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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
zicoraads: Lol. Thanks for the offer Bad mood day. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Cradle000(m): 3:21pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Poorboy:I love this |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Adakintroy: 3:21pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Moral of the story, respect and be proud of your woman weda she is there or not. Because of new pussy you claim say she is your sister. You sissy sha. The woman is right to leave. You ar a woman and she is no lesbian. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nwogeh: 3:22pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
If you truly want to win her back...give her some little space, and when she thinks you have moved on, then go to her place and create scene...no matter where she is and who she is staying with, go there and refuse to leave until she forgives you...if she refuses you in, stay outside and insist... you will see her mellow down 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Ezeego1(m): 3:22pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
dazzlingd: You are very right. We know them! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by baby124: 3:22pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Adakintroy:The guy Na pant. Useless pant wey don tear for yansh. I am happy for the girl. God is in her side and he don give am big, red warning sign to flee from this nuisance. To sleep with women in future OP will deny his family. Dirty guy, desperado. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by stanliwise(m): 3:23pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:Op you need to free her for now. But come here kwa, let us turn this table, if you saw this things on her own phone, wouldn't you have done worse? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by obayendo1010(m): 3:23pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by AgreatMan: 3:24pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8 Let me give u the best advice. Copy the link of this thread and send it to her to read. Now get off, and go n buy my carton of gulder. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by YoungLionken(m): 3:24pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You messed up big time and don't listen to those telling you to leave her if she doesn't respond positively after some days, weeks. Because, girls are everywhere, but you see wife material ehn, isn't to joke with. She's still mad now because she never ever expected such a betrayal from you, and she gave you her all thinking you did thesame. Only God know how many of her friends she must have told great things about you before you messed up. You were simply greedy and wicked, Bible says"do unto others what you want them to do unto you". Make sure you win that gift(girl) back or your life will never remain thesame... I won't tell you what to do, but do whatever it is... 10 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by zicoraads: 3:24pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:...and you are not a movie person, would have recommended sontin for you. It would have brought so much colours to you in an instant. Good movie. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by galantjoe(m): 3:24pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
.marriage is management of faults and errors of two unknown people. So if she can't manage this mistake of yours now I don't know how she will manage it in the future. Thank your God for revealing her type. Then move on with your life 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Avast(m): 3:25pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: How are you so sure she is not just using your predicament to excuse herself from the relationship. What if she wanted to leave before. Bros fear woman Just give her some time, she will comes back for you if she loves you. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by OKOATA(m): 3:26pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
adecz:I swear women really hate men that cry for things like this but they don't know. Crying for a woman is a sign of a weakling, a girl personally told me she hates a crying man. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Ezeego1(m): 3:26pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
IAMBlesssed: What's even too special about the girl that you will be mocking him like this 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by PapaAdanna: 3:26pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Just take a chill Trust me she is urs, u will have her in no time That's one of those things... Someday u will look back and laugh over this |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by iukpe: 3:30pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You have had some very experienced advice already, the first responder said it all. I can say the few comments that followed very much unlike nairaland, have told you the truth. Just in case you don't hear the truth after now. But I will add a bit to it. Women are very strong when it comes to this sort of thing but trust me she hurts more than you do right now. You were having fun over flirting and most of that 'adranalic fun' was from the fact that she knew nothing about it and you were fooling the other girls, I believe you, it wasnt about fooling her. If she has been building a home with you and she loves you she will come back to you, if she has no other, leaving you will be the last serious thought on her mind. But if she doesn't then its sad but she could have walked away from you any other time in future. She has read your messages, actually, your stupid messages, but its all you have. So say no more just reasonable periodic hello and 3 word apologies will do for now. Continue building the home with her in mind. I wish you luck 3 weeks from now. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by MobilityExpress: 3:30pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: Better thank your stars. She never really loved you. So stop wasting your time and just move on. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by YoungLionken(m): 3:30pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
PrinceCEE: Nor mine the guy, na idiot him be |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nat404: 3:30pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Drey1:I'm so glad that you acknowledged my words. Many guys don't really know this. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Dami12345: 3:34pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!! You have broke all the cardinal laws. You mean you reduced your self to garbage and now that they put you outside you are surprised Guy you Bleep up, you should just do like day you nor send she for no see big deal. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by nimabusta(f): 3:34pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: I am just laughing at comments..Many guys are telling you if you beg her and she doesn't accept you will still find another woman. The truth is you messed up..It is hard to find a good woman and we both know it..If she was someone that put her whole heart in loving you it will be hard to establish trust..I wish you luck but let me warn you , if you know deep in your heart you would still fumble..leave her alone..I know what she must be going through. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Drestar19: 3:34pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Where did all thia new generation of ladyboys come from ? Weak men? This social media generation of young men is disgrace....next thing we will hear he drank snipper.. You girl saw flirty message so what? Whats her business with your phone... Man you a real P&$@$y 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by desvi: 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
myettiallah: you people are so desperate for female attention and approval that you console yourself with what might be later when these women become older let me tell you what will happen their age will not make you more attractive and they will even care less about you all 4 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Damzy007: 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
iammiracle1:Abi na u bros ?? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by iammiracle1(m): 3:37pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Damzy007: Tah |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Tenshades(m): 3:38pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
We forgive those who we truly love. My babe was in your shoes before. I was once in your babe's shoes before. My head small that day wen I see d chats for my babe whatsapp. But fortunately, I forgave her after series of begging and sincere confessions and now we are fine. Though, humans are different. Some can't take what I can take and vice versa. In your own case, it depends on your babe's 'forgiveness power'. If she loves you, she will forgive you. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by luvyaself95(m): 3:39pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
cvibe2:Guy you're on point oh, i won't believe if OP say his fiancee is that Loyal. Na Nigeria we dey na |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by LoveFayfay(f): 3:40pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
myettiallah:'Evening newspaper!' That is harsh |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by missyblissy: 3:41pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
@op you didnt cheat literally but you lied about your relationship status. Anyway most women dont like when their men don't acknowledge their relationship. I don't like it either. You have done everything possible to settle this. Now you have to let het vent her anger, give her time to think, give her space. It may take weeks or months. Dont send anyone to her anymore. Dont contact her anymore. Just send a message and tell her you love her and no one is above mistake. Ask for forgiveness and tell her you have sent messages to the ladies you were flirting with that you were playing with them and that you are engaged. Definitely your babe go want proof that you have acknowledged your relationship. And that if she will till love and have you, she knows where to find you. After the above, oga lock up and move on. It is not going to be easy but please stop from contacting her. If you are meant to be together, she will come back. Just relax all na initial gara!!! Dont hurt yourself ooooo abeg women plenty!!! You have learn from your mistakes, no human id perfect except God. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by QueenSekxy(f): 3:41pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Most guys here are disgusting. By there comments, you shall know them. Op, you deserve what you got, God really saved those girls you wanted to lead astray. This is just a case of dating many girls, and at the end, you marry the one you told them she's a cousin. You are very wicked and heartless. A disgusting cheat, spits!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
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