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Help I Can't Think Straight Again by buhariski(m): 2:36pm On Jun 18, 2019
Pls help me out. I can't reason well because of konji. There is this girl I met in my hood last month. The chatting has be good especially on phone calls. The problem now is dat the girl has one special kind of greeting or words she always uses whenever we're talking on phone. She always complain of being broke and hungary, though she didn't not ask me of anything. just dat she always complain of not having money and food to eat. I know she is trying to send a message. I have only ask her out once, and she turned down my request. I didn't get bother anyway. I was still talking with her on phone. Sunday evening she called me on phone as we were talking , she said,she needs something from me and I ask what is that. She needs 30,000 naira. I laughed out loud and told her you mean 30 billion. she said no just that she needs 2 thousands naira she wants to used it on church things. She told me she will come to my place to collect the money. I didn't say anything to her but I told her I will get back to her. Since then I ve be thinking if I should forget everything about her and move on, cos I once deleted her number before but she has been the one calling. Or should I play along with her and see what the outcome would be. I have not ask her to be my girlfriend. She has been the closest girl that have come close to me since 3years of me being single. To the female nairalandler dat will be reading this post i did not come here to talk down or make mockery of any female gender here. Just dat i am dealing with matter of the heart. If you feel offended sorry.
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by dingbang(m): 2:49pm On Jun 18, 2019
Dont allow yourself to be scammed please.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by SkinnyNigga: 3:42pm On Jun 18, 2019
"I have only ask her out once, and she turned down my request. "
"I have not ask her to be my girlfriend"
op na which one wey we go believe? e be like say you are going nuts

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by MJBOLT: 3:43pm On Jun 18, 2019
play along,when she show up for the money,f*ck sense into her

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by QueenSekxy(f): 3:49pm On Jun 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
play along,when she show up for the money,f*ck sense into her
You are evil. Why not advise him to blatantly object? Will he be less of a man when he says No?

This is the reason I do not pity rapists atall.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by MJBOLT: 3:50pm On Jun 18, 2019
i did not say he should rape the girl na

QueenSekxy:

You are evil. Why not advise him to blatantly object? Will he be less of a man when he says No?

This is the reason I do not pity rapists atall.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 3:52pm On Jun 18, 2019
why is it that guys hate helping out their female friends in need without bedding them first? Just curious undecided


Imagine you a guy asking another guy for help...and he says you should blow him first undecided

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 3:53pm On Jun 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
i did not say he should rape the girl na


No...only to fvck her cos of 2k undecided

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by MJBOLT: 3:57pm On Jun 18, 2019
at the end of the day everybody is happy
ebonyggurl:

No...only to fvck her cos of 2k undecided

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 4:04pm On Jun 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
at the end of the day everybody is happy


At the end of the day, someone will be asking why some Nigerian women see men as walking atm machines undecided

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by StPete: 4:09pm On Jun 18, 2019
She doesn’t have any family member to borrow from ba? She doesn’t even have a bf but wants to come to your house to collect 2k. If you no Bleep her, wetin u gain. Lemme not say more

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Daronyk(f): 4:11pm On Jun 18, 2019
Follow your instincts
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by dogtails(m): 4:16pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:
why is it that guys hate helping out their female friends in need without bedding them first? Just curious undecided


Imagine you a guy asking another guy for help...and he says you should blow him first undecided
Just look at what this fool is saying

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 4:23pm On Jun 18, 2019
dogtails:
Just look at what this fool is saying

Mumu. its a simple question.Carry your stupidity and face someone else.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Funkyswagzz(m): 4:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
This reminds me of one girl that wanted me to buy her a new phone. She always said she miss me and all. The moment I refused buying the phone she stopped talking to me. Once u show girls u r generous they will come for u. Just give her a test.. tell her u don't have the money and see if she still communicate with u as usual.. if she doesn't just respect urself and forget her..

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by dogtails(m): 5:07pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:


Mumu. its a simple question.Carry your stupidity and face someone else.
It is ur type that wreck men IDIOT

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by dogtails(m): 5:08pm On Jun 18, 2019
Funkyswagzz:
This reminds me of one girl that wanted me to buy her a new phone. She always said she miss me and all. The moment I refused buying the phone she stopped talking to me. Once u show girls u r generous they will come for u. Just give her a test.. tell her u don't have the money and see if she still communicate with u as usual.. if she doesn't just respect urself and forget her..
Bro I Smirnoff for u jare
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Omega30(m): 5:13pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:
why is it that guys hate helping out their female friends in need without bedding them first? Just curious undecided


Imagine you a guy asking another guy for help...and he says you should blow him first undecided
2 things:you guys take our help for granted.Secondly, If it were us, you guys will not help.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 5:14pm On Jun 18, 2019
dogtails:
It is ur type that wreck men IDIOT

Lolz. Fool. I don't depend on any pathetic entitled man for money okay. Keep spending your change on oloshos
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 5:24pm On Jun 18, 2019
Omega30:
2 things:you guys take our help for granted.Secondly, If it were us, you guys will not help.

