I met this girl since 2017, then I was working while she had nothing doing. She even moved to my place, which I didn't buy the idea. In the process, I got to know her parents and I was responsible for everything she needed as a lady.
2018, she started learning a trade, which I supported financially and otherwise.
December 2018, I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part, but she kept denying. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.
I'm experiencing this for the first time. Please I need your good advice, 'cos I can't sleep and my head is as heavy as the weight of 100 men tied together.

@iLegendd
@icef

I'm so sorry this happened to you, but life must go on, and you should count yourself lucky and blessed to know the kind of woman she is now.

In this life, what will be yours will always be yours, in happiness, in sadness and in all events of life, she ain't yours and your chapter with her has already ended.

So just forget about her and try to improve yourself in whatever you're doing and get a better life, by the time everything gets better with you, she might want to come back to you but never allow her a chance in your life again so your labour won't be in vain in the time to come.

Please don't hurt yourself because of a girl.

DrCruz:
I met this girl since 2017, then I was working while she had nothing doing. She even moved to my place, which I didn't buy the idea. In the process, I got to know her parents and I was responsible for everything she needed as a lady.
2018, she started learning a trade, which I supported financially and otherwise.
December 2018, I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part, but she kept denying. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.
I'm experiencing this for the first time. Please I need your good advice, 'cos I can't sleep and my head is as heavy as the weight of 100 men tied together.

Hustle harder and make her regret

praise the lord, hallelujah.

.now you can move forward with your life and understand that there is nothing like loyalty..just because you help a woman to achieve something doesn't mean she is gonna be loyal..every dam body both men and women are fighting for their self-interest,the new guy she is with is fighting to get her pussy while she is fighting to get whatever benefits she receive from him that you werent providing, once you understand that, life will be easier for you.

carry your cross and move forward with your life..life is too short to be looking to get her back.

Dust yourself and move on.

It's a challenge thrown at You.

She will soon come back when she sees you are back to your feet.

That's how some ladies are. Immediately they notice the ship is about to sink, they abandon it and jump into a better ship.

You on the other hand needs to stop being sad. Get yourself together, go out there, get another job and become a better man.

The news of your success will get to her, and she would come back to you. Whatever you do during that period is your prerogative.

Be happy you realise who she is really now. I know the feeling: Been there....

Life goes on. Try to occupy yourself with what you derive joy with this days, it helps alot.

Don't rush into another relationship now. Give it time.

Wish you the best of luck. Speak to someone who will listen to your heart over there.

I've never been in a situation like this but it feels like I have, 'cause I can feel how much it hurts.

Everything that happens to us always has a lesson attached to it for us to learn. I think one of the important lessons for you to learn here is to offer support to people, without any expectations from them. 'cause no matter how much you help people, their gratitude isn't guaranteed.

I know that the main advice you seek is how to get over the lady, but I don't really have much to say about that. Don't hate her. You just have to move on and get back up. Learn lessons from it (added to the one I just picked out) and use it as a ladder to get back up. Then you'll get to know how strong you are.

Good luck man!

Heart break!!!!


I still wonder how people gets so relaxed in relationships to not notice this till it happens.

FRANKLINHILLZ:

Hustle harder and make her regret

He shouldn't be hustling harder because of a girl, he should hustle harder for himself.

OP my advice is you clear her off your mind because the thought of her would only bring sorrow to you which would make it hard for you to improve yourself. Move out more with your friends, go on vacations, read inspirational books, mingle with opposite sex, be jovial because you only live once, so why should you bother about someone that doesn't love you.

Most importantly set a goal of what you want to achieve at a certain age, remind yourself about this goal daily, when you achieve the goal and the gold-digger comes back equipped with seduction, please turn her down.

So, so sorry bro... This is the reality of life... These things will only make you wiser... My honest prayer for you is that you will recover financially in Jesus Name. Amen.. Don't think and kill yourself.... If you have a mother, she still needs you alive ... There are still some family members that want you alive and there are people that you will be there helper in the future... So please remain alive and be wise... Hustle smartly...

Let me encourage you with these words...

1. That a vehicle stopped half way doesn't mean it's the end of the journey...

2. There is no life too scattered that can't be gathered... There is no life too disrupted that can't be corrected...

3. When your back is on the ground, your eyes should be on the Lord...

4. No matter how dark the night is, it can't prevent the brightness of the morning...

5. Never give up on yourself as long as you are still breathing... A living dog is better than a dead lion...


6. Finally... Let me pass this Rhema to you... God through dreams showed Joseph how successful and influential he will be but God never showed him three things that actually set the ball rolling towards his success...
i. God never showed him that his brothers will sell him into slavery...

ii, God never showed him the setup he will face from the wife of Portifer...

III, God never showed him that he was to be in prison for years...

These unpleasant three things above contributed in the fulfillment of the dreams of Joseph... Your Joblessness and rejection suffered may just part of the things you will go through in order to get to a better destination if you don't give up.... Cheers...

Sorry for the typos...

karma will meet her don't cry

There is nothing to tell you that u dnt already knw. Maybe she' d cause of ur downfall, i pity the new guy.

FRANKLINHILLZ:

Hustle harder and make her regret

he's been hustling harder since and i believe he's stil doing that.

