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Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Nobody: 11:15am On Jun 25, 2019 |
LewsTherin: well said bro. |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Bestboy11513(m): 11:22am On Jun 25, 2019 |
ImaIma1: We're talking about why young girls and grown women may be at risk of being raped, and ways that reduce their chances of getting raped, but you've decided to ignore facts and possible solutions, you're conceited you've resolved that there is no reason why a man rapes a woman. That's why you're still talking about when a 10 month old child is raped. Would a rapist rather defile a 10 month old child or a half dressed woman? If you ask me I'd say a great deal of the latter are being raped; hence the aforesaid solution is for them. It's true that there is no vindication for rape or rapist. Bottom line is take precaution, don't worry about the causes and reasons because there is no good reason or cause for sexual harassment, worry about preventive measures, protect yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by liberalchick(f): 12:33pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
lol where did I type that? bigmic111: |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
liberalchick: you remember this sentence "It has less to do with ‘indecent’ dressing or porn." it means rape isn't MAJORLY caused by indecent dressing or porn according to you. so therefore the inference from your statement is that it is a MINOR CAUSE OF IT. it still doesn't rule out indecent dressing. and a guy confirmed this on this topic with a diagram of the leading causes of rape and guess what, indecent dressing was top of the list! |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Fountainofyouth:When ladies dress decently it wouldn't stop rape, but it will help a bit to alleviate the problem of rape. If there are 100 cases of rape and you remove indecent dressing as a causal factor it might help reduce the numbers to 95 cases. The 5 ladies who weren't rape as result of enforcing decent dressing is still good news. Therefore indecent dressing is still a factor that must be considered to help reduce rape. But it shouldn't be the sole major factor that should be considered. If you are a lady and you dress anyhow because you believe your dressing shouldn't matter then you are partly to be blamed when you get raped. The keyword here is partly 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 4:04pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
I thank God there are those who are not afraid to speak out the truth on this matter. Rape was not as common in the 1970's, 1980's and even up to early 2000s as it is today. You can check the statistics and confirm that for y0urself. At those times, good dress etiquette were 0bserved and taught. Today, our society has been s0 negatively influenced by the warped fashion of the western societies and so we also suffer the high rape burden they suffer. We must tell ourselves the truth now before things become worse. It is even so bad that children are now rape victims! 2c177u 1 Like |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 4:16pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
And like I earlier said, indecent dressing is causing much more harm than rape. Do we ever emphasize the harm premarital and extramarital sex is causing our society? Isn't that a result 0f 3 out of 5 girls or ladies dressing as if they were prostitutes? Let us reorientate our people on the right manner of dressing. |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by valentinos22(m): 5:01pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: lame! lame exceptions are what you are trying to put up. luck{probability of not been raped} is more on the side of the female who dresses decently compared to the other. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by BlueAir: 5:05pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
ImaIma1:measures reduces occurence and impacts if it cannot avoid them 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by SIRTee15: 5:38pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
If indecent dressing is a cause or risk factor for rape.... Then why are small children a victim of Rape...a question none of the indecent dressing crusaders are yet to answer.... Middle East is a fiercely conservative society when it comes to women dressing.... Yet Arab men are notorious for raping their maids and even killing the victims.... Besides if u agree to pay the bride price of the victim, the court will let u go.... In India, most rape happen in rural regions where fashion exposure is minimal and dress sense is basic.... Yet their men rape women and hang the victims afterwards.... Even in church, where modesty is preached and emphasised.... Catholic fathers abuse boys and evangelical preachers are known to take advantage of vulnerable women.... The manner u guyz talk about provocative dressing, one would expect developed western nations to be the headquarters of Rape..... Yet most rape are perpuated in underdeveloped countries despite being under reported.... The only exception is sweden which was sane until they accepted massive refugees from 3rd world countries and boom the rape statistics went up.... Numerous studies has shown that Rape culture is entrenched and perpetuated in male dominated society where women lack the voice to speak.... The men determine what's best for their women including who's to blame for rape..... And of course in a patriarchal system, it will always be the women.... 1 Like |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by SIRTee15: 5:52pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
People still ranting on indecent dressing have simply got their heads buried in the sand... Or I may rightly assume they are male chauvinist with a mix of misogynist, who believe in the entrenchment of a male dominated society where voice of women are obliterated... So the men can continue to inflict misfortune on women and still turn around and blame the women.... In Nigeria.... It's the woman's fault if she's raped.... It's her fault if she's sexually assaulted at work... It's her fault for getting pregnant outside of marriage not minding it takes 2 to make a baby.... It's her fault if she fails to bear children for her husband... It's her fault if the husband engages in extramarital infidelity.... It's her fault if she's a victim of domestic abuse... It's her fault for a failed marriage n being a single mother.... It's her fault for having children she can't cater for.... It's the fault of a female student, if a randy lecturer demand for sex in exchange for grade.... It's always the woman's fault.... The men are never to be blamed for any ills in the society.... When it's a known fact that men build civilisation, not women....men build nations.... Ok, leave the stage and let women lead if u guys want the female folks take the blame..... Mba....The African man wants to be in charge, but doesn't want to take responsibility..... And we can see how well men are leading African nations.... Bunch of primitive men with backward thinking, blaming women for rape in the 21st century.... 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:57pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
