Father's day is for father's, not a day for the celebration of single motherhood, Nigerian man says

Father's day is for father's, not a day for the celebration of single mothers. It is shameful for Mercy Aigbe, Tonto Dike & other single mothers to be celebrating the fatherly role they have chosen for themselves because of their feminine chauvinism , ego and pride.

Lol

Please help me tell them o.....to the person above me that stole my FTC, God is watching

True.

When such fathers decide to be irresponsible and become deadbeat daddies.
That is what they get and the women playing such roles gotta celebrate their selves since the daddies are nowhere to be seen
To be a father is not just about giving women belle
The poster has no right to judge them. He doesn't know what they have been through

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I agree with you a hundred...they playing the roles of a Father doesn't change their sexes.

But I also disagree with you a hundred percent...you cannot categorically claim that they chose the life because you do not know them personally and sometimes, life jes surprises you in unpleasant ways.

Well they can choose other days and not a day for 'MALE' parents.

You know, no matter how a mother does all and all for a child, that child will always view her as the 'mother' and never as the father.

AmazonTopaz:
When such fathers decide to be irresponsible and become deadbeat daddies.
That is what they get and the women playing such roles gotta celebrate their selves since the daddies are nowhere to be seen
To be a father is not just about giving women belle

AmazonTopaz:
When such fathers decide to be irresponsible and become deadbeat daddies.
That is what they get and the women playing such roles gotta celebrate their selves since the daddies are nowhere to be seen
To be a father is not just about giving women belle

Everything to you is gender war, please what about single fathers should they also celebrate mother's day?

Good observation

Even ordinary Sunday rice, u no fit use d FTC get am. I no know why una like am

Vulcanheph:
Please help me tell them o.....to the person above me that stole my FTC, God is watching

Yuceeluv:
Well they can choose other days and not a day for 'MALE' parents.

You know, no matter how a mother does all and all for a child, that child will always view her as the 'mother' and never as the father.

The thing is many kids always prefer their mothers to fathers because of the way some fathers behave towards their children.
You are not the child to state how they view their parents.The shout out on fathers day and even on mothers day to single parents has been to salute those men and women who choose to handle both roles singlehandedly.
Maybe they should have their own special day called single parents day.
But since there is none for now let such parents celebrate on anyday they so wish after all na both roles dem dey play.

Jayslicky:
Everything to you is gender war, please what about single fathers should they also celebrate mother's day?

They can if they like.
I am respobsible for what I type how you decide to interpret it is your problem.
Gender war ko, Tender war ni

I agree with the poster.

Over 5 Mothers day in a year, yet that one day almost every man agreed to be Fathers Day, you still wanna drag it with them.

C'mon!

I have zero tolerance for absentee fathers and sperm donors, but celebrating yourself on that day comes from a place of bitterness, emptiness, competition, anger...name it!

Ever seen a widow who lost her loving husband do that? No. Instead she and the kids will use that day to remember the man and his deeds while alive.

So, lets not make it look like it is because they did it all alone. I don't buy that.

I have NEVER seen a single dad celebrating himself on Mothers Day.

Some women need to understand it is not always about them.

This life is supposed be a whole lot easier. Na humans use their wahala complicate am.

AmazonTopaz:

They can if they like.
I am respobsible for what I type how you decide to interpret it is your problem.
Gender war ko, Tender war ni

words of a little girl.

Jayslicky:
words of a little girl.

Lamentations of a big man .

AmazonTopaz:
Lamentations of a big man .

ok.

AmazonTopaz:

They can if they like.
I am respobsible for what I type how you decide to interpret it is your problem.
Gender war ko, Tender war ni

Hi. Is it cheating if i hit the pm

I see you’re a lieutenant in the feminist militia.

I gotta give u a heads up, i do not believe men are superior, neither do i believe both sexes are equals.

I believe patriachy and matriachy exists and i believe different outcomes are to be expected when dealing with both genders, some times, most times.

theoptimist298:


Hi. Is it cheating if i hit the pm

I see you’re a lieutenant in the feminist militia.

I gotta give u a heads up, i do not believe men are superior, neither do i believe both sexes are equals.

I believe patriachy and matriachy exists and i believe different outcomes are to be expected when dealing with both genders, some times, most times.

If you’re okay with these then we just may get along, maybe even get married some day, if u propose . I mean, who knows tommorow

I am not yet ready for marriage.

AmazonTopaz:

The thing is many kids always prefer their mothers to fathers because of the way some fathers behave towards their children.
You are not the child to state how they view their parents.The shout out on fathers day and even on mothers day to single parents has been to salute those men and women who choose to handle both roles singlehandedly.
Maybe they should have their own special day called single parents day.
But since there is none for now let such parents celebrate on anyday they so wish after all na both roles dem dey play.

How do you want the fathers to behave,like pussies??Children need discipline and order to prosper later and that is what fathers instill.You women no dey ever reason well sef

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AmazonTopaz:
When such fathers decide to be irresponsible and become deadbeat daddies.
That is what they get and the women playing such roles gotta celebrate their selves since the daddies are nowhere to be seen
To be a father is not just about giving women belle
The poster has no right to judge them. He doesn't know what they have been through

The OP is right.

Whether they married deadbeat men (which speaks of their choice) or not, the truth is that they are at best super moms.

They can never be dads.

kurupt1:
How do you want the fathers to behave,like pussies??Children need discipline and order to prosper later and that is what fathers instill.You women no dey ever reason well sef

Discipline ko discipline ni.
No wonder the kids later distance themselves

bukatyne:


The OP is right.

Whether they married deadbeat men (which speaks of their choice) or not, the truth is that they are at best super moms.

They can never be dads.

I never said they were dads

AmazonTopaz:
When such fathers decide to be irresponsible and become deadbeat daddies.
That is what they get and the women playing such roles gotta celebrate their selves since the daddies are nowhere to be seen
To be a father is not just about giving women belle
The poster has no right to judge them. He doesn't know what they have been through

This is so not healthy.
You might run mad soon.

crackhaus:

This is so not healthy.
You might run mad soon.

I already am anything else

AmazonTopaz:

I already am anything else

That explains a lot then.

So true.
Those yeyebrities are only fooling themselves.

Happy Father's Day to my Houseboy.