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'29 Years Together, My Mum Is Still Looking At My Dad Like This' - Nigerian Lady / My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. / Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. (2) (3) (4)
. by Juliusdaughter: 9:50pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 9:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: . by blackpanthar: 10:12pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
sorry but life will get beta Juliusdaughter: |
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: . by sorextee(m): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Moms and their wahala |
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 10:28pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: . by ahnie: 10:34pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
In all honesty I fail to decipher what this op z saying. P.s...it wud do me lots of good if anybody can summarize it for me. 1 Like |
Re: . by yvelchstores(f): 10:40pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
First of all you are not alone on such experience. My mum never talked to me about period nor sex education and I was the only girl then. Brace urself and be strong. Life goes on. I do have a issue tho, besides her not accepting this guy, have you really looked into the matter properly? The moment I left my father's house, I did everything opposite. I started buying goat meat cos my mum didn't like it, etc. Be careful to be sure u don't want it just cos she said no. Marriage is not something u enter to spit someone with. Now I have my own daughter, I am doing everything differently cos I know what the opposite looks and feels like. Growing up, I caught myself once or twice thinking what if she isn't my real mum. My daughter is my world and I let her know everyday. 3 Likes |
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 10:48pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
yvelchstores:She has never gotten angry with my other siblings and call them names, na only me she dey see and its cos I don't talk, so she intentionally do that to hurt me more. I am not saying she can't have a say in who I plan to marry but it should be because of more serious issue and not just this. She doesn't even want to get to know him. That's so annoying, neither can I bring home a guy from another tribe. Why does she want me to do? |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Juliusdaughter: Are you financially secure? Do you live with your parents? Get a nice place of your own and secure your bag, whosoever you choose to be with, they will accept at the end when you are independent & don't depend on them for financial stability. This doesn't mean you'll disrespect them. Generally people/parents/folks just respect you when you are independent. Success is everyone's friend. Remember that. 5 Likes |
Re: . by yvelchstores(f): 11:37pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Juliusdaughter:what is your father's take on this? I think u should focus more on him, doesn't matter how elderly he is, you can rely on his counsel more than her. Men are more rational in their thinking. If he too objects, find out why. I can't say much about ur mum cos na ur mama she be however an irrational person can't be granted sole access to decide for u. Ur father is still alive thank God. Explore that route more. Even if u two are not close at all. 1 Like |
Re: . by ireneidiva(f): 4:57am On Jun 16, 2019 |
yvelchstores:Men are more rational in their thinking? Interesting. |
Re: . by Tony142: 6:12am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Juliusdaughter: Hmm, well to start with, how old are u? |
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 7:52am On Jun 16, 2019 |
truthsayer009:The truth is I cannot even try that else the whole family will hear of how a single girl like me wants to start living alone in the same town that my parents own a house. |
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 7:53am On Jun 16, 2019 |
yvelchstores:Hmm I wish I know her, it won't take her time to get into my dad's head and make him work against me too I guess am by myself now |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Juliusdaughter: Get a job and rent a small place close to where you work. If you are asked, tell them its because of proximity. Simple as ABC. I stand to be corrected but i don't think you are financially secure on your own, if not, you won't give a shit about what they say. They have lived their lives, let them allow you live yours. |
Re: . by hausadreturn(m): 12:17am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Why did you delete the post? Fear of the future? |
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