AmazonTopaz:

You nor want make we motivate each other go altar

franchasng:
after one, two, three, four, ehen we can then start counting five, six....just like that

AmazonTopaz:
You are not serious

franchasng:
feminist

AmazonTopaz:
Ok I love that. Make I propose marriage

AmazonTopaz:

Yes I don't ask for what I cannot give

DominusPrime:


wow...I read what you wrote. it makes sense and to be honest quite fair...any man who finds a lady that shows these qualities should take good care of her even if it means catering for her needs if not all...


but then again...tell me you won't leave a man who u give all u said and gives u the same in return for a man who gives u money without asking...

ebonyggurl:


We would love to hear what you have to offer too

chinchonglee:
Dey will japaaa...
My boss adviced me abt relationships wit naija girls, ever since i stopped all relationship matter my account is always smiling. Am abt to start egg retail business nxt month thanks to my young boss( he is also a nairalander).

He told me 4 tins but lemme quote jst one of dem. "You stand to gain nothing in relationship aside sex nd d sex is more beneficial to d ladies. Y not save dat moni nd patronize street girls or brothels wen u re Hot nd spend less moni. Save nd invest with ur savings"


He is going to be 28 dis november nd u need to see wat he has acheived. I swear i dey envy d guy.


"Leave relationship alone as a struggling guy, be financially responsible nd we will meet at the top", dis were his last words to me abt a yr ago.

AmazonTopaz:

I am not easily swayed be money.
No need for these stereotype that every lady is attracted to money.

pansophist:


Every gold diggers said this

AmazonTopaz:

I could careless.
They are not me

DominusPrime:


wow...I read what you wrote. it makes sense and to be honest quite fair...any man who finds a lady that shows these qualities should take good care of her even if it means catering for her needs if not all...


but then again...tell me you won't leave a man who u give all u said and gives u the same in return for a man who gives u money without asking...

pansophist:


Said by every woman

AmazonTopaz:

I could careless.
They are not me

Fountainofyouth:



Girl, you don't have to convince anyone, when a lady is loaded and independent, they say she's proud and won't be submissive but when a lady is the opposite, they say she's broke and has nothing to offer, they are all confused lots that don't know exactly what they want.

AmazonTopaz:
Thank you jare
Very confused lots they say all ladies like money and you can get a woman with money but still complain when the lady ask for money.They end up calling them all sorts of names.
These men abi na boys for romance section would not cease to irritate me

Fountainofyouth:



Yeah they are boys, they just need schooling once in a while

EmekaBlue:
I would love to hear what ladies have to offer.

kennygee:
Money management. I can manage money for Africa.

I once helped an ex save 40k he spent on beer ever month, he doesn't drink anymore now self, last I heard.

Packaging: I might not be rich but there is no environment I find myself that I won't flow. I can be down to earth to the unschooled and still rub minds with professors.

Communication: there is no topic I am totally ignorant on. I know about sports, politics, local and international, tourism, agriculture, science, literature, entertainment, etc.

Better prayer life: we have to be praying partners. If we can't pray together, why are we in a relationship?

Support system: I might not have the solution to your problems but I can make you feel better after encouraging you and there are times, together, we can brainstorm for possible solutions.

Not all of us are your definition of slay queens.

Fountainofyouth:



Whatever, what can y"all bring to the table if not diick and money(the ones that have it in abundance though) so what else?

zed7:


You haven't said anything. Money management is good though, kudos. The rest is just your own personal attributes.
What men want women to bring to the table is:
1. Helping manage his finances.
2. Bringing up great business ideas or letting him know of good job opportunities that can increase his resources.
3. Giving him sensible advice, for example, letting him know the dangers of certain dangerous habits.
4. Being there when he is I'll or vulnerable.
5. Loving his family and friends like your own.

We want tangible things.

kennygee:


I've got all of that and I've only given all of myself like that to one man but it didn't lead me anywhere so.

I'm only reserving it for the another person who shows he's worth it.

My personal attribute will rub off on the guy tho. Cause he'll have to step up.

zed7:


But women who ain't worth it want to be spoiled, pampered and loved. If you are selecting whom to treat right, then it's not part of you. Something innate always shines through.

kennygee:


You won't understand.

Let's just leave it at that.

All I'm saying is, not all women are empty headed. Some of you guys don't even create the chance to make your gfs your best friend. You prefer to take the serious issue to your friends.

At least, try to engage the girl in an intellectual discussion. Try to see what's in her head before you ho into a relationship with her.

Unless y'all are just about casual dating sha.