Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

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MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

Have you ever toasted a guy?

they wanna be your friend what other reasons do you want? fish brain

So what's the big deal in them wanting to be friends If along the line they decide to graduate from friend zone to boivrend you should be happy they considered you an upgraded version

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

he didn't finish it... Its supposed to be I want us to be friends..... With benefits

N even if you later moved their rank from just friends to boivrend by mistake, their real intention was to stop at just being friends with benefits with you....

if they tell u da exact words u are looking for,
u'll be annoyed that they see u as a hoe

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

How do you know what they exactly mean if you don't become their friend?

On this episode of 'what do ladies really want?' If I had come to you saying something else would you give me an audience?

So if I meet you newly and say I want us to be sex mates or I want u to be my girlfriend, won't you be afraid yourself? Someone you just met. And you may never get to know that person since he already pissed you off with such first approach. So starting up as friends is just normal.

Otatom:
On this episode of 'what do ladies really want?' If I had come to you saying something else would you give me an audience?

I just wonder..

Guys know the code. They don't just rush things. From being friends, things can graduate to the next level. As a lady, u have the right to say yeah or nah. But if u agree, don't be carried away with his charm, smiles and all. Watch his every move, Wat he says, how he thinks, what he does. This will determine if he's genuine or not.

...or why do they change it to "I only wanna be friends" after you oust their apparent motive

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

Would you prefer I just meet you for the first time and tell you I WANT TO FVCK YOU?

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

So you expect a man to walk up to you and tell you straight up, they wanna bleep you?

Can't you just be friends?
Must every guy that approaches you date you?

Ladies and their false sense of entitlement.

Currently, I have 3girlfriends and 2 ex's I've never used that line before



Not all guys

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

and the ones that have gotten straight to the point..... Have u ever given them a straight and exact answer?





People

obyrich:
So you expect a man to walk up to you and tell you straight up, they wanna bleep you?

That would be preferable actually

BlueAir:
and the ones that have gotten straight to the point..... Have u ever given them a straight and exact answer?





People

Yes they have got an answer

MissRaine69:

Yes they have got an answer

real bold Truth

Xaos:
Can't you just be friends?
Must every guy that approaches you date you?

Ladies and their false sense of entitlement.

It’s a question that needed an answer not an analysis of of my self worth and while we are on that subject I do have a high opinion of myself. There is no false aspect to it .Was I supposed to wait on the likes of you to bolster my repertoire?

BlueAir:
real bold Truth

You are in a different category....tread cautiously

akinjojo1234:


Would you prefer I just meet you for the first time and tell you I WANT TO FVCK YOU?

If that’s all there is to it ...lay it on the table I would then make an informed choice as to whether it’s worth sitting on or should I pass.........

omale88:

How do you know what they exactly mean if you don't become their friend?

The fact that it then becomes a labyrinth of words when saying exactly what they mean would have saved a whole heap of unnecessary small talk that would was clearly going nowhere fast.

MissRaine69:

You are in a different category....tread cautiously

ive tread enough already... Did u even check ur email this morning?

Oluromantic:
So if I meet you newly and say I want us to be sex mates or I want u to be my girlfriend, won't you be afraid yourself? Someone you just met. And you may never get to know that person since he already pissed you off with such first approach. So starting as friends is just normal.

Nope starting with that phrase alone puts you in negative equity

SaucyBenks:
he didn't finish it... Its supposed to be I want us to be friends..... With benefits

N even if you later moved their rank from just friends to boivrend by mistake, their real intention was to stop at just being friends with benefits with you....

It would be exceptionally naive of me to assume what was meant to be a physical arrangement would graduate to wedding bells. This is a mistake most women make....I happen to be not most women.

Earthquake2:


Have you ever toasted a guy?

Yes
And I certainly did not use that phrase.

That phrase is so irritating. I don't even reply back. I mean what the f?!

Since when do friendships start with "I want to be your friend?"

Someone you had no idea even existed until ca. 2 mins ago