what you're experiencing now is reality shock. you're not fine anything but trying hard to keep a straight face. divorce is never palatable in the long run i guess you were forming strong willed and opinionated then what?

you've the children, you've the papers but you just realize something is missing...i know cos i am an adult. if you need the attention of your husband, humbly reach out.

Please you don’t owe strangers on the internet any explanation. For some men, you are a woman, that’s enough for them to say you are the one in the wrong. A woman can never be good, she is always evil.

I am very happy for you that you were able to pick up the pieces and move on. Stay happy, stay strong and stay blessed for you and your kids.

Coolesther:



Paint him black? Lol, he already did that himself, well I don’t really have to explain to you but if you know him ask him if I married him cos of papers. Also ask him why he slept with another nairalander when she came to our house on vacation and when he had an online affair with mother one. I will wait

Not again

Crackhaus before you go on your imagined savage mood from your bush radio, i hope that you know that you do NOT know this very "She" I typed about.

Your feminism yada yada is a clear pointer that you don't know her. Just saying.

ifyalways:
Crackhaus before you go on your imagined savage mood from your bush radio, i hope that you know that you do NOT know this very "She" I typed about.

Your feminism yada yada is a clear pointer that you don't know her. Just saying.

Lmao... Where did you see feminism, and where did I talk about going on any savage mood?
You seem pressed.

Anyway, I greet you oo, mama d' mama...
How are the grand children?

Wow! Thank Goodness it ended well for you. Sheet happens every now and then to all of us. Pele.

ifyalways:

This is horrible If true. Considering she also had a child for another NLDER, dude bailed on her and all.

All those meet up and too much familiarity;- never ends well. Play on NLD, SAY your hi on NLD, shut down you laptop shut out all the "friends" .


People don't learn. They keep comparing their real and probably good life with the lies and fantasy spewn here. Anyways that era of NLD is gone.

Esther, stay safe is all. Take care of your children. Be happy . You dont need to validate yourself really but if you wish, the floor is yours. Truth is none of us actually truly care, whatever u write here will only be weekend cheap entertainment.

Na wa o...why would people deliberately wet our thirst without giving the full gist fa? iT is another form of taunt that is not scriptural.

Who was the girl? Is it the same with the exotic car brand moniker? She got a baby for another dude here? Who? Wow. She must be seriously hot

Can you please finish the story without insulting my curiously ma? You will surely make heaven if you do

crackhaus:
*Hissing in Greek*

Nairalanders and their unwarranted obsession with keeping up with the *fill as appropriate*.

Met on NL, married on NL, marital crisis on NL, infidelity with a NL-der(self-proclaimed equality advocate) who already has a child for another NL-der(according to bush radio), fighting on NL, everyone dropping their own version on NL, marriage finally over on NL, I have moved on and have my papers on NL, and so on and so forth...

Una no get social life.

*Hissing in Greek again* x2

Good evening sir, please help with more explicit details. Not that I'm prying o, you could quickly drop it and delete after I finish reading. Thank a ton for your compliance. May the good Lord bless and settle us all.

ifyalways:
Crackhaus before you go on your imagined savage mood from your bush radio, i hope that you know that you do NOT know this very "She" I typed about.

Your feminism yada yada is a clear pointer that you don't know her. Just saying.

Hello ma...just in case you missed the initial mention. Thank you.

sisisioge:


Good evening sir, please help with more explicit details. Not that I'm prying o, you could quickly drop it and delete after I finish reading. Thank a ton for your compliance. May the good Lord bless and settle us all.

You no well oo

crackhaus:

You no well oo

Chai! Gist the gist nau. There is love in sharing.

sisisioge:


Good evening sir, please help with more explicit details. Not that I'm prying o, you could quickly drop it and delete after I finish reading. Thank a ton for your compliance. May the good Lord bless and settle us all.

https://www.nairaland.com/4474379/siena-gbudje-exposed.ladies-careful-members/6#67240755
You was here what more do you need to hear?

weyreypey:


https://www.nairaland.com/4474379/siena-gbudje-exposed.ladies-careful-members/6#67240755
You was here what more do you need to hear?

Not detailed. The elders kept fronting against full disclosure. We only know the headline " dude got himself a side chick but main chick bursted him" is that one a full story? Anyways, I'm giving it up...someone else here just got my attention

sisisioge:


Not detailed. The elders kept fronting against full disclosure. We only know the headline " dude got himself a side chick but main chick bursted him" is that one a full story? Anyways, I'm giving it up...someone else here just got my attention

Aproko eke is my hobby... like nurey

weyreypey:

Aproko eke is my hobby... like nurey

I'm not pained fa.

sisisioge:





I'm not pained fa.

