Was she a demon when you married her?

Why not sit her down and try to find out what is annoying her, you both have a child together.

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

If what you wrote is true, as in she isn't doing those Peper body things because she caught you creeping or your family saying shii about her on SM. Then I rejoice with you. No man deserves to live in prison cos he married a crazy woman. So enjoy the break but I will encourage you to use this time to check yourself, work on yourself and try to fix things.

Did you try prayers, counselling, family meetings etc before you packed her home? Cos if this was a woman we would encourage her to keep faith, pray for her man and do things normal to avoid trouble and divorce, we even encourage them not to confront the man if they see evidence of infidelity.

My advice, OP is to try see if you can fix things. Maybe you too have your own flaws which made her kick back. Go and work on your marriage. Cos this is. One sided story I can't cheer you on for long.

Preshy561:

God literally told men to search for wives.
He said, " A man who finds a wife, finds a good thing."

do you think God would av said that ,if akata babes & naija gurls were in existence then.

ericsmith:



do you think God would av said that ,if akata babes & naija gurls were in existence then.

Are you saying God did not know that they will exist? As in he isn't all knowing?

2buffagain:


I only argue with my intellectual peers.
Take your ilogical nonsense to the dustbin you crawled out of.

Guy, you wicked, aswear.

See as you just finish the _dumb bitch with one solid uppercut.

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

...so the demon has affected your ability to write proper English too?

Like i said earlier if he doesn't have a job and can't afford to pay he won't go to prison.

Under what charge are you sending him to prison, "not having a job"? And when he gets to prison there is a job for him?

The courts take into account consequences of judgement rathetmr than throwing everyone in prison.

Regiomontanus:
That's false. Men go to prison if they cannot pay up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0n-iaob0rI

Regiomontanus:
Don't try to turn the table on the op. Even good men end up marrying demons. Don't you know some women are good at pretending to be saints before marriage only for them to show their true colours after marriage? How is the op supposed to spot out such pretence before marriage when he is not a mind reader?

The op should be happy that a demon has left the house. Op, celebrate.

What point are you proving by trying to shame and strawman the op? You think he isn't making it big? You would be happy if he stayed with his wife and suffer?

.... I guess the reason he asked which multinational company he works for is because the OP seems not very educated. I'm sure you understand that too.

Bros una no dey write correct English in multinational company. Just asking..

eni4real:
She is a Feminists.
God just save you from being completely effeminated!!!

This isn't what feminism is about.

Feminism is a range of social movements, political movements, and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes.

Feminism incorporates the position that societies prioritize the male point of view, and that women are treated unfairly within those societies. True feminism in it's absolute form is the most beautiful thing the world has experienced. It's not about who cook food or who pays the bill, or who decides when not to have sex
Please friend, don't allow social media definition of feminism define yours.
Please read up here.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

Sometimes peace of mind is key, if a relationship is draining me mentally, i dey japa.
Some people can actually be toxic and OP's wife fits that description

Bloooody:

I have noticed your stupidity over Nairaland.
It's your type that supports false rape accusations against men.

Preshy is a very stupid lady. There are many like her here and I mean many. They are the feminists that reasonable men dread. She is a representative of the average nairaland lady.

theAccountant:

This isn't what feminism is about.

Feminism is a range of social movements, political movements, and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes.

Feminism incorporates the position that societies prioritize the male point of view, and that women are treated unfairly within those societies. True feminism in it's absolute form is the most beautiful thing the world has experienced. It's not about who cook food or who pays the bill, or who decides when not to have sex
Please friend, don't allow social media definition of feminism define yours.
Please read up here.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

This is what feminists always say but actions speak greater and louder than words.

Preshy561:

God literally told men to search for wives.
He said, " A man who finds a wife, finds a good thing."

All this people, they will ask a A, u will reply Z, how does ur comment reply the question now. Make una dey think people replying.

egojeny1:
And that's how all the females very close to you will be called demons one after the other by their spouses.

Useless HE goat.

the tin pain her, its pain her die, most of you women are demon and na one guy go be unfortumate and marry you. No respect. No value

TotoNaRubber:


Like i said earlier if he doesn't have a job and can't afford to pay he won't go to prison.