That's why I always say relationships should be on the ground of true mutual love but all of you will be following the stupid post of Reno Omo Ikire

sapeleboi:
karma will meet her don't cry

There's nothing like karma in their situation, they weren't married, she only made a suitable choice because her mind wasn't in the relationship but her body only

1. Look at yourself in the mirror, you will see how handsome you are, many ladies would fancy you, so why should you be bothered about one.

2. Ask yourself if you still believe that there is someone there who is capable of loving you beyond your imagination.

3. Ask yourself if this so-called cheating ex-girlfriend of yours dies, would you stop living.

4. Ask yourself if she is worth all these pains you're inflicting on yourself while she doesn't give a damn about your feelings.

5. Ask yourself what is the purpose of your existence, is it for you to live a better life or rely on a slut for happiness?

If u can answer this questions right, you will not even remember her name anymore.

DrCruz:
I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.

Thank the God you serve for removing this devil of a woman from your life.

Whenever a man loses his job, 99% of ALL women will leave him or make his life unbearable.

You are not the first and you will not be the last this will happen to as 99% of women are fair weather by nature and nuture.

Chin up, dust yourself off and keep trying to make money. Make job hunting your wife for now and never expect a woman to give you lasting emotional support ever again.

Your prayer should be as follows :-
Micah 7:8-10 (KJV) - Rejoice not against me, O mine enemy: when I fall, I shall arise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light unto me.

Congrats bro, you just dodged a bullet.

I dey vex... Bro be strong. Sometime i feel like shouting, ranting n other stuff when i listen to a lady say man are not faithful.

Kyrx:
I'm so sorry this happened to you, but life must go on, and you should count yourself lucky and blessed to know the kind of woman she is now.

In this life, what will be yours will always be yours, in happiness, in sadness and in all events of life, she ain't yours and your chapter with her has already ended.

So just forget about her and try to improve yourself in whatever you're doing and get a better life, by the time everything gets better with you, she might want to come back to you but never allow her a chance in your life again so your labour won't be in vain in the time to come.

Please don't hurt yourself because of a girl.

Tnx bro!

QueenSekxy:
Dust yourself and move on.

It's a challenge thrown at You.

She will soon come back when she sees you are back to your feet.

I will try. Tnx dear

Op, congrats cus you really dodged a bullet.

Just open another chapter of your life cus nothing worth dying for.
I know it gonna be hard cus when you think about everything you will hurt but there is nothing you can do than for you to be a man and move on with your life.
I know by the time the guy money finish she will soon shift to another guy, so you can see she is not the kind of lady to spend the rest of your life with but one thing I know is that she’s gonna regret it but she might be ashamed to come to and beg.

Just move on, shit happens and it’s part of life.
Peace

@SmellingAnus
@Jayslicky
Thank you so very much.

I pray that God should help me to secure another job asap, that will keep me busy and help me take my mind off her.

Once again, tnx u all! I really appreciate

You should rather be happy you escaped the olosho early enough. Go sip peppersoup and chilled heineken jare and forget her matter.

Rosay15:
Op, congrats cus you really dodged a bullet.

Just open another chapter of your life cus nothing worth dying for.
I know it gonna be hard cus when you think about everything you will hurt but there is nothing you can do than for you to be a man and move on with your life.
I know by the time the guy money finish she will soon shift to another guy, so you can see she is not the kind of lady to spend the rest of your life with but one thing I know is that she’s gonna regret it but she might be ashamed to come to and beg.

Just move on, shit happens and it’s part of life.
Peace

Thanks dear.
I really need a job to help me take my mind off this.
You look like @Stephanie Okeke. Lol

DrCruz:
I met this girl since 2017, then I was working while she had nothing doing. She even moved to my place, which I didn't buy the idea. In the process, I got to know her parents and I was responsible for everything she needed as a lady.
2018, she started learning a trade, which I supported financially and otherwise.
December 2018, I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part, but she kept denying. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.
I'm experiencing this for the first time. Please I need your good advice, 'cos I can't sleep and my head is as heavy as the weight of 100 men tied together.

She did it to his previous ex before and he will still bring her bad luck to the new guy too.....she ain't a good girl, a real bad bitch at that.

DrCruz:
I met this girl since 2017, then I was working while she had nothing doing. She even moved to my place, which I didn't buy the idea. In the process, I got to know her parents and I was responsible for everything she needed as a lady.
2018, she started learning a trade, which I supported financially and otherwise.
December 2018, I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part, but she kept denying. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.
I'm experiencing this for the first time. Please I need your good advice, 'cos I can't sleep and my head is as heavy as the weight of 100 men tied together.

Take heart Op

Better days are coming, try as much not to be disturbed. Just see it as God saving you from a hoe, it might be painful now but you'll laugh about it tomorrow

DrCruz:
I met this girl since 2017, then I was working while she had nothing doing. She even moved to my place, which I didn't buy the idea. In the process, I got to know her parents and I was responsible for everything she needed as a lady.
2018, she started learning a trade, which I supported financially and otherwise.
December 2018, I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part, but she kept denying. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.
I'm experiencing this for the first time. Please I need your good advice, 'cos I can't sleep and my head is as heavy as the weight of 100 men tied together.

She is a moving train....always moving to the next one as soon as you guys lost your job. You can't stop a moving train. You are coming out stronger anyway.