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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Pwettyella(f): 7:19pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
op pls don't reply some unreasonable people plss 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by NOBODYY: 7:20pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:If curse dey kill buhari for don die ![]() 3 Likes
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 7:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
NOBODYY:and you will die cos you are not Buhari. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 7:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:Leave that clown. He just wan wind you. Smh. 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by NOBODYY: 7:23pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:If I swear for you and your belle now you go know say I get craze pass you.. But I won't.. Your own curse is already fighting you by making the young man run from you.. So I no go add to your plate 2 Likes
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:24pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
What is the current update? ![]() ![]() Look at the silly excuses the man brought up...''he has low sperm count, he took injection during university days and can't impregnate a woman, he was told in church that he is not the father, he is not ready for marriage'', etc, nonscence! Sorry lady, that man is married, that is how they go about cheating, he must take responsibility. He must accept the pregnancy. Your health at this time is very Paramount, am wondering why you did not reach out to him since, you need rest not stress. 10 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by sisisioge: 7:32pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Actually mamatoppy, you have to calm down! Lawd! You've got a mouth on you! Indeed, the guy is grossly irresponsible but you both did this together. Thus it's your combined responsibility. Anyways, stop insulting everybody and focus your energy on getting the guy to be accountable. It is well...we all hate condoms, don't we ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Lessonbalogun: 7:41pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
It will be well with you. Thank you. U can inbox me and let me guide u...and pls try to be calm 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Agbgift(f): 8:21pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Op, my advise for u now, is to take care of yourself and ur unborn child. You don't need negative energy now, stop replying negative comments . After given birth, then u can start fighting for child's support. After all it takes two to tangle. I wish u safe delivery in advance. 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by julioralph(m): 8:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Homeboiy: 8:38pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
One of the major reasons the guy is running away from u is your bad character and ur incessant nagging. I no dey when una start am Listening to wiser by flavor ft phyno and MI 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Plolly(f): 8:53pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Ishilove:Ur head day there my sister nicely put 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deepfeel(m): 9:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
This is a self inflicted injury, you saw all those bad characters in that man but you were constantly having sex with him, you say you are not desperate for marriage neither are you a gold digger, my question is why have unprotected sex with a man like that? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deepfeel(m): 9:43pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Any man who sleeps with a lady and does not practice safe sex from his own angle is a joke. But why will a woman not do the same who is more affected when it comes to unwanted pregnancy, you are judging this case one sided , she claims these man was with another lady the lady left him when he started dating her she claims the man was jumping from club to club, dating multiple women, with all these, this lady overlooked all that and was having unprotected sex with him, if truly she saw all those bad things in this man but was still having unprotected sex with him , do you think she will say no to him if he told her he was married? I don't understand why was she with that man in the first place, this lady purposely got pregnant for that man no doubt 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by KingSatan: 9:57pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: A bitter woman like you deserves whatever she gets. Now I see why the man ran for his dear life. Your life will be so miserable that people will spit at your shadow. 3 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Ishilove: 10:24pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
rusher14:You carry beta oil for head 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by jeff1607(m): 10:41pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
I am so following this |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by cococandy(f): 10:52pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Painfully ignorant and judgmental Rosarie: 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Lol if he’s the culprit that means your baby will disappear too. Mamatoppy: 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by cococandy(f): 11:02pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Thanks TheNaijanBlog: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by jeff1607(m): 11:15pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: you say? 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by CaptainMitch: 11:54pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by crackhaus: 12:09am On Jun 18, 2019 |
So las las, what is the latest update on this matter? Or did mamatoppy only come here to fight people with just one month to go before her due date? *eating our sea salt cashew nuts* ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 12:18am On Jun 18, 2019 |