Under what charge are you sending him to prison, "not having a job"? And when he gets to prison there is a job for him?

The courts take into account consequences of judgement rathetmr than throwing everyone in prison.

No. You are still wrong. If the man can't pay, he goes to jail. He is sent to jail for not being able to keep up with the payments.

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

Wow you are such a saint with no fault...Perfect man

Skmoda360:

you don't need to be taught anything, just join a good bible-believing church and also belong to a group. Ask God for whatever you want and pray fervently , be it rightful spouse, good job and prosperity he will answer you in no time, he is the God that answereth by fire....

Na so, in 2019 people still talk like this

egojeny1:
And that's how all the females very close to you will be called demons one after the other by their spouses.

Useless HE goat.

How some females reason baffles me, so females cannot do wrong again, see wat the op listed, if someone treat ur brother like that am sure u will be Happy.

RonKenoly:
Where we go enter to celebrate am naw.

heheheheheheheheeheheheeheheehe

You don't understand the law, go to real courts and ask questions. One youtube video does not demonstrate the clauses in laws.

Regiomontanus:
No. You are still wrong. If the man can't pay, he goes to jail. He is sent to jail for not being able to keep up with the payments.

sodiamond:

Oga your wife is not your house help. That's the mistake here. She is your wife and has the right to do whatever she likes period. Menn!! I'm enjoying my husband o. I do whatever I like as the madam of the house.

Am not even sure if you are married,
You do whatever you like as the madam of the house...
See how this "Madam" of a thing is chaking you even on nairaland here,
as if you are the first.

Get sense and work toward making your home better...

Madam my foot

I thank God she finally left cause my own gf is doing almost the same couple with cheating so today we had issues and she is also leaving I am not happy but glad dat I won't get to spend the rest of my life with someone who is never appreciating

charliboy654:

Na so, in 2019 people still talk like this

I won't blame you...go and marry a confirm slay queen..she will reorientate your life and it will never remain the same again.....shogbo

Gandollaar:
.... I guess the reason he asked which multinational company he works for is because the OP seems not very educated. I'm sure you understand that too.

He could be a business man affiliated with or in charge of a big multinational company. There are different kinds of multinational companies based on services rendered. I am not dismissing the fact that op could be a driver in a top multinational company or "low ranking" multinational company. Can Dangote and most big men speak sophisticated English? My uncle has a poor understanding of English but is a millionaire that has never ran dry. So level of formal education isn't relevant in judging.

However, that guys jibe was unnecessary. By trying to imply that the op was a labourer at an indomie factory, he was trying to demean the op for his choice and paint him as undeserving. He wanted to imply that the op shouldn't celebrate as op isn't worth much to mean anything to the woman. That was completely unnecessary.

Regiomontanus:
Calling someone a "demon" does not indicate anything about the sayer's character. If all the op listed is true about his wife then she is a demon. Be logical and don't turn the tables on the op. Even good men end up marrying demons.

And you decide that the op is a good man because he came here to give his own part of the story without him having any fault at all? So the woman is mad to just do all these without any response from the op or without him doing anything to trigger such attitude from her? The way some people reason in this forum is funny

Skmoda360:

I won't blame you...go and marry a confirm slay queen..she will reorientate your life and it will never remain the same again.....shogbo

Oga quiet jor, try apply sense in ur life.

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

You work as the gateman in a multinational coy or what - because this you English get as e be..

If you can't make your marriage work as a man , who should we be calling "demon"

Anyway we are not in your shoes.

TotoNaRubber:
You don't understand the law, go to real courts and ask questions. One youtube video does not demonstrate the clauses in laws.

Oga, that's how it is in the law. I can bring out more video evidences. Even prenuptials are becoming a facade.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

She doesn't like picking his call and when she does she shouts at him and you say no communication? Communication does not always guarantee a successful marriage.

I never said communication made marriage sucessful.
Calling someone is not the only means he could communicate what happened to discussing issues face to face?

charliboy654:

Oga quiet jor, try apply sense in ur life.

see mumu wey dey talk...do you even have sense....ode oshi...dimwit like you dey talk.