Biglittlelois:



He sounded like he was trying to convince us not himself.

Convince us of what? That he is not demon possessed and can't be possessed?

Regiomontanus:
Convince us of what? That he is not demon possessed and can't be possessed?

Am I suppose to explain reasoning and comprehension to you? Direct your question to the person involved.

Lol, op's relief is contagious.

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Regiomontanus:
His point is getting married in Nigeria is safer and better than getting married in western countries. In Nigeria, if your wife is disturbing you and not giving you your peace, you can dump her silly ass with immediate effect unlike in the western world where marriage is a cage.

Okay so what happens to the husband if he is disturbing the wife and not giving her peace? In the western world, she dump his silly ass, so I don't see how marriage there is a cage!!!

Biglittlelois:



Okay so what happens to the husband if he is disturbing the wife and not giving her peace? In the western world, she dump his silly ass, so I don't see how marriage there is a cage!!!

I only argue with my intellectual peers.
Take your ilogical nonsense to the dustbin you crawled out of.

Biglittlelois:



Am I suppose to explain reasoning and comprehension to you? Direct your question to the person involved.

Your initial post lack reasoning and comprehension. You probably typed it out of emotion instead of reasoning.

The op was accused of being demon possessed but he countered that stating his belief. What's wrong in that? Nothing of course but you accused him of being a sissy and told me he was trying to convince you of something. What exactly?!

eni4real:
Teach me master..
I don't want to marry a Feminist or a liability!!!

That is the 2 end of the spectrum...

you don't need to be taught anything, just join a good bible-believing church and also belong to a group. Ask God for whatever you want and pray fervently , be it rightful spouse, good job and prosperity he will answer you in no time, he is the God that answereth by fire....

Biglittlelois:



Okay so what happens to the husband if he is disturbing the wife and not giving her peace? In the western world, she dump his silly ass, so I don't see how marriage there is a cage!!!

In Nigeria both can dump each other but in the western world, only the woman can dump man's ass while the husband can't try such without losing much. Gender inequality?

Marriage in the western world is a cage for men. If a woman wants to divorce a man for no reason, she will be granted a divorce, 60% of the man's networth, his house, custody of the children and he will still have to pay alimony and child support. If he cannot pay all these, he is sent to jail. Tell me why marriage is not a cage for men?

2buffagain:


I only argue with my intellectual peers.
Take your ilogical nonsense to the dustbin you crawled out of.

They result to insult when they have nothing sensible to type, and they still claim intellect, lol.

Skmoda360:

you don't need to be taught anything, just join a good bible-believing church and also belong to a group. Ask God for whatever you want and pray fervently , be it rightful spouse, good job and prosperity he will answer you in no time, he is the God that answereth by fire....

Amen!!

God airpus oo
give us good understanding wives
may slayqueens and karashikas plus giirls that turn to coffin wen u want to do d do dont come our way
in jesu kristi name i pray

schoolboymatt:
cheers to that.


But if I may ask, what did u see in her that made u married her in the first place?

wetin him wan see pass yansh and bress

2buffagain:


I only argue with my intellectual peers.
Take your ilogical nonsense to the dustbin you crawled out of.

Seems you noticed as well. She and the females who creeped in here were full of stupid sh1t.

Biglittlelois:



They result to insult when they have nothing sensible to type, and they still claim intellect, lol.

He is not insulting you. You have been irrational so far. Sit up.

Regiomontanus:
In Nigeria both can dump each other but in the western world, only the woman can dump man's ass while the husband can't try such without losing much. Gender inequality?

Marriage in the western world is a cage for men. If a woman wants to divorce a man for no reason, she will be granted a divorce, 60% of the man's networth, his house, custody of the children and he will still have to pay alimony and child support. If he cannot pay all these, he is sent to jail. Tell me why marriage is not a cage for men?

At your first comment, so all of a sudden both gender can dump each other, pray tell, give a scenerio or an example where a wife drove her husband out of the house to go leave with his parents in Nigeria.

At second comment, do you know what a cage means, it is when one is trapped in something and can't come out no matter what, In marriages you can come out of it e.g divorce, the only thing in the western world is you have to pay child support if kids are involved and FYI that law doesn't apply to only females, there are instances where the husband wins having the kids and the wife get to pay for child support, there is very much equality there.

Regiomontanus:
He is not insulting you. You have been irrational so far. Sit up.

Do you have a God complex or you just like supporting your fellow man? Buzz off.

MUSAPLC, I am happy for you. You deserve your peace and not a demon for a wife. Enjoy your peace and look wella next time. Don't let what all the stupid nairaland girls are saying. Your life is too precious and short for wicked women to ruin it for you.

