doitforyou:
What did you do to her for her to do all seven? We need to hear from your wife, we have heard your side now we need to hear the side of the wife before we can judge. There are two sides to a story.

Don't listen to the guys on this thread that are trying to break your home, most of them experience worse from their wives, yet they beg their wives for forgiveness, then they come online and form alpha male. OP while your home is broken these men go back to their wives and wash her feet.

Don't divorce her it is not African, our fathers endured and stayed married till death, you should go and look for elders she respects so they can talk to her calmly.

sorry to say ma....... you really sound shallow and it already say alot about you....waooo you are asking him to beg her for how long.... elderly people sud talk to her calmly cos she is a goddess.
A water beg for can never quench a thirst...

Preshy561:
Calling your wife a demon says alot about you.
You must be the chief demon.

So you did not read all he said, tell which man can operate normally under those condition he spelt out. Is it until he dies before you know he is living in bondage. Anyway, I am happy for him at least he did not resort to beating.

delishpot:



Be rational na. I have seen many wives infected with HIV from their husbands. Some men catch VD treat their selves and hide it from their wives. Some catch HIV and hide it too. I have seen many men torment the good wives they marry. I know 1st hand of men who abuse wives one left only after her husband beat her till she lost 1 eye. Still I will not say men are evil and all girls should do is to have baby dafies and enjoy their lives. You hate women we know but don't make your disappointment a national problem.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha Lwkmd o, national problem ke? these kind of guys will never meet good girls cause they can percieve the hate from them. Wailers association, na them

Godoverevery:

sorry to say ma....... you really sound shallow and it already say alot about you....waooo you are asking him to beg her for how long.... elderly people sud talk to her calmly cos she is a goddess.
A water beg for can never quench a thirst...

Is this not the same advise given to women all the time? Double standard, i pity any woman who listen to such advise

Watch another man call her an angel soon... How you treat s woman matters alot...most women are suffering emotionally and mentally due to the man's lack of care, support, and other little things that won't cause a dime.
Treat a woman well she will go out of the way for you.

2buffagain:
Marriage in Nigeria is not scary at all. If she misbehaves constantly, You can simply package her and dump her back in the garbage bin you picked her from.

Not so in the west. Here, it is you that will have to leave your house and 60% of your assets and go rent someone else's boys quarters to shelter yourself...while still paying for her lifestyle and your house that she is no doubt fvcking some other guy in...forever, By law .

Men who marry out here are too brave. Foolish, even.

Marriage in Nigeria is beans and will only be a thing of fear for you if you are just a disgustingly weak man.

Are you married?

ericsmith:



do you think God would av said that ,if akata babes & naija gurls were in existence then.

hahahahah nawao

2buffagain:
Marriage in Nigeria is not scary at all. If she misbehaves constantly, You can simply package her and dump her back in the garbage bin you picked her from.

Not so in the west. Here, it is you that will have to leave your house and 60% of your assets and go rent someone else's boys quarters to shelter yourself...while still paying for her lifestyle and your house that she is no doubt fvcking some other guy in...forever, By law .

Men who marry out here are too brave. Foolish, even.

Marriage in Nigeria is beans and will only be a thing of fear for you if you are just a disgustingly weak man.

Especially if she's white!

Julme:
Watch another man call her an angel soon... How you treat s woman matters alot...most women are suffering emotionally and mentally due to the man's lack of care, support, and other little things that won't cause a dime.
Treat a woman well she will go out of the way for you.

Stale already. All of una don cast already. So those women who cheat on their husband aren’t being cared for ? If you like treat a woman well, a demon would be a demon. Babymama is the way

Did you find out what her problem is, before taking such action?

Ryan03:
Ha ha ha ha ha ha Lwkmd o, national problem ke? these kind of guys will never meet good girls cause they can percieve the hate from them. Wailers association, na them

Na so we see them o

Daeylar:
8 year old marriage and you "returned" her back to her parents?