It takes two to make one, but was the man's decision considered in all this? This same thing happened to eddie murphy and Mel b. They had a one night stand, she got pregnant, carri2e the baby to term, and then eddie murphy was stuck with child support ( she took him to court). She had multiple opportunities to terminate the pregnancy, from morning after pill to abortions but she chose to go all the way without the Father's agreement. Now a man who had no interest in being a father is in the first place is being tagged as a deadbeat. We can call the guy deadbeat etal, but did he take any part in the decision to have the baby? Our having mutually enjoyable sex does not count as a decision to bring a life that resources are not available for into this world 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by crackhaus: 12:24am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus:Haven't you heard you can't tell women what to do with their pregnancies, but you can tell men what to do with their money when it comes to taking care of a pregnancy they never wanted? Fairness for all... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Sanchez01: 12:34am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Victim: 1. a person who is tricked or duped. 2. a person who has come to feel helpless and passive in the face of misfortune or ill-treatment. According to her narrative, she knew: 1. The dude had a live-in girlfriend but never bothered. Safe to say she never asked questions or just wanted to squeeze her head in. 2. The guy was irresponsible from the get-go. He cheated on three occasions but you saw nothing wrong with it and didn't see through the madness that he is irresponsible. He hops from one club to another and you never thought to reevaluate your relationship with this kind of human. He was living with a lady before we started talking. The lady moved out. He jumps from club to club and ladies to ladies. Caught him more than 3 times.3. He vehemently denies the pregnancy which isn't much of a shock going by his character description in your post but you never cared because he is responsible and must accept. 4. It is not about the money plus he lives in a room and parlour somewhere in Ikorodu. He isn't rich, according to you. 5. He embarrassed your family by telling them he won't accept your pregnancy and indirectly accuse you of sleeping around. 6. He blocked you on all social media platforms known to the both of you in order to make the message more stronger. IF THIS ISN'T ABOUT THE MONEY THEN WHAT IS IT ABOUT, THAT HE MARRIES YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE DESPERATE?? You saw the signs but never concerned yourself with the truth and chose to get an irresponsible man to commit to you by forcing a pregnancy on him. With a these signs and warnings you thought to make a baby with a cheat, an irresponsible dolt who though at 40 still hop from one club to another and to cap it all up, he is struggling. I don't understand the kind of life you think you'd live with this kind of person but it is clear as day that he isn't thinking the family way. This is not me being sanctimonious and all what not... This is me saying the OP is a victim of her own undoing. The deed has been done. Look ahead and think of how you'd raise your baby alone. You're on a long thing if you think a 40 year old man who still hop from one club to another claiming 'Bobo no go die unless t'o bá d'arugbo' would assist in raising a child he never wanted. 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by ibkayee(f): 12:38am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus:If they had sex without a condom, that was him taking part though, I'm sure he was aware of the possibilities 7 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 12:53am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ibkayee: for better or worse, we are not in the stone ages. a decision to have sex/shagg/fkkk is not a decision to bring a life into the world that decision was taken solely by the mother. why should the man bear the consequences of her decision? that honestly feels like gross irresponsibility - one of the areas where western law skews unfairly towards women this is not the case of a guy stringing a woman along with promises of marriage we were joking about it in the office the other day, that in the end, the decision to have a child rests with the wife. that if madam decides she will have another pikin, there is nothing you can do, even if you will be saddled with responsibilities you did not plan for |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by crackhaus: 12:55am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ibkayee:Cool. So as part of it, when he then says "babe I don't want this baby, you've got to terminate it"... What happens? 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by ibkayee(f): 1:10am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus:When you decide to have sex/shagg/fkk without a condom, you’ve also signed up for the possibility that a baby could be created. Worst case scenario, women trapping men with babies (not necessarily saying that’s what she did) isn’t new, so if you’re careless enough to leave the responsibility of birth control solely to her, you only have yourself to blame. He claims it was a one night stand? Even worse. Height of carelessness Condoms aren't even 100% foolproof and you're still out there running amok? Lol, apparently he's even married (poor wife) Don’t want to father a kid? You know what to do 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by ibkayee(f): 1:11am On Jun 18, 2019 |
crackhaus:Then I respond with "Should've used a condom"... Lol it's really that simple 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 1:14am On Jun 18, 2019 |
KMegas: You're a very stupid fellow!So the idiot who got her knocked up goes free?Being a prostitute makes her no less a mother.Stupid fo*l. 3 Likes |
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