HIGHESTPOPORI:
Scary,how did u later find out ur gf had it?

She went to do some medical tests because she was about to travel abroad, the lab attendant was her friend. After giving her samples for the test, all of a sudden she changed her mind and collected the samples back, the lab attended out of curiosity hid some part of the sample and later tested it and found the reason for her reaction.
The attendant was her mutual friend and that of wife of my best friend which coincidentally it is through the couple I met her
So I found out through 4th hand by a stroke of luck. It was more of a miracle to me because maybe I wouldn't have left who knows might have even been infected.

Ferdinandu:

She went to do some medical tests because she was about to travel abroad, the lab attendant was her friend. After giving her samples for the test, all of a sudden she changed her mind and collected the samples back, the lab attended out of curiosity hid some part of the sample and later tested it and found the reason for her reaction.
The attendant was her mutual friend and that of wife of my best friend which coincidentally it is through the couple I met her
So I found out through 4th hand by a stroke of luck. It was more of a miracle to me because maybe I wouldn't have left who knows might have even been infected.

that lady is very wicked. Despite knowing her status she was having unprotected sex with you. Did you later tell her about it? Or what was your reactions

Ronaldo24682:
three weeks. And the next was the 6th week or thereabout. What about you.

Same 6th week.

[quote author=oluwadamilolah post=79478861] that lady is pvp if you are in that situation the relief that you are not infected was enough for me. I was dead for about 15hrs I heard that she was positive to the time I was able to get to the hospital to get tested. The fear was real within that time. It took me going back three times for test within a year to feel completely safe. During the time I was being counseled for the test before I was already planning how I was going to be living my life being positive.
It isn't right to trust anybody, someone said that it wasn't the sex workers that do transmit the disease because they are better informed and that is somehow true

Please don't commit suicide.
ARV is the drug for persons living with HIV and it is free. It will boost your immunity and lower your CD4 count and you will leave a normal life and can marry and have children that won't have it.
Please again don't commit suicide because with the drug it can be managed.

oluwadamilolah:
that lady is very wicked. Despite knowing her status she was having unprotected sex with you. Did you later tell her about it? Or what was your reactions

You've not seen anything yet. People can be so danm wicked

alutapastor:
Please don't commit suicide.
ARV is the drug for persons living with HIV and it is free. It will boost your immunity and lower your CD4 count and you will leave a normal life and can marry and have children that won't have it.
Please again don't commit suicide because with the drug it can be managed.

Point of correction sir.. ARVS boosts your CD 4 count and not otherwise

Talk to Jesus Christ inside your heart about this situation
He cares "Cast your burden upon the Lord Jesus Christ, for He really cares" {1 Peter 5:7}
seek for his mercy and grace {Hebrews 4:16}

Other human beings live with this status till old age, get married, give birth to Children who will become HIV negative and life goes on.

Register in any general hospital and start building up your life, life does not end in this situation.
Do not harm yourself.
Speak to a Priest/Pastor/Believer who is *sound in faith*

Encourage her to check her status, register in any hospital to build up her future and avoid *infecting more people* especially *your own loved ones who are close to her* and might want to *have intimacy with her*

May your heart be established in the *grace* that comes from Jesus Christ. Amen.

Great Grace

Karrma:

Same 6th week.

been trying to send you email it’s not going through. Prior to that did you go for any test

Goddys:
.you are pathetic. I'm talking about facts my gf who works in a lab told me. Stop all these stupid propaganda. Who is talking abt religion here. Didn't I advise he takes ARV while going for prayers.


People hate the truth in this life. Spits

U are an idiot, u should be banned for life on this forum for doing this shit to people, what is wrong with all these nincompoop... You are an idiot, I pray u get infected with HIV and u GI and die in church, if those useless prayers can heal u ,I'll gift u a million naira... U better stop this nonsense and stop making a mockery of peoples condition.

Hopeless goat!!!

**spits furiously** shame on you. Nonsense!!!

freethinker01:

Typical u cop out, I didn't say u should not use your drugs oo. Is it probability based? Y not open a centre that basically prays for HIV patients?
Fucking losers that thrives on gullibility and ignorance of their congregation.
I think you're the pathetic, terrible and despicable human here.

That guy is an idiot, his type should be killed!!! I hate hopeless fools that prey on people's vulnerability, that's the worse thing anyone can do!!! People die because of that nonsense and they think its okay to ride on... That's wicked.!!! Wicked!!!

KevinDein:

Bro what the fuccckk is wrong with you? Like everyone on this thread has told you HIV isn't the death sentence it used to be and that there are literally millions of people living with the virus yet you are saying you wanna end it tonight. HIV at the moment isn't any worse than hypertension. As a matter of fact I was in a particular health forum and more people feel they are better off with HIV than diabetes. The medications for treatment is available and hopefully in the not distant future a pill for permanent cure would be discovered. Until then, stay the fuckkkk alive.

