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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 17, 2019 |
baby124: Go and take your drugs. This nonsense is not for me. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 11:53am On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas:You just registered an account today specifically to blast OP? You either need deliverance or you are the guilty party. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 11:53am On Jun 17, 2019 |
obowunmi:Thanks dear... I want them to bring it on. I am so ready for them. 6 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: You'll die first. Aids will get to you before old age. Fool. Just keep sleeping around without protection. I said disappear. I didn't ask you to take down your post! 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 11:55am On Jun 17, 2019 |
baby124: My account registered today? You are blind. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 11:56am On Jun 17, 2019 |
baby124:He is the guilty party. He told me he is on nairaland. I am pretty sure it's him or someone close to him.. Don't be a coward.Come out of hiding so that I can blast you. Oloriburuku. 16 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 11:56am On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas:Ok, 2 days ago. You are still a new comer fishing insults up and down! 8 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by obowunmi(m): 11:57am On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas: Don't be so harsh. She's struggling with her emotions. 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 11:58am On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas:You open this account today just to insult me. Come out of your shell and let me know whom you are. You and your generations to come will disappear from the earth like smoke. 11 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by liberalchick(f): 11:58am On Jun 17, 2019 |
She said her EDD is next month, it’s in her post. crackhaus: 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 11:59am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Some of you here attacking a pregnant woman about to give birth next month are very senseless. She has obviously been trying to reach him for 8-months now to no avail, which led to her creating this thread. She is understandably in an emotional state, not just b|c of her condition but the situation with this man. Your replies shows how backward the Nigerian society is b|c the woman always gets blamed. Don't remove his picture, OP. He needs to be shamed. 35 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
baby124: And what is she doing? Blessing people abi?? Who are you again? Please swerve abeg. You are blind. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: You cannot even count. You truly fóolish. My account was created two fúcking days ago. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 12:03pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas:The question is who the hell are you? You come here insulting a poster like this is personal to you? You careless and useless being. Get away from this thread you idiot if you cannot contribute meaningfully or provide money to take care of the baby. If you are the intending father, send money for your child and shut up. You sound like a complete waste of sperm yourself. Sonofabitch. 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by OreoPaschal(m): 12:03pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas: Be a Man here, and stop exchanging words and insults with a pregnant woman. Be guided, my guy! Except, you have something else you ain't telling us. 18 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:05pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
KMegas:I am so damn ready for you. Call him when you data is exhausted cos I can do this with you all day. 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 12:05pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:Has he contacted you to take care of the bills? Cause I see you removed his pic. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:06pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
baby124:God bless you dear. 6 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by OreoPaschal(m): 12:06pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: Words are stronger than it seems! There are many ways of handling comments, other than curses. I wish you safe delivery and peace of mind. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:07pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
baby124:I did not remove them. They are up there. Let me check. 3 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
OreoPaschal: Is that your definition of what it means to be a man? You are very myopic like most of the other posters. You failed to see how she attacked other people. She's is not the victim here. What is happening to her is the consequences of her stupídity. The only victim here is the baby in her care which I suggest she gives out for adoption because it's obviously they both cannot afford to raise that child. But no. What she is after is monetary support from a man who she claims can't even afford to buy a motorcycle. So who is fooling who? 11 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:26pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
theButterfly:Thank you. He hacked my account and removed the pictures.I don't know how he did it. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:39pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
majamajic:He can't talk cos he knows he is guilty. He hacked my account and removed the pictures. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 12:52pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:He probably asked the mods to remove it. You can repost it till he owns up and takes responsibility 10 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Tedpgrass: 12:55pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: Madam all your curses come back to you undoubtedly .. None rests upon people who are trying to tell you the truth.. It simply will not break the Higher laws!! Read your write-up and note when you mentioned he wanted you to have a Top.. Wish your baby the best. Shalom!! . 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Plolly(f): 1:03pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
