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Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 1:59pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
I have been in a relationship with my lady for about three years and it was on the premise of getting married but recently her spiritual mentor said she should suspend the relationship and that I should go and pray and receive clear instruction from God that she is the lady I am meant to marry, this about crashing our years of being together. I need advise on the way forward. |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by zed7: 2:03pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Flee from such women. They will one day need pastors approval to determine the number of kids to have and the type of soup to cook. 10 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Your lady is one dull sheep.... I mean, how can a full grown girl allow a bloody goat called pastor manipulate her like a full grown idiot? If your lady approves of this bullshit, my brother, just let her go... I know it won't be easy for you but there shouldn't be any basket for rotten mango. 3 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by ITbomb(m): 2:19pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
One of the reasons I left a girl I would have married. It was obvious that the Pastor would have higher authority in my home. The divine design is God - Husband - Wife. If the Pastor has any message from God concerning my home, it should pass through me. If you as a wife doubt my spiritual authority then you made a mistake by being unequally yoke with me (an unbeliever, sic) 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by carter009(m): 2:20pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Run for your life!!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by CosmicPhoenix: 3:24pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
most nigerian women respect their pastors than their husbands.even if you marry her,she will still respect and obey the pastor more than you. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:03pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
I do not undsertand why people are not allowed to make their own mistakes, it is called a learning process, why would a pastor be the manipulative one here, pray on your own to have a personal conviction from God, not through a pastor. 3 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 6:29pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Thanks for the comment so far.... More inputs.... 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Dump the fool. Any lady with pastor and spiritual mentors is a weak fool. They may be fuking |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Heineken(m): 8:45pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Mallam and pastors things na rubbish. I don't like this kind of girl. If God no support una in the first place, una for no meet. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Tobesky1: 9:06pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
She may regret her stupid act in d nearest future. Most grls lack dis kind of right thinking faculty.U ought to hv screened her brain since.2 things that may likely happen in d future. (1) She will regret leaving you (2) She will regret obeying her pastor nd not using her brain to assess the situation by herself. Try nd sit her down.Talk sense into her.But if she bliv in her pastor than you.Just move on bro.Don't force it. Im sure she is yet to see some physical conviction. It's a matter of time. D secret is dat d more u try to keep them d more they try to escape. Keep ur door open nd see dem closing it. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by celeb4reallife(f): 9:33pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Sometimes, the pastor could be in love with the lady. They usually give bad advise in that scenario. 3 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:15pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Clergymen be meddling with couple's affair saying it's an inspiration from God 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 12:22am On Jun 22, 2019 |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 8:58am On Jun 22, 2019 |
More opinions on this issue..... |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by flexxyworld(m): 9:43am On Jun 22, 2019 |
Don't fight it Bro. . its a revealing process.. watch how your woman handles it, it will give you a clear indication of what you mean too her.. now is note taking time which will help you make ultimate decision that will give you ultimate peace of mind going forward. taink you |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by chinchonglee(m): 10:36am On Jun 22, 2019 |
Any lady that tries dis spiritual father nonsense wit me is already gone for good.. Spiritual father my foot. Oyibo dey invent aeroplane, cars, ac, fan, tv etc we dey invent spiritual fathers. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by passionate87(m): 1:58pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
Guy I had similar scenario last year,the relationship was just 3 months.she wanted me to meet her spiritual mentor which I bluntly refuse because it doesn't make sense to me.I told her the person I can see is her father not a so called mentor.The mentor told her that since I refuse to see him that I'm not the right person for her and I was so glad because I was already getting irritated with the mentor thing. We called the relationship a quit,as a sharp guy I moved on quickly,3-4months later she started pestering my life with several calls which I didn't pick her calls. I later pick her call and told her that I have moves on that she should do same,I later got married late last year.she is yet to marry(30years) as I'm talking to you. these so called mentors have done more harm than good,they are terrible control freaks that pry on innocent ladies,well their bad because they allow themselves to be deceived. Guy if she refuse move on no time at all. 7 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 2:08pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
wow..@passionate87 Such ladies seem to be confused about what they want 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
women wey dey under the strong control of their pastors run from them.na such women wen dem marry u their pastor go dey control una sex life. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:abegi wich inspiration from God.there are some of these pastors dem go dey lustfully eye d woman and wen d woman bring someone for dem to approve as their husband to be dem go come dey jealous and in other to spoil d relationship them go lie say God give dem vision dat their husband to be na evil person.half of women who u see around wey single na some of their pastors dey partly responsible for it.i pray say a pastor go come yarn me dat rubbish dat a girl wey i like dat God tell am for vision say she be witch.i will also reply d pastor dat God also tell me for vision dat no be im tell pastor dat yarnin. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
celeb4reallife:in lust not love biko 1 Like |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Liliyann(f): 2:28pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
She might actually be hiding something from you! Once happened to a brother in my church ![]() ![]() If they said you should go and pray, you berra do that and use your brain o!! No come here later! |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 2:45pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
You mean business o@ lefulefu This is one is strong o...@ liliyann |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
Dominionforlife:pastors who control their female members unnecessarily wen it comes to choosing a spouse might actually be having feelings for such a female member or there is a rich man the pastor might want the lady to marry and bring to his church. |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by millionboi2: 5:07pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
Liliyann:is it possible for a lady to have one breast? |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 9:24pm On Jun 22, 2019 |
More opinions please.. |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 2:55pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
millionboi2: It is possible |
Re: Relationship About Crashing by Dominionforlife: 9:57am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Please dont just view only, I need more suggestions from different dimensions... |
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