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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by akdjr(m): 10:29am On Jun 15, 2019
3 round

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 10:30am On Jun 15, 2019
deltateam:


I am telling you my rule unless she's the one paying.
You have no rights to any rule.
Better yet, date yourself!
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by FatherBona: 10:30am On Jun 15, 2019
Mk93:

Is she that ugly?
open her profile and see for yourself na
If you no get data I go borrow you

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 10:31am On Jun 15, 2019
Lmao @ comments. cheesy

Ladies, make your own money, pls.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by ekitimanalways(m): 10:31am On Jun 15, 2019
nwanneni:
So today a friend of mine was having a wedding.
Not really a fan of things like that but had to go for the sake of going and I was bored tbh.

So I got there and sat on a table with the rest of the guys gisting and sipping some henny...
Then I met this girl who was a mutual friend with one of my guys.

So they went to dance but I really wasn't in the mood for any buga tbh and I sat on the table in peace sipping my drink and surfing Nairaland lol.

Later she came to join me and asked if/why I wasn't dancing.
Mumbled some gibberish to her so she could let me be but she stayed undecided

Well we got talking and seem she was smart and all..
So party ended and I was even bored sef and made straight for the door.
She came again angry what the hell?
Small talk again till the rest of the guys came out to meet us.

Niggas were already giving me the bad guy look and I just decided to play along...
We gisted again loudly(you know guys na) and laughed hard and did some zanku legwork dance and were fooling around basically cheesy I really danced today oo.
So we round up and it was time to head home.
Ah Ah?she came to ride with me and all.. undecided
Anyways,I decided to be a gentleman to at least drop her off...

On our way back, was tuned to 96.5fm ph and rema dumebi came on and trust mark levinson surround sound in a Lexus.sounded like a club in there and I was tipsy and singing at the top of my cracked voice..lol
She was moody and all so I decided to ask what was her problem?
After all the back and forth and me acting like I care(chyking things cos fùck dey hungry me) she started yapping some ish to me.
She said there is a tour coming up and she wants to go undecided
Where?Dubai.... grin grin grin

Me; ok great there is no such thing as good as travelling.
She; but I am broke
Me; ehen?
She; some mumbo jumbo and she later said was wondering if we could go together undecided
Me; on whose expense?
She; you of course! and I'm serious
Me; ok
She; some small talk again and she dropped another one how she needs to go shopping and all
Me; alright! I'll be busy this weekend so can we go upper Saturday? (was just trying to end the whole damn thing so I go my way and forget the chewing stick legged entitled prick)
She; is that not what y'all say?
Me; seems you've been with many guys to be able to know this
She; no,friends say stuff and I see guys undecided
Well,las las I agree to shop for her upper weekend and all and acted like I was serious about the trip with her.
She say I should shop for her first then we can proceed with the trip undecided

Say this one will prove how serious I was with the trip.
So I went to one interior part of PHC to drop her off and almost damaged my sump in the process undecided

We said our goodbyes and I delete her damn number from my phone.

So guys, have you ever had these outrageous demands and what was yours like?