Calm the fucckk down and don't do anything stupid.

Its easy to dish out this advice, pray not to be in that Guy's shoes, you will understand the despair and utter hopelessness he is facing!!! That HIV is about the worse thing that could happen to someone...
Are u aware at the moment he can't travel to some countries, and will have difficulties taking up most paid employments? Even finding a spouse is an uphill task as most people will run from him... This is someone whose life just changed like this, at an instance!!! Bro, it isn't easy, I can only imagine what he is going through!!!
I'll advice him to be strong, but to be true!!! If I was in his shoes, I ain't sure what I'll do!! I tell u...
I have a HIV strip test with me, in my ward drop... Any girl I have issue of burst condom with, or mistakenly did raw, my strip is always handy!!! This is terrible mehn!! I'll advice all guys to get that.

Vega100:

Its easy to dish out this advice, pray not to be in that Guy's shoes, you will understand the despair and utter hopelessness he is facing!!! That HIV is about the worse thing that could happen to someone...
Are u aware at the moment he can't travel to some countries, and will have difficulties taking up most paid employments? Even finding a spouse is an uphill task as most people will run from him... This is someone whose life just changed like this, at an instance!!! Bro, it isn't easy, I can only imagine what he is going through!!!
I'll advice him to be strong, but to be true!!! If I was in his shoes, I ain't sure what I'll do!! I tell u...
I have a HIV strip test with me, in my ward drop... Any girl I have issue of burst condom with, or mistakenly did raw, my strip is always handy!!! This is terrible mehn!! I'll advice all guys to get that.

Please, how can one get it? Can I buy it in the market?

desoul2004:


Please, how can one get it? Can I buy it in the market?

Go to any big pharmacy , it is sold there, and very cheap, like up to 10 strips, u could get for 1k5 or 2k... Also buy the buffer, u can ask them to teach u how to use it, and that's it .

Vega100:

Go to any big pharmacy , it is sold there, and very cheap, like up to 10 strips, u could get for 1k5 or 2k... Also buy the buffer, u can ask them to teach u how to use it, and that's it .

Which one is the buffer?

Vega100:

U are an idiot, u should be banned for life on this forum for doing this shit to people, what is wrong with all these nincompoop... You are an idiot, I pray u get infected with HIV and u GI and die in church, if those useless prayers can heal u ,I'll gift u a million naira... U better stop this nonsense and stop making a mockery of peoples condition.

Hopeless goat!!!

**spits furiously** shame on you. Nonsense!!!

You are the most ignorant and useless person on earth if the only side of life you consider pragmatic is physical. Id1ot like you, what do you know. F00l. When people that have experienced and traversed different aspects of life is speaking, a forsaken vagabond formed from a demented sperm will also be speaking. Anuofia. I'm not here to debate with an id1ot on what prayers can do

Goddys:


You are the most ignorant and useless person on earth if the only side of life you consider pragmatic is physical. Id1ot like you, what do you know. F00l. When people that have experienced and traversed different aspects of life is speaking, a forsaken vagabond formed from a demented sperm will also be speaking. Anuofia. I'm not here to debate with an id1ot on what prayers can do

So why not open a HIV clinic to heal people with prayers... Guy, people like you are nuisance to the earth. You should be killed!!! U have no use on earth.

Too bad. I'll advice u get her to take her meds and if possible marry. Na she give u, so u both can live lovely. P. S you both can have negative babies

negative babies??

Karrma:
I have been feeling sick ever since i had sex with my girlfriend, so i went for a test today only to find out she's infected me with HIV. This is someone i trusted with everything. I've learned my lesson the hard way. My life is ruined right now, I've cried my eyes out and suicide is the only thing coming to my mind now. I'm still alive because of the thought of my mother, butt I'm not sure i can hold on.

Please be careful with who you say you love.

This is pathetic. But be strong. HIV is no longer a death sentence but it can limit you in many ways. You can not reside in many countries because of it and getting a good employment with it can be difficult because of the discrimination.

One of my female friend has been living with it for over 10 years now and you wouldn't know she has it by looking at her.

Just take your medication regularly and you will be fine. And start taking the medication right away.

Vega100:

So why not open a HIV clinic to heal people with prayers... Guy, people like you are nuisance to the earth. You should be killed!!! U have no use on earth.

You do know it is possible to pass your message without swearing like a sailor, ba?

This thread should be an eye opener to all of us. Do not over trust ur partner to the point of having unprotected sex with him/her and if u must do skinto insist u both do a hiv test. Very imoportant oo. If a girl insist u must do skinto and if u insist make una do test and she say no then codedly run away from such gehl.hiv no dey show for for face and also do ur test.