Not true. Depends on the closeness between the two people involved. If you've known each other for a while and relate well, what's wrong with helping the one in need undecided

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:25pm On Jun 18, 2019
You have not mentioned your age, if you are up to the age of dating, begin to search for a good girl who has parents that cater for her, or who has a job. The girl you are referring to here is a broke hungry lady. It is not really nice for a lady to start telling you she is hungry and broke within one month of you and her getting a bit close. But if you have the financial ability, and you know you can be providing for her, then you can continue.
buhariski:
Pls help me out. I can't reason well because of konji. There is this girl I met in my hood last month. The chatting has be good especially on phone calls. The problem now is dat the girl has one special kind of greeting or words she always uses whenever we're talking on phone. She always complain of being broke and hungary, though she didn't not ask me of anything. just dat she always complain of not having money and food to eat. I know she is trying to send a message. I have only ask her out once, and she turned down my request. I didn't get bother anyway. I was still talking with her on phone. Sunday evening she called me on phone as we were talking , she said,she needs something from me and I ask what is that. She needs 30,000 naira. I laughed out loud and told her you mean 30 billion. she said no just that she needs 2 thousands naira she wants to used it on church things. She told me she will come to my place to collect the money. I didn't say anything to her but I told her I will get back to her. Since then I ve be thinking if I should forget everything about her and move on, cos I once deleted her number before but she has been the one calling. Or should I play along with her and see what the outcome would be. I have not ask her to be my girlfriend. She has been the closest girl that have come close to me since 3years of me being single. To the female nairalandler dat will be reading this post i did not come here to talk down or make mockery of any female gender here. Just dat i am dealing with matter of the heart. If you feel offended sorry.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by clive2u(m): 5:27pm On Jun 18, 2019
If u have give her bt dnt expect anything in return, if u dnt have tel her u dnt. Church go understand that she no get

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Funkyswagzz(m): 5:35pm On Jun 18, 2019
dogtails:
Bro I Smirnoff for u jare

Cheers
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Omega30(m): 5:49pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:


Not true. Depends on the closeness between the two people involved. If you've known each other for a while and relate well, what's wrong with helping the one in need undecided
Hmm, partly true. Y'all girls often have needs: financial ,emotional, security, advice.If u always, ask for the pre-mentioned apart from the first need.We will gladly help, but based on experiential knowledge, you girls always tilt towards the first need ( financial) of which u girls seldom offer nothing in return.The only one we assume will not cost you anything and you can give easily is the one we normally ask you, others you won't or CAN'T even offer them.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jun 18, 2019
So why make friends with a broke hungry girl? 2k and you already jittery.

Anyways you don't owe her anything so you can simply say NO
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 6:05pm On Jun 18, 2019
Omega30:
Hmm, partly true. Y'all girls often have needs: financial ,emotional, security, advice.If u always, ask for the pre-mentioned apart from the first need.We will gladly help, but based on experiential knowledge, you girls always tilt towards the first need ( financial) of which u girls seldom offer nothing in return.The only one we assume will not cost you anything and you can give easily is the one we normally ask you, others you won't or CAN'T even offer them.

Peeps don't believe in love anymore I guess. We're in the era of "use what you have to get what you want". Guys use their money to get sex. Girls use their bodies to get money...
Sucks, but that's how it is. For some people anyway

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Omega30(m): 6:09pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:


Peeps don't believe in love anymore I guess. We're in the era of "use what you have to get what you want". Guys use their money to get sex. Girls use their bodies to get money...
Sucks, but that's how it is
Now, you are talking baby.That's the truth I wanna hear. But, it sucks every body misuses the word LOVE.We all lying, guys say, “I love you” to Bleep, girls say, “I love you” to get money. We are all players till we are ready to hang boots.

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by ebonyggurl(f): 6:12pm On Jun 18, 2019
Omega30:
Now, you are talking baby.That's the truth I wanna hear. But, it sucks every body misuses the word LOVE.We all lying, guys say, “I love you” to Bleep, girls say, “I love you” to get money. We are all players till we are ready to hang boots.

Lolz...most guys never hang their boots though. They get married and continue...even when the wife is faithful
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Omega30(m): 6:22pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:


Lolz...most guys never hang their boots though. They get married and continue...even when the wife is faithful
Baby , I tell ya, many of us would like to hang boots. I tell you the truth.A guy that has been ‘Messi’ around before marriage. Nothing is new anymore, even Messi can never be Messi forever. But, our girls once married, never adapt, but drive us out again into the hands of Delilah because of lack of peace of mind.
Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Eldavis(m): 6:25pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:
why is it that guys hate helping out their female friends in need without bedding them first? Just curious undecided


Imagine you a guy asking another guy for help...and he says you should blow him first undecided



Lwkmd

Kai dis got me

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Re: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Eldavis(m): 6:28pm On Jun 18, 2019
Daronyk:
Follow your instincts



Lolz his instincts is already clouded with konji

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