bukatyne:
Was expectations not discussed during courtship?

And nothing pisses me off than spouses sweeping issues under the carpet when they should communicate.

Is eating bread or outside everyday the solution to the problem?

Chuks9000:

Are you asking the guy to assault the lady?
Some issues need to be given time to enable both parties reflect (which does not amount to sweeping under the carpet).
The culprit has reflected on her action and is seeking for ways remedy/address the situation.
Getting pissed of is not a virtue of any faith...

Theyoungmatron:
A man that can't provide for his family
He expects his wife to provide for the family but will call himself a man
The family section is getting dysfunctional by the day.
The woman is expected to provide money for food, buy the food for the family, cook the meal and wait for the adulterated prick to come home and eat I raise yansh for una.

bukatyne:


Did you read where the man provides every other thing?

Theyoungmatron:
|Every other things like what When you are not feeding your family as a man, it nullifies every other thing you are doing. A man that waits for a woman to feed him. A man that shares his god giving responsibility of putting food on the table with his wife, that man is less OF a man. The new generation of men has watered down their responsibilities to the extent of delegating FEEDING, SHELTER AND SCHOOL FEES TO THEIR WIVES and still expect to be respected.

Let the wife provide the money, let the man buy and cook, i think the woman will agree to this since we are in the era of delegation

Theyoungmatron:
|Every other things like what When you are not feeding your family as a man, it nullifies every other thing you are doing. A man that waits for a woman to feed him. A man that shares his god giving responsibility of putting food on the table with his wife, that man is less OF a man. The new generation of men has watered down their responsibilities to the extent of delegating FEEDING, SHELTER AND SCHOOL FEES TO THEIR WIVES and still expect to be respected.

Let the wife provide the money, let the man buy and cook, i think the woman will agree to this since we are in the era of delegation

genq:



Shut the fvck up! You women wanted equality right?
This comment is a perfect example of how illogical and irrational the female species is.
Nonsense

dingbang:
Like seriously, what do women use their income for?

GoldenJAT:
Just one question for the woman!!! WHAT IS YOUR SALARY MEANT FOR?? HOW ARE YOU HELPING HIM OUT?
There are so many issues I won't assume when I eventually want to settle down. WE GO SIDON TALK FIRST.

funmisticqueen:
Being married to him is helping out plenty, let him be a man and buy foodstuffs

funmisticqueen:
Being married to him is helping out plenty, let him be a man and buy foodstuffs

Theyoungmatron:
|Every other things like what When you are not feeding your family as a man, it nullifies every other thing you are doing. A man that waits for a woman to feed him. A man that shares his god giving responsibility of putting food on the table with his wife, that man is less OF a man. The new generation of men has watered down their responsibilities to the extent of delegating FEEDING, SHELTER AND SCHOOL FEES TO THEIR WIVES and still expect to be respected.

Let the wife provide the money, let the man buy and cook, i think the woman will agree to this since we are in the era of delegation

funmisticqueen:
staying relevant, a man's job is to pay the bills.

bukatyne:

A day when did communication translate to assault?
Husband drinks garri the first night and addresses the issue next day
There is obviously conflict of expectation which should be straightened out.
Getting pissed aka angry is not a sin. It is what I do with it that matters.
My issue is with the husband by the way.
I commented and moved on.