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Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Ugosample(m): 6:27am On Jun 05, 2019 |
genq: if you are talking of today's women then I'll tell you like I said before That it depends on the ones you pick I know so many young hard working ladies back in Nigeria running catering, hair dressing and other crafts that brings cash but a lot of young men I see in Nigeria would rather follow what you guys call "slay queen" when you follow slay queen and then get slayed, you begin to cry... Back in uni, there were virtuous ladies who were hard working and all, but we were looking for slay queen The agaro hunters amongst us nailed those ladies and as we speak they are married with kids living happily The society is corrupt and rotten Open your eyes and look properly you will see a virtuous lady and industrial one... if your argument is that these days, there are MORE ladies who don't have much to offer, i would have agreed but generalizing as ALL WOMEN is foolery 8 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by eyinjuege: 6:31am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Makschinchin: I'm so happy to see you say many women contribute to their homes. This is something I notice in Nigeria a lot. Is it the bankers, drs, market women etc. The only downturn is that they don't pursue their careers aggressively like their male counterparts because of their children and homes, so at the end of the day the male collegues may end up doing better. 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:26am On Jun 05, 2019 |
No please, I was not trying to look down on the amount of bride price, ok? My problem is that the men complain about it, they make so much fuss about bride price, they feel the women are not worth it. Yes, the bride price is significant, I only mentioned that some bride prices are so cheap, to clarify my views on why men should stop complaining, cuz it's not too much a sacrifice. Am not even bothered about name change, my point is, men should always remember that a woman had to let go her father's name, which is a big deal, to bear his name, show a little appreciation, simple. Ugosample: |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by zed7: 9:37am On Jun 05, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Little appreciation for taking my name? Does taking my name add money to my bank account? I'll rather have a woman who impacts positively in my life who keeps her fathers name than a liability, a nag and one who takes away my peace but chooses to take my surname. Who surname epp? Marriage is more prestigious to women than to men, that's why they can't date a man for a long time without asking for marriage. They feel they need to be married to be complete. They probably are the ones who need to show appreciation. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by ireneidiva(f): 10:11am On Jun 05, 2019 |
eyinjuege:This is not true. Most pursue relentlessly and rise to the top. Stop generalizing. |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:21am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Yes, show a little appreciation and stop whining over the little token you spend. Can you impact positively on a woman who impacts positively in your life as well? Would your male ego not feel bruised if your wife is more successful than you? I wouldn't know. Marriage is prestigious to both men and women. The only reason a lady will wish for marriage earlier than her male folk, is Nature. Nature designed women giving them a time gap for natural procreation, tho artificial procreation processes has now made things easier. If not for this, a lot of gals would not be bothered much about marriage. zed7: 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by zed7: 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:What token? Who is talking about spending? Men and women are now equal and should do things equally. Keep your name if you want. You are the one talking of appreciation? Why should I appreciate you changing your surname to mine? Of what value is that to me? I don't know the kind of men you hang around, personally I don't rate people in terms of financial success. As long as I put food on the table, put a roof over our heads and pay my kids school fees, my wife can use her billions to buy Ferraris and Louis Vuittons if she pleases. Only insecure people are moved by other peoples financial successes. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
Hmm..... Are you trying to sound different, or are you indeed different? Whatever, I don't need an answer. But most men have demeaned women, complaining that they spend on bride price, etc, issues of spending is part of the main write up above. If you are in need of a lady who can impact you positively, then go search, be patient, and you will find. zed7: 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
breakerofchains: I will be really surprised if you are not Safiaa's alternate moniker. Like absolutely surprised. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by cococandy(f): 1:56am On Jun 06, 2019 |
People are even wasting their energy trying to explain to this doofus what women bring to the table. If you feel that they bring nothing, then settle down with a man or a goat. It’s not by force. Nobody has to educate you in your willful ignorance, sexism and hate for women. Imagine using phrases such as “fickle lives”. Dumbass. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:44am On Jun 06, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: men we moan about bride price as if its charged by women when in fact most african bride price are charged by the same men who moaned about it when he got married he repeats the same cycle when his daughter is getting married 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:24am On Jun 06, 2019 |
Firstly, what do you want? There are a whole lots of things that a woman can offer, only boils down to what you want! Relationships are too transactional these days! That being said, this world is no longer a world of ladies sitting back and receiving all they need. The desire to leave something worthwhile, a mark should consume every lady. This transcends just being successful. This is no longer a period of walking around purposelessly or thinking the world revolves around you, your nails, body, shoes and clothes. I want to see more ladies burn with the desire for knowledge and its application. Burn with the desire to make a change while making profits/progress. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Rilley(m): 7:44am On Jun 06, 2019 |
cococandy:Shut the fvck up shapeless thing 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by bukatyne(f): 8:57am On Jun 06, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Women are doing great things. They just need to be consistent and marry the right man who won't derail them. 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Nobody: 8:59am On Jun 06, 2019 |
cococandy:I thought you guys are feminist, so what do you have to offer apart from your Toto....? Clowns. 5 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by nuelyoyo(m): 9:47am On Jun 06, 2019 |
Gaggi:sexual satisfaction is mutual, not exclusive. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by duduade: 11:07am On Jun 06, 2019 |
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Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
genq:women should bring absolutely nothing to the table. MGTOW are just bitter men who end up with mentally unstable women |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by ayabadamilola: 5:42pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
In this 2019, somebody is still asking question for the gods? If you don't want to get married or have anything to do with women, stay on your own na. Shuu... What do women bring to the table?! O n bi mi o! Aburo Bobrisky 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Nobody: 9:33am On Jun 07, 2019 |
izaray: How is he a kid?? He made a very valid point!! What do u women have to offer?? Just answer the damn question. |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Nobody: 9:37am On Jun 07, 2019 |
zed7: Thank u my brother for this very nice statement! Don't mind all this naija women. But I noticed from experience that women from the west(USA,Europe and Asia) are more reasonable than this bunch of naija women we have... When I was in the USA ,I was surprised to know that men and women split bills when on a date!! |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:31am On Jun 07, 2019 |
zed7:.. Thank you so much for this comment. This is what I keep telling men.Do your duty as a man and if she wants to buy the whole estates,and cars in the world,she's is free.After all, its our kids that are going to be the rightful owners when the time comes. Like I used to say,most of the things I do today is for the betterment of the future of our kids. |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:39pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Waoh......am just seeing this, you have said it all . ZIMDRILL: |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Jman06(m): 7:44pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Changing your father's name is not a big deal and shouldn't be a meal ticket into a man's pocket! Otherwise, we can decide to flip it ie I bear your name while you empty your bank account on top my head Lolzzz, how about that |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:06pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Ooopps''....so like Esau, you don't mind selling your father's name, your name, and your generations name becos of the offer of my bank account....o yeah, I will gladly accept the offer. .....some smart guys know a name is worth more than money. Am not saying you ain't smart anyways. Get the message and judge yourself . Jman06: |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Jman06(m): 8:18pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:That name thing is inconsequential! It should never be considered a reason for a lady to dump all her problems on a man. Better still, you can decide to keep your surname if bearing my name is the only "value" you're gonna add to my life. I don't fucccking care! |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:22pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Was surname issue the only benefit a man gains from marriage to a woman? Is that all you can find up there? Wadeva, suit yourself! Jman06: |
Re: What Do Women Bring To The Table? by Jman06(m): 10:42pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:But you made it look like a big deal. |
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