Women in this country are suffering sha. I don't know how courts split assets in the case of a divorce in this country but in a reasonable country the court will decide who gets what, then we'll see if she will be the one that will return you back to your parent's house



"Demon" wife you are feeding clothing blah blah blah.
No. we are the ones that will feed, clothe and house her. In fact we'll even fu*k her for you. what utter nonsense.

I wish you guys had a real divorce not this sham nonsense of you returning a wife of 8 years to her father's house. I wonder if she even left with anything. Poor lady.

If I say some ladies come with a stupidity app already installed in them..... some will write threads on how Nl men don't respect ladies......can you just go back and read D's rubbish you wrote......how does D's add or help anyone here who might be going tru or thinking such.

Honestly I wish there cud be a maturity test carried out here before people are allowed to contribute to threads becos I am sick of reading babish comments.

Regiomontanus:
Why are stupid people abundant in Nairaland? I never said op is a good man. Are you trying to tell me that no woman can behave like the op's wife just like that? You are still inexperienced.

You are the stupid one here, judging a one sided story. If she was a demon before marrying her, then why did he marry a demon? If not, you want to tell me he is completely innocent all through the marriage? He is the saint? You are really stupid

Regiomontanus:
In Nigeria both can dump each other but in the western world, only the woman can dump man's ass while the husband can't try such without losing much. Gender inequality?

Marriage in the western world is a cage for men. If a woman wants to divorce a man for no reason, she will be granted a divorce, 60% of the man's networth, his house, custody of the children and he will still have to pay alimony and child support. If he cannot pay all these, he is sent to jail. Tell me why marriage is not a cage for men?

any man who gets married in the West is a fool and deserves everything he gets.
Men gain nothing from marriage even the children are not really yours try getting a divorce first that's when you realise the children belong to the woman that's if you were not even raising another man's children sef

delishpot:



Are you saying God did not know that they will exist? As in he isn't all knowing?

well as much as i believe God is omniscience ,ofcus he knows us even before we were formed in our mamas womb but then he said a lot of things base on the perception of beings in existence. i think the greatest challenge God av with humans is giving us "choice"i.e freewill

i also think women av evolve so much from what the bible or history portray them to be.

Julme:
Watch another man call her an angel soon... How you treat s woman matters alot...most women are suffering emotionally and mentally due to the man's lack of care, support, and other little things that won't cause a dime.
Treat a woman well she will go out of the way for you.

yea after a while another we call her a goddess ......then after she will give up on men and call them all type of name......I like the pic you used of ciara hope you no what is going on in life presently.

The issue I have with ladies you can never see them admit or condemn there fellow ladies wrongs never......it always the man fault......Even if she cheat the man pushed her.
Always playing the victim all the time

theoptimist298:


I have no problem with the wife being kicked to the streets. If she insists on leaving with the kids, she must have a back up plan and as such, she is free to.

some advice? please don't get married

doitforyou:
What did you do to her for her to do all seven? We need to hear from your wife, we have heard your side now we need to hear the side of the wife before we can judge. There are two sides to a story.

Don't listen to the guys on this thread that are trying to break your home, most of them experience worse from their wives, yet they beg their wives for forgiveness, then they come online and form alpha male. OP while your home is broken these men go back to their wives and wash her feet.

Don't divorce her it is not African, our fathers endured and stayed married till death, you should go and look for elders she respects so they can talk to her calmly.

Trash,just because ur husband turn u to demi god always begging u after little misunderstandings does not mean all men ar coward like ur husbay.Only a fool of a man will continue to wife that woman of such attitude.

Heineken:
hahahahah nawao

before i defend mysef in ur court ,please can i get one crate of mini Heineken ...#brand

Preshy561:
Calling your wife a demon says alot about you.
You must be the chief demon.