Karrma:

You might be correct on things we are capable of holding in.
You know, i used to call those who commit suicide fools and cowards not until 2 weeks ago when i found myself in their shoes and saw life from a depressed angle.

Some are still there, the rashes are increasing.

The first result is convincing enough with the symptoms though.

Having read this far, i have to chip in my opinion. i understand how you feel, believe me, i seriously do.


have u heard about the word "hypochondria?"... this is a term used to refer to an imaginary sickness or illness. Just think about a particular illness and in no distant time the brain will send the required signal to the central nervous system and the symptoms will appear

Drug dispensers, pharmacists and medical experts have capitalised on this and reaped millions


I still maintain you run a confirmatory test like Czarina and other well meaning nairalanders opined. Be strong because this is not the end of the road for you. Don't even attempt suicide because its not an option, it will surely make matters worse


Think about the emotional and psychological pains your parents and loved ones will go through if you commit suicide! There is still hope for you!! The only problem without a solution is death

STAY STRONG! YOU SHALL OVERCOME!!


Cc Marialavina Ogb5 Cuteguy14911 Alutapastor Siraj Anthonyuncle Olamega78 Goddys Rex444 Czarina and other well meaning nairalanders who contributed immensely to boost the morale of our friend karrma, you guys are rare gems, i love you all and i wish you all the very best


KINGOSYTEX!!

Karrma:

You might do worse if you were in my shoes. You don't know what it feels like for someone who you thought you had a future with, tell you to go look for who infected you without remorse.
Guess it's the price i paid for being a faithful guy. For close to 3 years we dated we've only had sex 3 times(I'm not really a fan of it) and just one exposure changed my life.
Hell!! I don't even drink, smoke or womanize, at least i wouldn't be this pained if i was randy. Just an average Joe who got unlucky.

Fvcked that girl only 3 times in three years? Lolz.... You the man bro...
Within the three to four months I dated my ex, I fvcked my ex fourteen( 14) times bro, though we knew our status, so it was all raw...and quite adventurous.... But we done mehn! Sex is just overrated to me...

...

Karrma:
I might post her pictures here and other social media platforms so that guys will be careful with her since she has refused to go for a test and insisting she's clean.
She's not even remorseful saying i should go find who infected me.

Brother please do!!! Save other brothers please, you wouldn't want her to ruin other peoples life .

Vega100:

Its easy to dish out this advice, pray not to be in that Guy's shoes, you will understand the despair and utter hopelessness he is facing!!! That HIV is about the worse thing that could happen to someone...
Are u aware at the moment he can't travel to some countries, and will have difficulties taking up most paid employments? Even finding a spouse is an uphill task as most people will run from him... This is someone whose life just changed like this, at an instance!!! Bro, it isn't easy, I can only imagine what he is going through!!!
I'll advice him to be strong, but to be true!!! If I was in his shoes, I ain't sure what I'll do!! I tell u...
I have a HIV strip test with me, in my ward drop... Any girl I have issue of burst condom with, or mistakenly did raw, my strip is always handy!!! This is terrible mehn!! I'll advice all guys to get that.

You should use d strip first bro. Not wait until CD burst

Vega100:

Brother please do!!! Save other brothers please, you wouldn't want her to ruin other peoples life .

That would b privacy breach. Not cool

Bankalert:
I have had my own scare of HIV at a time, that shit is not worth doing it raw with any bitch! Now I would rather masturbate and relieve myself, than do it raw with any girl...

The scare is real. Definitely not worth going raw with any he-goat, I don't know y people won't listen. D test strips should b free sef

lefulefu:
how much is it to do a hiv test sef? its free in govt hospitals.when she was making excuses of not going for d test dats when u ought to have run away.its like she even knew her status b4 she infected u sef.

She certainly does bro!!! She knows her status, why are people this wicked Kai!!!

Karrma:
I might post her pictures here and other social media platforms so that guys will be careful with her since she has refused to go for a test and insisting she's clean.
She's not even remorseful saying i should go find who infected me.

Bro she is mean and heartless, such a callous person, she knowingly infected you bro!!! Such heartlessness!!!

Please, you should help to prevent others from falling prey.

Can I PM you, I'll help u disseminate her pictures if u can't.

AwkaetitiBabe:
You should use d strip first bro. Not wait until CD burst

Sure aunty I do!!

Vega100:

Bro she is mean and heartless, such a callous person, she knowingly infected you bro!!! Such heartlessness!!!

Please, you should help to prevent others from falling prey.

Can I PM you, I'll help u disseminate her pictures if u can't.

Save others really? You mean with what you've read already, you'll still dive unprotected with any girl?

You really deserve the virus.

Karrma, don't listen to that boy. Don't share any pictures, if they can't learn to keep their joysticks in check, that one come concern them.

If you think revealing her ID would make you feel better, then you're wrong. It wouldn't. And it wouldn't change anything for you.