This should be interesting grin grin grin
Hyper-mega sharp man! grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by KwashB419: 10:31am On Jun 15, 2019
Elbone2:
Back then in school...Met this pretty chic on campus and got her number...I could tell she was my next gf...Called her by the weekend for us to meet and hang out at a restaurant(fast food)...We agreed to rendezvous by 6pm...At around 5:30pm she called me to ask if she can come with her friends that they were bored and she doesn't want to leave them like that at home,I was like ahh no probs sha thinking she was a reasonable Girl....I got there before her and kept calling to make sure they were coming since i was expecting to see her and may be two of her friends....Only for she to show with five other girls making them six in number....To me this was the height of madness and i wonder what would be more demanding on a simple first date than this?! ..Me wey don budget like 5k for the night but carry extra 5k incase the enjoyment com enter another level(thats i was with 10k only)...I had to call her aside and ask her if they came for a birthday party or something and she kept saying"but i told u na"...I just kept back my cool and asked them to order something...Na when them begin dey place order for rice and chicken with a can of Smirnoff ice each...i just do like say i dey receive call John Benson...Dem call my fone tire that night.
lol something similar happened to be back then in 2009. there was this lady who happens to get my number from God knows where. we got talking and decided to hangout one sunday afternoon. we chose 2 hangout at a place called juice and grillade (now southern fried chicken, this should be familiar to Jos residents). the D-day came and i arrived at the place b4 her though we sheduled it 4 2 o' clock. On getting there, i met some of my paddies there chilling and told dem i am expecting a new gal. i had 2 wait for this gal for another 2 hrs b4 she told me dat she was already on her way coming...i was already feeling exhausted and had 2 wait outside the eatery seated close 2 one cobblers shop. lo and behold 2 bikes arrived each carrying 2 ladies, and one of the ladies dails a number and my phone rang( mind you, i have never met the gal b4 ), dat was my date . i didnt pick d call and kept on calling repeatedly and i didnt pick despite been like 10m away from where they were standing. Finally i decided 2 pick up the call and she affirmed that she was the one standing in from of the eatery, i walked up to her and we all exchanged pleasantries from which we proceeded inside. brothers and sisters i wasnt breathing well.. my friends saw me and the looks on their face could tell it all ( their hommy is in deep shit)...i turned to my "assault team" and asked then what they would love to take, and they all echoed "anything"! brothers and sisters that was my saving Grace, i dashed out to counter b4 any of dem could think of changing their mind. At the counter i requested for 8 bons , 2 for each person( the bons costs 50 naira each, and 4 of smallest cup ice each at 150 naira each.. Got the biggest cup ice cream and two meat pie for myself ( sense will not kill ).. orders arrived and we were served.. was taking my meatpies and they were struggling with thier bons with an everlasting looks on thier faces... peple of God, the bill was brought and it turned out to be 2500 naira only ( had 10k on me though)...i paid the bill with a very big smile on ma face cos i was able to overcome the "assault team".. had to even go get dem polythene leather cos they couldnt finish the bons and had 2 take dem home.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Lalas247(f): 10:32am On Jun 15, 2019
Haha see them...
All.the low income and non earners are here telling HUGE lies with their beardless face grin

Chai

See lies.. at least we can see who attracts dregs see them shocked
If the lady makes demand on first date .. she doesn't even respect u means you trash shioor

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Inception(m): 10:34am On Jun 15, 2019
Cocao:


As for your case, you were not directly to blame. She came on you and made advances at you.

However, there is still something off about your tone.

But you are still not directly to blame if it's true.

I was speaking for the other stories written underneath.




Really? But he can be blamed indirectly?

Na wa for you sef.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by cy4eve(f): 10:34am On Jun 15, 2019
Ryan03:
i have noticed that most girls in wedding receptions and malls go there to look for boyfriends (maga) the real ones will just be working and may not even stay till the end of the party
Hei take it easy on us.......ur though is d more reason most gals hate attending weddings.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Noblemarce: 10:36am On Jun 15, 2019
kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.
if this is your real personality, then you're valuable.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Criticaltemp: 10:37am On Jun 15, 2019
Myn na 5k.. Me i just leave am for there.. 5k. For this economy

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Cocao(f): 10:37am On Jun 15, 2019
Inception:



Really? But he can be blamed indirectly?

Na wa for you sef.

Its just usage of words, he is not to blame but something in his tone told me he also wanted something from her. In that case, they were both playing each other.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Oluromantic: 10:39am On Jun 15, 2019
kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.
Sorry perhaps I'm about to screw you too.

If she makes money and stands on her own as independent, then what else?

See the problem is not either way.. if a woman needs help she'll get it like she deserves it. When they make it on thier own which isn't even common, giving becomes a problem bcus she felt she struggled to make it. The men who made it and give the women, did they not struggle?

My point is this, your beauty comes out as a woman when u live a life of "less of yourself and more of others" regardless of whether you made it or in need. That's what keeps men at d top, not just culture. A man would share his last dime without hope of where to get another.. women don't understand life from that perspective.

It's not only about money but life in general.. when that becomes ur personality, you'll get help and still be honored with it as a woman neither will you be bashed for being independent because you're actually not independent in d first place but dependent on generosity.

In my view that's d jackpot of life that brings you to the top in spite of all, whether u are rich or poor, always live a life of "less of me, more of others". For women it's always about " me me me me me, what someone will do for me, what I will not do for someone because I suffered to have it, always about me me and me". When one is too conscious of herself, she will get only negative responses. What a life!