I like ur guts in bringing this to the public if it were to be me I can't do this cos I'm so soft hearted and I pity people quickly and I can never hurt whoever I love or had once loved no matter what they do. I pray u get what u looking for |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by liberalchick(f): 1:09pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
She really has guts, risking ridicule and double standard bashing from very judgmental Nigerians. Unfortunately that’s the only way she will get what she wants. After ignoring her calls for months, he finally calls her as soon as he is outed on NL. Plolly: 15 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by DBestDoc(f): 1:13pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: That Lady you quoted and called a dumbo just told you the truth, albeit rather harsh with her usage of words. People are refusing to say things exactly as they are just so they don't come off as judgemental but trust me, the result may be three kids for three different men if we keep hiding the truth. Oh yes! The Nigerian society doesn't favour women in any way, from the youngest of us to the oldest so it's our duty to protect ourselves in every possible ways we can, emotionally, physically etc. Being in a relationship shouldn't make you lose your sense of reasoning and self preservation. If you were living in an organized society, the law would sort you out and that would be a different kettle of fish altogether and Of course you wouldn't be on Nairaland posting this Crap. Yeah, this is bullshi.t and crap. It's Bullshi.t because you totally planned this out and unfortunately, it's a plan gone wrong. The public pric.k is 40 and single aha? but that doesn't mean he's a father material or even ready to be one or married and you went ahead to take your chances anyways. He had a live in girlfriend(who was smart enough to not fall pregnant) whom you knew about but you still went on to play. You caught him whoring with three different women and you still didn't leave. At least, you would have borrowed a leaf from the live in girlfriend that left him because of you, but you didn't. You clearly had a mission to achieve. He still brought his public peni.s into your Vagin.a (which you clearly don't respect) and you didn't make him use a Condom. You weren't scared of contracting some incurables from him. Wow! The 'morning after pills' would have saved the day even after all the intentional 'mistakes' but you again chose not to use it. Women make this 'intentional mistake' for one of three reasons; to have a baby of their own with or without the involvement of the father. These women see and treat the pregnancy as a gift, they have the means and are happy to take care of the kid all by themselves. The idea of being able to have their own babies whether or not marriage happens is their motivation.These ones are the wise sisters, they don't go embarrassing themselves because they know what they want. The second category are the ones that tie a man to marriage with pregnancy. It works for a lot of sisters but some others get their fingers burnt and their lives altered forever. The third category are the ones that want some extra cash from Child support. This is a mistake in Nigeria as you'll spend more in time, energy and money trying to get some kobo that isn't worth the hard Labour The law will work for you abroad and you could get an extra coins from the government for the upkeep of your kids The last group are the genuinely ignorant and innocent sisters who were deeply in love with a man, got sweet talked and lied to and mistakenly fell for the lies and got pregnant. These ones, i feel some pity for 'cause they never saw it coming. You know which category you fit in but my advise is that you let it go. The deed has been done, pregnancy has advanced and you got an amazing gift from God already. You said money is no problem and you can pay people's salaries on here so, save yourself this stress and channel all energy to welcoming your gift and giving it a good life. Forget about that man, he's a dead beat and very irresponsible. If you want to stress yourself fighting him, you'd be doing your mental and physical health no good as High BP may set in. The agencies and lawyers you're calling on will not do you much good. An order will be given that he pays the Child support but paying it regularly may not be achieved. This guy rejected this pregnancy from the start, forget about him. If in the future he decides to come take responsibility, that would be fine. Let your family and friends channel all their resources towards you and your baby because you'd need as much support as you can get. Being a single mum isn't a walk in the park and that phase of your life will begin soon. This is just an opinion and you may decide not to take it. Any quotes with insults will not be dignified with a response. i'm a very busy person but i took out time to write this here. Maybe some girls planning on using this 'intentional mistake' method may reconsider because it hardly ends well. The exact advise i'd give to my flesh and blood. I sincerely wish you all the best! 30 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by bukatyne(f): 1:19pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
crackhaus: Update: He that is not be mentioned opened account on 15th, has 15 posts out of which 13 are on this thread. And the posts are quite heavy. OP said she's pregnant, guy is talking about the baby in her care. Is OP preggers while caring for a suckling baby? Question will be when did she get preggers. You people should leave me, I am tired. 3 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by bukatyne(f): 1:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
@TV01, Happy new year o, long time no see. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by bukatyne(f): 1:23pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by bukatyne(f): 1:28pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
DBestDoc: 1 Like |
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