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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ojkalito(m): 11:42pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
kennygee:Did you know life is short? Would you rather spend it with one who body shame you, abuse you emotionally and mentally or live independently and be free of the aforementioned? 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Earthquake2: 11:43pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Does accusing her for marrying the guy's you think marriage is easy? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Bbbwings: 11:44pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
kennygee:Which kin thrash be this 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
ojkalito: I'm not saying all these is palatable, I'm sure there are reasons she married this man. Good qualities the man, she just has to weigh her pros and cons and pray. I'm telling you a lot of battles can be won on a prayer altar. I am not saying she should leave right away, I'm saying she should try her best to make it work, if it doesn't work, then she can leave. That's why I asked if she has a job or business. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Chiefochiefo(m): 11:46pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
The only problem am seeing here is you. Yes YOU! It is you because you are porknosing, it is you because you are not minding your business, it is you because you left a four month old baby looking for a proof that is worthless, it is you because you have left your former life as a beautiful woman to a full time mama, and it is you because you fail to understand that a man whose wife just gave birth will have to leave her for sex for sometimes. My advise is this, since he has told you your faults, try and make up, pretend like you don't mind his mess again, give yourself time, build up your morales, be jovial, focus on making yourself beautiful like when he first met you. Remember, women has the gift of beauty. Do this, your hubby will come back to you magically. It's an advise. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by mustwork: 11:46pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
I am a man but this pained me to my marrow. You don't deserve that after your baby.. pause and think please don't take any rash decision. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by bluefilm: 11:47pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
But why did you flatten your breasts? Don't you know that as true african men wey we be, we no dey ever like flattened breasts and arsé? Wait a minute... I hope you don't have flattened arsé too? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by grandstar(m): 11:47pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Needtolove: Men like your husband end up regretting their actions. Take any action you consider proactive. Just don't take one that will ruin your life. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. The Bible does support divorce and remarriage in the event of adultery. The Bible gives leeway to the offended spouse to remarry. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by tuboi: 11:47pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
SageMK: Guy, u get sense |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ibkayee(f): 11:48pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Chiefochiefo:LAWMA 16 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Frankiss44(m): 11:48pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Fuqman: Even jobless men mess up with wives that are bread winners, not just independent... There is more to cheating that meets the ordinary eyes.. And it is getting worse these days because sex is so cheap right now 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Bukasint: 11:48pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Needtolove: Madam poison your husband to death or leave the marriage in peace now to avoid more hurt. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Daeylar(f): 11:49pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Needtolove: I'm glad you know the best thing is to get a divorce and move on. I wish you all the best. The reason for this write up is to ease the pain of betrayal that comes from my husband cheating on me with a our neighbor,what really hurts is that after I investigated and found out her identity, I presented him with hard evidence ,instead of an apology he said he is an African man o and polygamy is allowed. He says I should better mind my business as the said girl is not disturbing me. He further stated that the girl is crazy o, so I should not even think of confronting her Such a useless man. Please mind your business, and your business doesnt include a cheater and a man who talks to you any which way he feels like. Just this morning she had the nerve to come to my apartment with her room mate to clarify some house issues. The nerve of all of them. Really want to make them pay. Really want to make my husband suffer.You're beautiful. Don't listen to a word he says. I want African men to know that women have feelings too, am expected to bottle up my pain and be a woman. When I react violently he calls me mad woman. He is still with her and I am still expected to mind my business.African men know. A lot just don't care. When you talk they attack you for talking. Ignore them and live your best life. They aren't worth it Calm down. Don't rush for any kind of revenge.. Focus on leaving him first. Divorce him, make sure you and your child are safe and well taken care of. Please surround yourself with people who love and support you during the process of the divorce and after., your mental, emotional and physical health. That's what really matters now. Ignore the fool. It will all be all right. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Sirjaycares(m): 11:49pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ibkayee(f): 11:49pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Fuqman: 3 Likes
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by CanineOfJackal: 11:50pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
sisisioge:Sisioge giving witchcraft advice since 79 BC 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Hahaha you do know ‘War Room’ is fiction right? I am sorry no amount of prayers can change a cheating man. If not we won’t have many pastors with prayer warriors for wives still cheating on their wives. kennygee: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by kenzosky: 11:51pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
greggng:My dear,They say "Don't give advise unless asked"...Many can Read but Lack understanding/insight...No Patience to review and digest. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ilekokonit: 11:52pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Its hard to explain but before you kill your husband or the other woman and end up in prison and your 4 month old baby ends up in someone else's hands, leave that immature and insensitive man. A word is enough 4 the wise. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 11:53pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Fuqman: Did you type this with a straight face? All you need is just the first couple pages of the ‘romance’ section. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by enemyofprogress: 11:53pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Fighting over what only you cannot chop finish mtcheeeèeeeèew 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 11:54pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
TheNaijanBlog: I'm just saying she should give it her best shot, if it still doesn't work, then hope she has a job or business that can sustain her and her child? |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ojkalito(m): 11:54pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
kennygee:One bad character can ruin an entire beautiful union regardless of how good he was, secondly she might not be a Christian or believes in prayer. Being employed or having a business is where I agree with you 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by czarina(f): 11:55pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
TheNaijanBlog:I saw that part about "War Room" and I "lolled" ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
ojkalito: True. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:57pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Seun: No wonder. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Chiefochiefo(m): 12:00am On Jun 05, 2019 |
ibkayee:I won't mind you, just because you are a woman. Women are always happy seeing their fellow woman suffer marriage. You're of them ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Frankiss44(m): 12:00am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Chiefochiefo: Very silly putting all the blame on the innocent woman and not even a swipe at the goat that calls himself a husband... One thing is to cheat, another thing is to justify it and even insult the woman you married because of a slut that is probably sharing the pussy to every dick and Harry... The man is goat and the woman needs some form of separation from him, even if divorce isn't the immediate solution. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Biglittlelois(f): 12:00am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Chiefochiefo: Your stupid advise is null and void when you typed @bolded, who fvcking raised you ![]() 6 Likes
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Glorylynn: 12:02am On Jun 05, 2019 |
That keep praying for him dey always vex me,damn!! I am a man but I feel women deserves peace of mind,someone is doing something wrong and he is even bold about it and you are saying she should be praying for him,assuming it was a woman that did this you will all be here shouting divorce up and down,do we have 2heads as a man?women deserves to be happy too in a marriage and stop carrying emotional burden.. it’s so horrible in this our part of the world,most times I feel the reason why women stay in an abusive marriage is just because of lack of money and I pray the lord bless every female on earth abundantly and make them breadwinners too. kennygee: 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Chiefochiefo(m): 12:03am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Frankiss44:Which favour will you do her when she separates? Marry her or accommodate her? 1 Like |
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