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Sluvist(m): 10:39am On Jun 15, 2019
Demanding is inborn when it comes to girls, but in most of the times the peoples she starts her life around plays a role in unveiling this odd character in them, and also the level of poverty and life frustration she grows with. If a girl was groomed comfortably right from her childhood, hardly that character surfaces too much, she will even spend for the person cares about without second thought. The way a girl behaves just tells more about her background, that is all.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by crowley(m): 10:41am On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
No young lady with dignity and self-respect will make such a demand from a guy she just met .
How many young girls you know with dignity? all their dignity fly window when they heard they can make 10k a night.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Inception(m): 10:42am On Jun 15, 2019
Lalas247:
Haha see them...
All.the low income and non earners are here telling HUGE lies with their beardless face grin

Chai

See lies.. at least we can see who attracts dregs see them shocked
If the lady makes demand on first date .. she doesn't even respect u means you trash shioor

I agree with you on this...

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by AngelicBeing: 10:42am On Jun 15, 2019
KwashB419:

lol something similar happened to be back then in 2009. there was this lady who happens to get my number from God knows where. we got talking and decided to hangout one sunday afternoon. we chose 2 hangout at a place called juice and grillade (now southern fried chicken, this should be familiar to Jos residents). the D-day came and i arrived at the place b4 her though we sheduled it 4 2 o' clock. On getting there, i met some of my paddies there chilling and told dem i am expecting a new gal. i had 2 wait for this gal for another 2 hrs b4 she told me dat she was already on her way coming...i was already feeling exhausted and had 2 wait outside the eatery seated close 2 one cobblers shop. lo and behold 2 bikes arrived each carrying 2 ladies, and one of the ladies dails a number and my phone rang( mind you, i have never met the gal b4 ), dat was my date . i didnt pick d call and kept on calling repeatedly and i didnt pick despite been like 10m away from where they were standing. Finally i decided 2 pick up the call and she affirmed that she was the one standing in from of the eatery, i walked up to her and we all exchanged pleasantries from which we proceeded inside. brothers and sisters i wasnt breathing well.. my friends saw me and the looks on their face could tell it all ( their hommy is in deep shit)...i turned to my "assault team" and asked then what they would love to take, and they all echoed "anything"! brothers and sisters that was my saving Grace, i dashed out to counter b4 any of dem could think of changing their mind. At the counter i requested for 8 bons , 2 for each person( the bons costs 50 naira each, and 4 of smallest cup ice each at 150 naira each.. Got the biggest cup ice cream and two meat pie for myself ( sense will not kill ).. orders arrived and we were served.. was taking my meatpies and they were struggling with thier bons with an everlasting looks on thier faces... peple of God, the bill was brought and it turned out to be 2500 naira only ( had 10k on me though)...i paid the bill with a very big smile on ma face cos i was able to overcome the "assault team".. had to even go get dem polythene leather cos they couldnt finish the bons and had 2 take dem home.
Hahaha, Lol, you ate the best and gave them buns to chew, good one, bunch of leeches looking for gullible men to drain grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Riele(f): 10:42am On Jun 15, 2019
BigDick70inch:


I'd gladly do that but bills on you.. Deal?? sad sad

No deal o
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 10:42am On Jun 15, 2019
FatherBona:
open her profile and see for yourself na
If you no get data I go borrow you
my phone don blind

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Inception(m): 10:42am On Jun 15, 2019
Cocao:


Its just usage of words, he is not to blame but something in his tone told me he also wanted something from her. In that case, they were both playing each other.

Now i get your point.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 10:44am On Jun 15, 2019
crowley:

How many young girls you know with dignity? all their dignity fly window when they heard they can make 10k a night.
I am a lady with dignity .
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Korllami007: 10:44am On Jun 15, 2019
pansophist:


Haha, you got it. Asked anyone that has worked for a female boss before, same stories. Even all house girl brutality are done by their madam. Research was done some time ago, that 80% of women don't even want to work for women. Yes, you heard it right. Even women prefer to be bossed by men, not their own kind, women. You can watch this video below, it discussed about it.

Another thing to think about. I have never met a man in my whole life, that prefer women as a friend, than men. But I have met countless women that prefer male friends than women. It is of no surprise that every religion, tradition and most society is head by a male. Women do not make good leaders, they just cant. To be selfish and solipsistic (as oppose to being self-sacrificial and extend care outside the self) is not an attribute of a leader, rendering most women fit for the position of leadership.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C57mK0GXCas


grin grin

This made me to remember my female cousin that's currently serving in one secondary school. She's always late to school because she's a nursing mother. The previous principal before he was transferred a month ago understands her current condition so he didnt query her for being late. The moment they transferred female principal to her school that's the moment she's started having problem. The girl don chop query tire. She's always complain say na anything wey woman head de hard. The woman don frustrate her life. grin grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Kenneth10110(m): 10:45am On Jun 15, 2019
wman:


PS4 came out in 2013.

