lilianofentse:
Hello all,

So today I was chatting with an old friend and I was like, I don't really fancy relationships these days and he asked me why? because y'all aren't honest.
Seriously guys this days just want to have a taste of what's under your legs, and after that, they either start losing interest, zoom off, or ignore you till they're hornny, then they start sending messages of how they miss you, love you blablabla, calling you every evening hoping you could give them a visit. A visit to do what exactly?? Sometimes they think all girls are gullible.
So in all truth guys should up their game. If you want a fling tell her, instead of hiding under the guise of relationships and dispose of her when you're through with her.
I know one of male friends who can sleep with a girl now and won't even recall her name the next minute. Its sad though.

andycoal40:




Not true..the ones you've met were just like that

lilianofentse:
am not talking about ladies in general. What my friend said in the last paragraph wasn't cool. How can you be intimate with a person and forget about the person easily?? I pitied for the girl though.

andycoal40:


You don't blame a guy for that..ladies that have something doing must wait till they are married with the guy for intimacy

Oluwasaeon:
Never knew something was under the legs of girls

lilianofentse:
he deceived her at the end. It's still deceit. He told me she even sent a text saying she'd end her life if he doesn't speak to her. now the problems that he doesn't want to tell her to move on. She still loves him and he told her she should go ahead. Nb. She was a virgin before he met her.

lilianofentse:
Hello all,

So today I was chatting with an old friend and I was like, I don't really fancy relationships these days and he asked me why? because y'all aren't honest.
Seriously guys this days just want to have a taste of what's under your legs, and after that, they either start losing interest, zoom off, or ignore you till they're hornny, then they start sending messages of how they miss you, love you blablabla, calling you every evening hoping you could give them a visit. A visit to do what exactly?? Sometimes they think all girls are gullible.
So in all truth guys should up their game. If you want a fling tell her, instead of hiding under the guise of relationships and dispose of her when you're through with her.
I know one of my male friends who can sleep with a girl now and won't even recall her name the next minute. Its sad though.

lilianofentse:
Hello all,

So today I was chatting with an old friend and I was like, I don't really fancy relationships these days and he asked me why? because y'all aren't honest.
Seriously guys this days just want to have a taste of what's under your legs, and after that, they either start losing interest, zoom off, or ignore you till they're hornny, then they start sending messages of how they miss you, love you blablabla, calling you every evening hoping you could give them a visit. A visit to do what exactly?? Sometimes they think all girls are gullible.
So in all truth guys should up their game. If you want a fling tell her, instead of hiding under the guise of relationships and dispose of her when you're through with her.
I know one of my male friends who can sleep with a girl now and won't even recall her name the next minute. Its sad though.

lilianofentse:
Hello all,

So today I was chatting with an old friend and I was like, I don't really fancy relationships these days and he asked me why? because y'all aren't honest.
Seriously guys this days just want to have a taste of what's under your legs, and after that, they either start losing interest, zoom off, or ignore you till they're hornny, then they start sending messages of how they miss you, love you blablabla, calling you every evening hoping you could give them a visit. A visit to do what exactly?? Sometimes they think all girls are gullible.
So in all truth guys should up their game. If you want a fling tell her, instead of hiding under the guise of relationships and dispose of her when you're through with her.
I know one of my male friends who can sleep with a girl now and won't even recall her name the next minute. Its sad though.

raymi:


If guys see value in you, they'll stay. Now, there are certain steps you need to take. First, work on yourself. Are you someone that people would like to befriend on a long term basis? How is your character? Are you the dream lady for most men? If that isn't the case, in most cases, the right guys won't stay in your life. Don't get caught up in a stupid ideology that the man meant for you would like you for who you are; Nobody likes someone who has a bad character. Nobody likes nonsense. You can work on yourself and become a better person. Contrary to popular opinion, people change.

