MissRaine69:

It’s a question that needed an answer not an analysis of of my self worth and while we are on that subject I do have a high opinion of myself. There is no false aspect to it .Was I supposed to wait on the likes of you to bolster my repertoire?

Likes of me? — Nope.
You are obviously too sophisticated for my type.

MissRaine69:

That would be preferable actually

Hmmm. Sounds strange. Many a woman will find that very offensive.

obyrich:
Hmmm. Sounds strange. Many a woman will find that very offensive.

That’s why some men lie to them...with an outcome favouring one party

MissRaine69:

That’s why some men lie to them...with an outcome favouring one party

You are correct.

MissRaine69:

The fact that it then becomes a labyrinth of words when saying exactly what they mean would have saved a whole heap of unnecessary small talk that would was clearly going nowhere fast.

I want to be your friend is a vote of security, meaning I don't want to loss an either interesting person before I even get to know them,its request phrase to indicate interest, I don't use that phrase but I think I understand why my brothers do,it makes you acceptance or decline option go easy on them,your reply would either be yes or no and that reduce tension since they where expecting that,I understand your question is targeted on those men who are only interested in having sexual relationship with a woman perhaps you think its better they state their business instead of deviating from the main course (just friends),but however I suggest you get used to that phrase there are a million nice guys who would use the same phrase and stick to it.

MissRaine69:

Nope starting with that phrase alone puts you in negative equity

Went through all your replies to other posts. I see you just wanted to make some noise on NL.

If you knew the answer to your question, you should have posted a suggestion, not disqualifying almost all the responses you got. The thread has no value anymore that way.. nothing to learn. You made a thread and overshadowed all the post with no suggestion

It's a waste of time engaging Raine in arguments because she lives in one of those climes with advanced, secular cultures. Women can defeat shame traceable to marriage in those climes. That's why whether you get married or not will have no effect on their emotional wellbeing.

If you're a Nigerian woman(both parents), and thinks you can draw relationship inspiration from Raine, you're on your own. I concluded that our culture needs overhaul when my wife, 37, suffered miscarriage twice within first year of marriage and became greatly distressed. She forced me to move to another apartment in a bid to escape shame from fellow women who knew she had been pregnant twice and miscarried it. Now what if she's infertile? Would she ask me to leave Nigeria?

We will keep making comments in your threads, though we know most of your thoughts are not applicable to Nigerians.

Now to your question, nonstarters are the ones that ask to be friends. I pass complement on their beauties, obtain their phone number within 7 minutes and leave. If there's chemistry during our chats, I will then ask you out. Period!

This OP with her unnecessary concoction of words

So...what should be said, instead...ITK


please, dive off your high horse

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

Hi Raine, I want to nak you for 3 months then I’ll leave you.

How do you feel about that “exact” statement of intention?

I think it’s better to package stuff nicely. Even if you have ulterior motives, at least put up a good facade. It’s good branding. Besides, they could change their minds along the way.

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

Soft landing..

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Altern8:


Hi Raine, I want to nak you for 3 months then I’ll leave you.

How do you feel about that “exact” statement of intention?

I think it’s better to package stuff nicely. Even if you have ulterior motives, at least put up a good facade. It’s good branding. Besides, they could change their minds along the way.

Three months? That’s a bit over ambitious considering performance is also a factor here.

MissRaine69:

Three months? That’s a bit over ambitious considering performance is also a factor here.

Lol. Are we talking about the same thing?

And out of all I wrote, why did you pick “three months” to respond to?

I don't friend and I don't do relationship because I have one I cherised and am never ready to trade her for anybody else.

So when I meet girls both offline and online I normally use the word...can we hook up, intimate friend or friends with benefit.

Yes/no will follow suit

MissRaine69:

It would be exceptionally naive of me to assume what was meant to be a physical arrangement would graduate to wedding bells. This is a mistake most women make....I happen to be not most women.

lucky you then...

But you can't be too sure of yourself my dear

fieryy:
That phrase is so irritating. I don't even reply back. I mean what the f?!

Since when do friendships start with "I want to be your friend?"

Someone you had no idea even existed until ca. 2 mins ago

I want to be ur friend

MissRaine69:

Yes
And I certainly did not use that phrase.

I would prefer if we bleep till my preek fall offs ..

U want hear truth?