You have Google to confirm.
it was officially announced to be released November 2013. And was officially released in Japan February 2019. Don't tell me your were so rich then to get it even before it got to Nigeria. grin grin grin grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by deltateam: 10:45am On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
You have no rights to any rule.
Better yet, date yourself!

In all honesty na girls even suppose to toast us cos men are limited.
Women yafu.

Doing me a favour by eating my hard earned money. Hehehe.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Lalas247(f): 10:47am On Jun 15, 2019
Inception:


I agree with you on this...
You get it right...
wink
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by bluefilm: 10:49am On Jun 15, 2019
OboOlora:

Babe are you related to Obasanjo?

You wicked o.

But true true, the resemblance is there wink

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Esthered: 10:50am On Jun 15, 2019
I wonder how some ladies feel entitled to a man's money. Just as my boss confided in me yesterday of a lady he's interested in and she turned him down but still accuses him of not showing her care and went as far as demanding for him to support her to further her education. I was appalled as I can't imagine myself stooping low to take advantage of men. What's the essence of working as a female? I'll be a mother to sons one day and will be pained when women take advantage of them but I'll train them to set high standards in dating game. I'm accused of being strange as I'm usually told if I have your body type, being a calabar babe.... I would have gone far and I'll start asking myself if I'm normal but I know there's dignity in labour for both sexes so I prefer to work to meet my needs and wants.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by TheMainMan: 10:50am On Jun 15, 2019
KwashB419:

lol something similar happened to be back then in 2009. there was this lady who happens to get my number from God knows where. we got talking and decided to hangout one sunday afternoon. we chose 2 hangout at a place called juice and grillade (now southern fried chicken, this should be familiar to Jos residents). the D-day came and i arrived at the place b4 her though we sheduled it 4 2 o' clock. On getting there, i met some of my paddies there chilling and told dem i am expecting a new gal. i had 2 wait for this gal for another 2 hrs b4 she told me dat she was already on her way coming...i was already feeling exhausted and had 2 wait outside the eatery seated close 2 one cobblers shop. lo and behold 2 bikes arrived each carrying 2 ladies, and one of the ladies dails a number and my phone rang( mind you, i have never met the gal b4 ), dat was my date . i didnt pick d call and kept on calling repeatedly and i didnt pick despite been like 10m away from where they were standing. Finally i decided 2 pick up the call and she affirmed that she was the one standing in from of the eatery, i walked up to her and we all exchanged pleasantries from which we proceeded inside. brothers and sisters i wasnt breathing well.. my friends saw me and the looks on their face could tell it all ( their hommy is in deep shit)...i turned to my "assault team" and asked then what they would love to take, and they all echoed "anything"! brothers and sisters that was my saving Grace, i dashed out to counter b4 any of dem could think of changing their mind. At the counter i requested for 8 bons , 2 for each person( the bons costs 50 naira each, and 4 of smallest cup ice each at 150 naira each.. Got the biggest cup ice cream and two meat pie for myself ( sense will not kill ).. orders arrived and we were served.. was taking my meatpies and they were struggling with thier bons with an everlasting looks on thier faces... peple of God, the bill was brought and it turned out to be 2500 naira only ( had 10k on me though)...i paid the bill with a very big smile on ma face cos i was able to overcome the "assault team".. had to even go get dem polythene leather cos they couldnt finish the bons and had 2 take dem home.
even if this was a lie... i laughed small

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by error4040: 10:52am On Jun 15, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
i have not had any encounter with entitled girls
MJBOLT grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by bigfather(m): 10:52am On Jun 15, 2019
beatcoins:
A girl I was planning on getting married to some few years back said if She doesnt have iPhone 6, she's not getting married. Today I'm happily married, iPhone 6 is out of trend & unfortunately, she's still not married. She still sends me msg from time to time asking for money. God saved my ass from awon slay mistress.

U for hear am ! I thank God for u jare !

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Deicide: 10:54am On Jun 15, 2019
I like this Thread because there can't be a counter thread to it grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by theenchanter: 10:55am On Jun 15, 2019
Zielle:
Lmao @ comments. cheesy

Ladies, make your own money, pls.
nice dimples.

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