The next step is try and meet the right people. If you meet guys who just want to have fun, there's a tendency they just want to get in your pants. Make a conscious effort to associate more with career-driven, focused and responsible individuals. These are predominantly the kind of men who value and are prepared for serious relationships which can lead to 'happily-ever-after'. In the event that these category of men feel that they have met their dream woman in you, they feel compelled to stay and make significant effort to remain in your life. What's more? They are the right kind of men for you. To be honest, I have met a few stunningly captivating ladies who I lusted after; but when I got involved with them, I discovered the personality behind that pretty face and perfect body was even more desirable.

OPTIMUSPRIME08:

When you done crying you let us know.
If you like shun relationships its your choice and poo.
The truth is you attract what you are, 95% of the time, your dress sense, attitude and actions attracts the kinda guy who shows up.
Now there are guys who aren't into the hit and run off stuffs but girls no send them why? Because they don't dress to kill, they don't hide under a fake impression, they are mostly simple and sometimes broke.
Girls aviod them to chase after a player.
Infant the button line is at this your young age if you don't melo to guys who are down for you, you will expire for those who your down for.
Stick to those who want you, every other thing will add up if you learn to grow together kappish.
Shiloh is not a good idea o

Rednaxelot:
i wanna have a fling with you.

Do you mind?

Whitestory:


Guy.. This is so true... Honestly...
How many ladies can up their game.. You want to have this type of guy or that type of guy... But can ladies be that type of woman a guy would want... I wonder if they think about this things... No hustling guy with dreams to achieve will settle with a girl that can't add anything positive to his dreams.. Like attract like...

lefulefu:
tell ur friend not to close her heart cos very soon she is going to get a cool handsome lomantic man who will treat her like a queen and never leave her.i can see it clearly.no fukboy will come her way again

lilianofentse:
that's why honesty is important. You tell her how you want her to be while being honest at it. She should learn from you. You're Adam, She's Eve.

lilianofentse:
lol. Who's crying

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
Or you aren't crying wow congratulations They miss you for sex because that all you got to offer to them.
So work on your values to guys you intend dating or you can continue experimenting your mileage. Peace

GrabHisBalls:
What you said is a trait in boys. They're called 'Boys' for a reason. It doesn't change the fact that you can't find this same trait in men, but basically, in a few.

I met one, say, in his 30s 3wks ago. We talked, and it happened that he sounded smart. We exchanged contact, not that I wanted to date him, but just to have someone that smart as a friend. First thing the next day he called telling me he was missing me, and I was like "we just met, how could you possibly be missing me?" next thing, he's bored and would love my company. Oga, I am not an entertainer. There was no form of blackmailing he didn't try either to make me visit him or let him come to my place and all this was done in less than 48hours. From there I knew he wasn't as smart as I thought and he tried calling a lot at the wrong hours knowing full well I would be in class. Probably, that's his own way of trying to win my heart, but a distasteful one at that to me. No be person tell am say I no dey interested, he got the message.

lilianofentse:
Hello all,

So today I was chatting with an old friend and I was like, I don't really fancy relationships these days and he asked me why? because y'all aren't honest.
Seriously guys this days just want to have a taste of what's under your legs, and after that, they either start losing interest, zoom off, or ignore you till they're hornny, then they start sending messages of how they miss you, love you blablabla, calling you every evening hoping you could give them a visit. A visit to do what exactly?? Sometimes they think all girls are gullible.
So in all truth guys should up their game. If you want a fling tell her, instead of hiding under the guise of relationships and dispose of her when you're through with her.
Girls are emotional. and sometimes weak.
I know one of my male friends who can sleep with a girl now and won't even recall her name the next minute. Its sad though.
Modified :
Take a look at this thread so you can get a picture of what I mean
https://www.nairaland.com./5252550/300-level-uniben-student-commits?iorg_service_id_internal=1646953538912597%3BAfrXlcmGFe06XLSM#79460023

Guest007:


Amen

lefulefu:
tell ur friend not to close her heart cos very soon she is going to get a cool handsome lomantic man who will treat her like a queen and never leave her.i can see it clearly.no fukboy will come her way again

Guest007:

Amen