Pained bawo ... when you don't have inferiority complex

Oyindidi you might need to be here

Take good care of your kids and be happy. Don't mind the negative posters on this thread. They like to see women suffer

pocohantas:


Smart man. I wish women can get this smart.

Nah not smart. All are built by others. If you cannot and you don't build your own partner another person would. Guess what? A shoulder to lean on soon becomes a dick to ride on in no time...

I've been on this forum long enough, 11 solid years. I mind my business generally and I've witnessed alot of the NL scandals, I just read, laugh and go. However, this struck me as I knew then that this guy that is being treated like a scum now was the toast of all ladies. He was the model man for NL's women. All men were to go learn how to be a good man, great husband and father. He has suddenly become a villain now. FEAR WOMEN.
Lesson to my boys, no matter how you love a woman, please be wise. Never get carried away by verbal expressions of love. Always give that little room for logic, never plunge in 100%. Love can only be authenticated when the chips are down. Stay strong.

Gaggi:
I've been on this forum long enough, 11 solid years. I mind my business generally and I've witnessed alot of the NL scandals, I just read, laugh and go. However, this struck me as I knew then that this guy that is being treated like a scum now was the toast of all ladies. He was the model man for NL's women. All men were to go learn how to be a good man, great husband and father. He has suddenly become a villain now. FEAR WOMEN.
Lesson to my boys, no matter how you love a woman, please be wise. Never get carried away by verbal expressions of love. Always give that little room for logic, never plunge in 100%. Love can only be authenticated when the chips are down. Stay strong.

Also add: never CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE.

prizequest:
what you're experiencing now is reality shock. you're not fine anything but trying hard to keep a straight face. divorce is never palatable in the long run i guess you were forming strong willed and opinionated then what?

you've the children, you've the papers but you just realize something is missing...i know cos i am an adult. if you need the attention of your husband, humbly reach out.

Humbly reach out? We all got something missing whenever there is a fracture. No one can coerce a heart to love as it has loved before. The separated couple each have an equal obligation without ego getting in the way to reach a compromise for the sake of their children' well being.

Pavore9:


Humbly reach out? We all got something missing whenever there is a fracture. No one can coerce a heart to love as it has loved before. The separated couple each have an equal obligation without ego getting in the way to reach a compromise for the sake of their children' well being.

there's a special condition i presume attached concerning seeing the children the man is running away from. let madam state everything

prizequest:


there's a special condition i presume attached concerning seeing the children the man is running away from. let madam state everything

Whatever is the condition, I believe the father of the children can hire a lawyer to engage social services to reach an arrangement that is of the best interest of their children.

Pavore9:


Whatever is the condition, I believe the father of the children can hire a lawyer to engage social services to reach an arrangement that is of the best interest of their children.

it is not a law thing, it is 'what' split them

crackhaus:

Lmao... Where did you see feminism, and where did I talk about going on any savage mood?
You seem pressed.

Anyway, I greet you oo, mama d' mama...
How are the grand children?

Preaching women equality or however you put it. I greet you back.

You, Sisioge and all the other bush radio listeners on stealth mode should know that this "She" I talked about is not lady Mercedes .

Like me ancestors will say, everyone is always right.

weyreypey:

Nah not smart. All are built by others. If you cannot and you don't build your own partner another person would. Guess what? A shoulder to lean on soon becomes a dick to ride on in no time...

who says I wouldn't build my partner?
I meant I would not approach a woman that hasn't got any footing at all in life in the first place,not someone I've dated and wanna be with.
Real men take care of their women and try to make them the best at what they do.
Directionless women are work,real talk!

Me I'm just here to observe. . .

nwanneni:
nwoke go find woman marry for God's sake!
Wetin dey worry you sef?
Every time dear this,dear that.....one day you go call your grand mama dear.
Annoys me badly
Spits

smiles thank u for d insults and mock. I will marry when d time is right. if my grandmum is alive I will call her dear cos she was dear to me.

prizequest:


there's a special condition i presume attached concerning seeing the children the man is running away from. let madam state everything

Pls when you see him or hear from him, could you ask him if I have EVER stopped him from seeing his children? I got proof and the social services has got proof to show he doesn’t want to see them.

Bossjakande:
smiles thank u for d insults and mock. I will marry when d time is right. if my grandmum is alive I will call her dear cos she was dear to me.

Ignore these people, your own wife will locate you. The rib of your ribs will find you and you will marry her. There’s someone for everybody