Lemme try and be brief here.
I dated this young lady last year and things didn't go well. We dated for 8 months and eventually broke up. The thing is, it's been like 6 months since we broke up but yet she still stalks the hell out of my life. Is there any technique I have not used to chase this girl away??... There's none I can think of. I have said very bad things to her, ignored her and all, yet she still comes back after a while after leaving me. She's still preaching to me on how much she loved me and still loves me. She's emotionally blackmailing me like I ditched her but she caused the breakup. I don't know how else to handle the issue anymore. I have told her we can be friends but she doesn't want that, she's insisting on having back the relationship. Pls, what do u guys think I should do??

Your story is not even complete. What exactly did she do? Can she not be forgiven? You sound like one who has gotten what he wants and is looking for the slightest of opportunity to zoom off to the next victim.

Why can't you simply block her from having access to you?
Block her on all social media platforms and block her number from calling you.
Seems to me you enjoy attention she is giving you.

Guy complete the story.

8months and ongoing? — Damn.
She seems to have a lot of time on her hands.

Next time, don't date a jobless lady. Well since you have communicated that you want nothing romantically, she'll eventually tire out and stop. Just avoid contact with her.

Emmytrill:
Your story is not even complete. What exactly did she do? Can she not be forgiven? You sound like one who has gotten what he wants and is looking for the slightest of opportunity to zoom off to the next victim.

Someone that bleeped a guy and had the guts to tell me it was a mistake. That sin cannot be forgiven by me. Not in this life

yemeshak:
Why can't you simply block her from having access to you?

Block her on all social media platforms and block her number from calling you.

Seems to me you enjoy attention she is giving you.

I did actually but end up unblocking her cos she always has a way of getting to talk to me again as we share a lot of mutual friends.

Noblemarce:
Guy complete the story.

What else have I not said??

Make I pack here first

SageMK:
8months and ongoing? — Damn.
She seems to have a lot of time on her hands.

Next time, don't date a jobless lady. Well since you have communicated that you want nothing romantically, she'll eventually tire out and stop. Just avoid contact with her.

8 months now bro. It doesn't look like its going to end soon. She even offered me free sex. Like I can be laying her any time I want to. It's just weird. I'm finding it really scary now.

If na one weakling guy they beg girl like this and the girl keeps saying no, he for don kill himself since..

Shout out to the strong girl that she is.

No matter the persistent no of the OP she still keeps trying..

And for the OP to have brought this matter to nairaland, he's intentionally or subconsciously seeking our opinion if they should be back together..

Prominentp:
8 months now bro. It doesn't look like its going to end soon. She even offered me free sex. Like I can be laying her anything I want to. It's just weird. I'm finding it really scary now.

@ Bolded, not surprising at all.

That's all most of them have to offer especially if they are jobless. Avoid them next time. Anyway, women are very good at emotional torture. Don't let her manipulate you. Shun her off totally. Don't give her any attention.

So she cheated on you? Damn, you are right to be afraid.

Prominentp:
8 months now bro. It doesn't look like its going to end soon. She even offered me free sex. Like I can be laying her any time I want to. It's just weird. I'm finding it really scary now.

take the offer bt use condom. Some guys are paying for that sex bt tel her na just sex

SageMK:


@ Bolded, not surprising at all.

That's all most of them have to offer especially if they are jobless. Avoid them next time. Anyway, women are very good at emotional torture. Don't let her manipulate you. Shun her off totally. Don't give her any attention.

So she cheated on you? Damn, you are right to be afraid.

On the contrary, she did that because that's what most of you guys are after and you place so much priority on it like your lives depend on it.

A lady like that is desperate to have the guy back and will do anything for that to happen. Now offering that shows only one thing- Op never demanded more than sex from her. Sage, Some women are GIGO. She only reflected who Op is .



BTW, did op write bolded in an invisible ink? cos I'm not seeing where that is stated.

clive2u:
take the offer bt use condom. Some guys are paying for that sex bt tel her na just sex

don't follow this offer o..na trap

Prominentp:
I did actually but end up unblocking her cos she always has a way of getting to talk to me again as we share a lot of mutual friends.

block her permanently and be aggressive towards her..you seem too nice to her. be firm

MariaLavina:
On the contrary, she did that because that's what most of you guys are after and you place so much priority on it like your lives depend on it.

A lady like that is desperate to have the guy back and will do anything for that to happen. Now offering that shows only one thing- Op never demanded more than sex from her. Sage, Some women are GIGO. She only reflected who Op is .



BTW, did op write bolded in an invisible ink? cos I'm not seeing where that is stated.

read again..he said so

babyfaceafrica:
read again..he said so

He typed she caused the break up but didn't mention how.


Read again.

MariaLavina:
He typed she caused the break up but didn't mention how.


Read again.

read Again... he replied someone who asked...

Prominentp:
Someone that bleeped a guy and had the guts to tell me it was a mistake. That sin cannot be forgiven by me. Not in this life

cc:marialavina

babyfaceAfrica:
cc:mari alavina

Lol I was about to Cc you too, thanks I've seen it.


Oh well, everyone has a deal breaker for the op, having sex with another guy it is. The lady should accept her L and move on.

Prominentp:
Lemme try and be brief here.
I dated this young lady last year and things didn't go well. We dated for 8 months and eventually broke up. The thing is, it's been like 6 months since we broke up but yet she still stalks the hell out of my life. Is there any technique I have not used to chase this girl away??... There's none I can think of. I have said very bad things to her, ignored her and all, yet she still comes back after a while after leaving me. She's still preaching to me on how much she loved me and still loves me. She's emotionally blackmailing me like I ditched her but she caused the breakup. I don't know how else to handle the issue anymore. I have told her we can be friends but she doesn't want that, she's insisting on having back the relationship. Pls, what do u guys think I should we do??

if you want to know,if a bird really belong to you.l
let it out of it cage and if it comes back to you know that it is yours.

See if gods give you ROD yansh her for the last time during weekend when sun is shining.. Look for one her friend try fast bang that one too then you use it as your new girl friend... Take both of them on a date i swear if she call your number again abeg report me to seun. #useyourhead

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Prominentp:
Lemme try and be brief here.
I dated this young lady last year and things didn't go well. We dated for 8 months and eventually broke up. The thing is, it's been like 6 months since we broke up but yet she still stalks the hell out of my life. Is there any technique I have not used to chase this girl away??... There's none I can think of. I have said very bad things to her, ignored her and all, yet she still comes back after a while after leaving me. She's still preaching to me on how much she loved me and still loves me. She's emotionally blackmailing me like I ditched her but she caused the breakup. I don't know how else to handle the issue anymore. I have told her we can be friends but she doesn't want that, she's insisting on having back the relationship. Pls, what do u guys think I should do??

You don't have to use any technique tell her you don't love her simple

Prominentp:
What else have I not said??

you mean just like that?

She has seen your destiny and wanna die there. Run away. Don't bleep her never ever. She'd use it to tie you down. Shun off totally.

I think she really loves you. Now give her a hard condition like ask her to pursue Phd assuming she has first degree and you will be hers. See if she tries. Sometimes we lose what is best for us because of what we see in the immediate.
However, let her know you are not having sex with her again until marriage. She might actually be your soul mate.
... but I think you still love her but some other girls are giving you problems.

Prominentp:
Someone that bleeped a guy and had the guts to tell me it was a mistake. That sin cannot be forgiven by me. Not in this life

thought i was the only one that shot happened to last year���