate that intimate conversation with her. U once know her soft spot, target it and when she has let her guide down ask her the relevant questions non stop.

If she still don't want to respond, totally ignore her. Everybody craves attention even if the negative one. She will come around definitely though I do hope things don't go this far with u guys.

Tolotolo!

Ranchhoddas:
She sent you to the single room

Who owns the house

She's a true feminist. Emasculating men is the goal. She has succeeded.

I don't know why I'm laughing...

Op first I must thank you for having the courage to write your personal problem on this forum what you seen has alot to it for your wife to be watching porn show that your marriage will not last long because you both are in constant quarrel but I go on i will love ask you this question do you have kids if yes please take you time to know if she cheating on you with someone but if don't have a kid for now know it that she now seeing you as not man erough to satisfy her in bed ask she may want it but come to think of it why must you both sleep on a different room since you are sure she is your wife pls try put your house in order or you may loose this marriage ok thanks all the best

. You saw her watching porn and ran to nairaland to narrate the tale instead of joining the game. For her to relax when you came in shows she wants action.

You are a disappointment.