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Choosing A Child's Surname by justt: 8:03pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
I often noticed the arbitrary selection of surname for a child especially in Yoruba land as am not too sure of other tribes. Someone may bear his/her direct biological father's name while another may use grandfather or great grandfather's name. Well they may all have their reasons. My surname is widely known and could easily grant my children favour in some places but I have decided they are going to bear my own personal name. Do you think this is being selfish or when will someone bear my name? |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by phabulous88(m): 8:14pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
justt: I often noticed the arbitrary selection of surname for a child especially in Yoruba land as am not too sure of other tribes. Someone may bear his/her direct biological father's name while another may use grandfather or great grandfather's name. 3 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by mcdreeezy: 8:16pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
If ur child's surname will be ur personal name, what then will be ur wife's surname? What will also be ur own surname? I thot a family is supposed to bear the same surname? |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by Tallesty1(m): 8:20pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
mcdreeezy: If ur child's surname will be ur personal name, what then will be ur wife's surname? What will also be ur own surname? I thot a family is supposed to bear the same surname?Well our generation is changing everything |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by tpia1: 8:20pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
its no big deal. people change their names all the time, why do you need nairaland to validate your decisions? |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by tpia1: 8:21pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
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Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by tpia1: 8:24pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
mcdreeezy: If ur child's surname will be ur personal name, what then will be ur wife's surname? What will also be ur own surname? I thot a family is supposed to bear the same surname? true, usually its the kids who make decisions to change their name later in life. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by justt: 8:27pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
mcdreeezy: If ur child's surname will be ur personal name, what then will be ur wife's surname? What will also be ur own surname? I thot a family is supposed to bear the same surname? Of course my surname will be different from my child's surname. My wife bears my surname which is my grand father's name. So both are different |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by mcdreeezy: 8:28pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Well our generation is changing everythingWell, I do hope the "change" will be worth it |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by timsbee(f): 8:28pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
surname thread...... Dis is nice. I will tell my hubby to edit his too. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by justt: 8:30pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
tpia1: its no big deal. I never asked for validation. Only looking for people's opinions. Yes, there's no big deal about it but one may still get one or two things from other people's contributions. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by mcdreeezy: 8:37pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
justt:Isn't that kind of divisive? A family bearin different surnames? I really wanna understand the logic cuz I'm considerin changin mine in the future. For instance, if ur name is henry justt and ur wife is mary justt, then ur kids are precious henry, thierry henry and benita henry- if ur family is to be called a general name which is mostly the surname just like the kardashians or the elliots ( a collective name for a family), what will ur family be called since the parents and kids bear different surnames?? Just curious 3 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by mcdreeezy: 8:43pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
tpia1:I'd also like to change mine cuz the surname I'm bearin, I don't even know the person, tho it's my dad's lineage. If twas my dad's name now, I wouldn't bother |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by Tallesty1(m): 9:23pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
mcdreeezy: Well, I do hope the "change" will be worth itI doubt it |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by cococandy(f): 10:53pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
I think kids should bear their father's name and not some long dead ancestors name. For me I'd like my kids to bear hubby's first name but he doesn't agree. Op you're not selfish joor. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by tpia1: 11:06pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
mcdreeezy: I'd also like to change mine cuz the surname I'm bearin, I don't even know the person, most people dont actually know the originator of their surnames. thats why its called descent. its probably mostly whites who can trace their ancestry far back to their first known ancestor. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by baby124: 11:09pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Let a kid open their own doors, so that they will not end up messing up a good name out of entitlement. A good name can open doors for a person with good intentions. But we know a lot of people these days don't know what that means. You can also hyphenate the name. My own name will open doors for me and my mother is still grumbling that I should hyphenate so my kids can be identified. My kids will bear their father's name. Though I may hyphenate my own name if I change my mind on that. Let the kids find their own way and answer dem papa name Abeg. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by tpia1: 11:11pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
baby124: so that they will not end up messing up a good name out of entitlement. . hmmm but what qualifies a name as "good" or "bad", all things being equal, ie barring criminal activity, debauchery, etc. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by justt: 8:28am On Jun 11, 2019 |
mcdreeezy: Wow, for so long I haven't checked here! No, my wife will stop bearing my surname (Justt) instead she will bear my name ('Henry'). Then our family will be referred to by my firstname - Henry |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by realtalk19: 11:11am On Jun 11, 2019 |
justt: you can make their surname in a compound form ( your name and surnname with their names) |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by realtalk19: 11:12am On Jun 11, 2019 |
justt: why not Mary Henry- Justt |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by jeff1607(m): 12:07pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
if the surname is changed ,how do you trace a child's ancestry, especially for one who grew overseas? |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by mcdreeezy: 2:06pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
justt: You replied five years later Thank God for life It's nice. At least I have an understanding now of how it should be because there's a chance I'd change surname in the future. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by Ranchhoddas: 8:05pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
My kids are taking my name. Not my surname. |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by Donjuan77: 9:32am On Feb 13, 2020 |
that is what I Av bin planning also, my children are answering my name already but I Av not made it official, soonest I will make it official by God Grace. Because I don't want the sins of my great, grand father to affect me and my children and my unborn children. Afterall am the person who impregnated my wife and not my father or my greatgrand father, why should I allow them to take my Glory. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Choosing A Child's Surname by tpiar: 1:38pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
It's not that serious. |
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