@Op seem to have described a wife that ran out of love for him. She is not really a demon but she was so done with the marriage.

Biglittlelois:



At your first comment, so all of a sudden both gender can dump each other, pray tell, give a scenerio or an example where a wife drove her husband out of the house to go leave with his parents in Nigeria.

At second comment, do you know what a cage means, it is when one is trapped in something and can't come out no matter what, In marriages you can come out of it e.g divorce, the only thing in the western world is you have to pay child support if kids are involved and FYI that law doesn't apply to only females, there are instances where the husband wins having the kids and the wife get to pay for child support, there is very much equality there.

We all know the western laws are biased towards women. Cases where women pay alimony are a rarity.

**spits**

Regiomontanus:
Seems you noticed as well. She and the females who creeped in here were full of stupid sh1t.

Probably they are like the op's wife and don't want to condemn themselves by rightly criticising the op's wife and congratulating him on his new found peace.

You call someone irrational while you are a dolt full of illogical nonsense, I don't see any femaLe praising the wife here, seems you have comprehension issues.

theoptimist298:


Yen yen yen. What is your point exactly?

We all know the western laws are biased towards women. Cases where women pay alimony are a rarity. I know someone that the wife chased outta the house, so what are we saying? Women and victim mentality. Is there a victim mentality initiation party thrown for women of age or its like a code embedded in y’all hormones?

**spits**

So which do you prefer? That the woman is thrown out with the kids to the streets while the husband has the whole house to himself, and he doesn't pay alimony and child support?

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

You thank God for a step backwards abi?

No reason is sound enough to send a wife you courted, labored and married legally!

If only your creator can count your sins, name them one by one and send you packing from life!

Better go and bring back your wife before it is too late!

Biglittlelois:



At your first comment, so all of a sudden both gender can dump each other, pray tell, give a scenerio or an example where a wife drove her husband out of the house to go leave with his parents in Nigeria.

You see why I said you have been irrational? If a man owes the house, he can chase the woman out. The same thing for a woman who owes the house — she can send the husband out. All this can happen in Nigeria. I never said a woman can't dump her husband in Nigeria. I was simply arguing why marriage is better in Nigeria than western countries FOR MEN.

At second comment, do you know what a cage means, it is when one is trapped in something and can't come out no matter what, In marriages you can come out of it e.g divorce, the only thing in the western world is you have to pay child support if kids are involved and FYI that law doesn't apply to only females, there are instances where the husband wins having the kids and the wife get to pay for child support, there is very much equality there.

How it works is that the person earning more gets to pay but in 98% of the marriages, men are the breadwinners. A man who is the breadwinner cannot leave or he loses a lot. He is therefore trapped. Haven't you seen when a woman is caught cheating but during the divorce, she gets the house and the husband stays homeless? men have been arrested and jailed for not being able to pay child support and alimony even when it was clear that they don't have the means to.

Biglittlelois:



So which do you prefer? That the woman is thrown out with the kids to the streets while the husband has the whole house to himself, and he doesn't pay alimony and child support?

I have no problem with the wife being kicked to the streets. If she insists on leaving with the kids, she must have a back up plan and as such, she is free to.

Biglittlelois:



Do you have a God complex or you just like supporting your fellow man? Buzz off.

I don't have a god complex. If I found you right, I would support you above my father.

Regiomontanus:
I don't have a god complex. If I found you right, I would support you above my father.

You obviously support your fellow man above logical reasoning.....

Biglittlelois:



You call someone irrational while you are a dolt full of illogical nonsense, I don't see any femaLe praising the wife here, seems you have comprehension issues.

I never said you girls were praising the wife. You have comprehension issues. I only said you girls were making stupid contributions. In fact you people were trying to table on the op for making a wise decision. None of you condemned the wife at the start.

theoptimist298:


I have no problem with the wife being kicked to the streets. If she insists on leaving with the kids, she must have a back up plan and as such, she is free to.

You have no issues with the wife being kicked to the streets? I have no more words for people like you , this ends our conversation.

My brother, congratulations.

Most of these people asking you useless questions are still little children fed by their parents.

Bros, God really saved you.

Konki:


You thank God for a step backwards abi?

No reason is sound enough to send a wife you courted, labored and married legally!

There are sound reasons. When your wife reveals her true colour after marriage and is making your life hard, it is reasonable to quit. Courting, labouring and marrying her legally doesn't give the wife the licence to make him miserable.

If only your creator can count your sins, name them one by one and send you packing from life!

God is nonexistent. Even if he existed, no man should be made to endure a miserable existence in the hands of any woman because god forgave his sins.

Better go and bring back your wife before it is too late!

He had better not.