MissRaine69:

Yes
And I certainly did not use that phrase.

You really are what you are...
I would so love to be wooed by you...

sisisioge:
...or why do they change it to "I only wanna be friends" after you oust their apparent motive

I want to be your friend

fieryy:
That phrase is so irritating. I don't even reply back. I mean what the f?!

Since when do friendships start with "I want to be your friend?"

Someone you had no idea even existed until ca. 2 mins ago

Hello Girl, I want to be your friend

MissRaine69:

It’s a question that needed an answer not an analysis of of my self worth and while we are on that subject I do have a high opinion of myself. There is no false aspect to it .Was I supposed to wait on the likes of you to bolster my repertoire?

Mama da mama

fieryy:
That phrase is so irritating. I don't even reply back. I mean what the f?!

Since when do friendships start with "I want to be your friend?"

Someone you had no idea even existed until ca. 2 mins ago

So, what expression would you have preferred?? I mean instead of "I want to be your friend"

Dear OP..

I wont give u word nw its already late cos its d second page so pple wont see it, therefore i will be patient till u create anoda foolish thread like dis one.




And some useless generation of useless girls re hyping demselves already on dis thread.


Dnt worry we ll meet in anoda thread

omale88:


I want to be your friend is a vote of security, meaning I don't want to loss an either interesting person before I even get to know them,its request phrase to indicate interest, I don't use that phrase but I think I understand why my brothers do,it makes you acceptance or decline option go easy on them,your reply would either be yes or no and that reduce tension since they where expecting that,I understand your question is targeted on those men who are only interested in having sexual relationship with a woman perhaps you think its better they state their business instead of deviating from the main course (just friends),but however I suggest you get used to that phrase there are a million nice guys who would use the same phrase and stick to it.

Thank you so much
We NANG (Nigerian Association Of Nice Guys) appreciate your deposition!!

Oluromantic:

Went through all your replies to other posts. I see you just wanted to make some noise on NL.

If you knew the answer to your question, you should have posted a suggestion, not disqualifying almost all the responses you got. The thread has no value anymore that way.. nothing to learn. You made a thread and overshadowed all the post with no suggestion

And yet you posted something. Why did you not scroll on by? Before I digress.
You are entitled to an opinion and on the matter of that opinion I am entitled to not show any ounce of care regarding what it is you think.
I can say hand on my heart I give zero fcks about all that your wrote.

chinchonglee:
Dear OP..

I wont give u word nw its already late cos its d second page so pple wont see it, therefore i will be patient till u create anoda foolish thread like dis one.




And some useless generation of useless girls re hyping demselves already on dis thread.


Dnt worry we ll meet in anoda thread

All that typing on a “useless thread?”
You are the king of petty
I envy everyone you have never met.

MissRaine69:

All that typing on a “useless thread?”
You are the king of petty
I envy everyone you have never met.

be feeling important..2day is ur day

Dance in the Holyghost Sinach

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wV3VJ3XW_4

MissRaine69:

And yet you posted something. Why did you not scroll on by? Before I digress.
You are entitled to an opinion and on the matter of that opinion I am entitled to not show any ounce of care regarding what it is you think.
I can say hand on my heart I give zero fcks about all that your wrote.

You have serious mind issues

MissRaine69:

Yes
And I certainly did not use that phrase.

You toasted a man? Where do you stay please? In Nigeria? Outside Nigeria?

Please come off your high horse. A Nigerian (girl/woman/lady/spinster - pick any that suits you) toast a Nigerian man. The end of the world is here then.

LostMyZeal:
This OP with her unnecessary concoction of words

So...what should be said, instead...ITK


please, dive off your high horse

Someone said it before me. Thank you ma broda. She's definitely on her high horse. The thread was to make her feel worthy. The type that has a feeling that 'likes' and 'shares' makes them intelligent.

MissRaine69:
Why do some men use this as a chat up line? Why is it difficult for some to say exactly what they mean?
Genuinely curious about this phenomenon.

Can't someone be your friend in peace? Why do you ladies think you are so special and the best thing since sliced bread that any boy who comes across you all wants your pussy and heart?

Get down from that high horse.

dfrost:


Someone said it before me. Thank you ma broda. She's definitely on her high horse. The thread was to make her feel worthy. The type that has a feeling that 'likes' and 'shares' makes them intelligent.

she a Queen of vocabulary