Please shut up

Ryan03:
You are the stupid one here, judging a one sided story. If she was a demon before marrying her, then why did he marry a demon? If not, you want to tell me he is completely innocent all through the marriage? He is the saint? You are really stupid

Stfu senseless mofo. People pretend before marriage and now that he doesn’t want the marriage anymore, what’s your own business? Olofo

Ryan03:
Is this not the same advise given to women all the time? Double standard, i pity any woman who listen to such advise

Oga you are not in Europe....... you are in Africa were it is the men world...... you can't change that nobody can...so if you want to advise women to rebel against there husband fine but I can assure you most of them will end up somewhere very bad.....so it is common sense to just follow the trend and endure till Wen power will shift to them ....Wen the kids are older and can defend them.

eni4real:
That is a text book feminism.
Real life Feminists(especially Nigeria ones) belong to the "men are scum" crews!!
You see them demonizing men in all topics...

My point is, the Nigerian ladies calling men scum, arguing about whose responsibility it is to cook/pay bills are not feminist.
They belong to a subculture that doesn't represent true feminist ideology. So rather than call them feminist (by so doing making the real feminist look like a joke) look for a more appropriate term. Understanding what real feminism is will help you come up with an appropriate term.

ericsmith:



well as much as i believe God is omniscience ,ofcus he knows us even before we were formed in our mamas womb but then he said a lot of things base on the perception of beings in existence. i think the greatest challenge God av with humans is giving us "choice"i.e freewill

i also think women av evolve so much from what the bible or history portray them to be.

Both men and women did. Even the bible mentioned it too. All in all sha our world is going googoo gaga and higgi hagga. We as a people must learn to treat each other with fairness and equity

ericsmith:




before i defend mysef in ur court ,please can i get one crate of mini Heineken ...#brand

lol sure bro...five crates sef.

delishpot:


Fact. But women are pushing back now which is not going down well with guys. They call it feminism

Its their headache o, i Dont think wise women will ever go back to the backward way that some men want. I wont even want such a woman for a wife

Ryan03:
You are the stupid one here, judging a one sided story. If she was a demon before marrying her, then why did he marry a demon? If not, you want to tell me he is completely innocent all through the marriage? He is the saint? You are really stupid

You are very stupid. I never said the man was a good man. How is he supposed to know that the wife is a demon before the marriage? Is he a mind reader? Don't you know that a lot women pretend before marriage only to show their true colours after marriage? For this reason, even good men end up marrying demons and that doesn't make make them demons. To say that a man marrying a bad wife makes him a bad man is to be a high ranking id1ot.

If you doubted that he was saint, why don't you go and ask his wife for her side of the story first instead of turning the tables on the op straight away. You are deserving of a psychiatric evaluation and if you continue at this rate, your children will be ashamed to associate with you or acknowledge you as their blood because your stupidity is disgraceful.

Preshy561:
Calling your wife a demon says alot about you.
You must be the chief demon.

Guy you never jam...some women are complete terrorists right there in your only place of solace. Them go give u biggest time stress, and when you are dead they start bleeping another nigga at the next opportunity.
Pray, watch well before you marry o

egojeny1:
And that's how all the females very close to you will be called demons one after the other by their spouses.

Useless HE goat.

see tears the thing pained this one so much

lilbest4:
any man who gets married in the West is a fool and deserves everything he gets.

The manginas and simps never listen. It's best to let them drown.

Men gain nothing from marriage even the children are not really yours try getting a divorce first that's when you realise the children belong to the woman that's if you were not even raising another man's children sef

Even when it's proven that the child isn't yours, you will have to pay for the upkeep. Even if you descovered that the child isn't yours at delivery and there is a DNA test to prove it, many court will still heap the responsibility on your head if the woman insists you are the father.

Men who get married in the west are fools.

Godoverevery:

Oga you are not in Europe....... you are in Africa were it is the men world...... you can't change that nobody can...so if you want to advise women to rebel against there husband fine but I can assure you most of them will end up somewhere very bad.....so it is common sense to just follow the trend and endure till Wen power will shift to them ....Wen the kids are older and can defend them.

So you want this life style for your daughters? Your sisters? Sorry, i Dont want same for the females in my life and the ones to come Hence i'll teach them to fight for themselves. Power is not given to anyone, power is taken by force