SIRTee15: Thanks for this. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:02pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
valentinos22: Luck? Are you trying to say some decent and indecent dressers who are never raped are lucky? That means you're saying some indecent and decent dressers who gets raped are unlucky right? In othe words, what women wear or dont wear doesn't control the mind of rapists right? So how is my analogy, not exceptions lame? 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by bukatyne(f): 10:49pm On Jun 25, 2019 |
LewsTherin: |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 11:26am On Jun 27, 2019 |
Certainly the fellow wh0 says there is less rape in developed countries than underdeveloped ones doesn't have the right statistics. We have more reported cases of rape in developed countries than in underdeveloped ones. Is it not in the developed countries we have the ME TOO movement? Why would we have rape allegations against such great footballers like Ronaldo and Neymar, all in developed countries? How women queued up t0 accuse Trump 0f sexual harassment in America, the capital of developed nations? Indecent dressing doesn't help anybody, whether male or female, and whether they live in a developed or underdeveloped country! ba80000000 |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
ImaIma1: On the contrary i don't think anyone is advocating for rapist,giving reasons or justification. what the society is saying is don't facilitate been raped. since there is no means of detecting or stopping a prospective rapist before time ,we only suggest liable victims should take precaution not to fall prey becos not all men can control themselves after seein some flesh. All humans ,esp men no rape is bad, as a matter of fact a crime,so preaching stop is not enough, the world needs to creat more preventive measures in place.,one could av expected femimist groups to come up with these preventive measures buh all they fight for is money related 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Zoroaster: 1:45pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
What if i tell you i love raping women on suits? |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 2:13pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
The rape allegation against the COZA pastor has been trending this weekend and it is a very unfortunate scandal. I hate to hear these scandals about pastors having amorous sexual affairs with church members! While Satan is to blame, I see how we allow him come to steal,kill and destroy. So we act "over-spiritual" and don't care h0w people dress to the services, allowing daughters of Jezebel and sons of Belial to roam freely with all manner of skimpy and seductive dresses and make-up and then the flock get trapped, hooked and overtaken in immorality and social media is awash with scandals! If the pastor could fall, then how many times over the members have fallen! It is time to restore the decency, especially of dressing, that the church stands for. Enough is enough...this nonsense must st0p! Yes it must! |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by SIRTee15: 1:07pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
SIRTee15: I wrote this beautiful piece before the COZA scandal between bisola and pastor biodun came up..... It's a good thing my article validated itself by this glaring evidence that cannot be denied.... A pastor raped a naive 17 year old from a conservative Christian background.... A poor girl who just left secondary school and trying to find her feet in her own world..... The amazing thing is that bisola had elder sisters who are more into trending n liberal Christianity..... bisola even described their dressing and fashion sense too ungodly for her comfort.... The question is why didn't pastor fatoyinbo gun for those matured sisters..... The answer is simple...they are not vulnerable... Despite their liberal dressing styles and possibly liberal sexual attitude..... They wouldn't take nonsense from any man who dares take advantage of them.... It's their decision to have sex with whoever they please.... Pastor biodun the rapist knows this and that's why the elder sisters were off his track.... The vulnerable one is bisola who just left secondary school and still see life in black and white... She will later get to learn that there are plenty shades of colour n life is never black or white.... The rapist's prey is just like the lion hunting for spoil.... The weak, the naive, the vulnerable, those easily to manipulate, These are the ones they can exert their male dominance upon forcefully with minimal inconvenience...... The above is independent of provocative dressing or sexual behaviour of ladies....
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Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by kingxsamz(m): 1:53pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Try not to be ignorant sister. He said indecent dressing are one of the causes. He's not trying to justify rape here. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by kingxsamz(m): 2:00pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
LewsTherin:Thank you. They'll never see sense in what you posted. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Altern8(m): 3:40pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Rape is a crime the perpetrator decided to commit regardless of the dressing. No matter how seductively the victim may have dressed, she probably wouldn’t be as scantily dressed as any professional hôoker. Pay for sex if the urge is overwhelming. It is always for sale and never scarce in the flesh market. |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by ImaIma1(f): 3:42pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
kingxsamz: Try to calm down and read instead of jumping If you weren't ignorant, you would have seen that my comment was based on his post |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by souljar(m): 9:27pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
I am looking at this photo, as every one else is. I dunno where this was culled from, but the number1 on this list is short skirts. Doesn't it occur to fellows here that this constitutes indecent dressing? And the 'rapist' just another separate cause? Meaning an innocent urge can be aided by indecent dressing to become rape, whereas serial rapists exist, right? Why is there still that argument? Not to condone rape as people tend to hurriedly conclude, nor to change the topic, I find more twisted what drives female rapists.
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Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Adakintroy2: 10:04pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: SomeoNE may not be hungry, but if you bring out fried chicken with rich aroma, it may trigger hunger. It's called stimulus. I may not want to Bleep. But I may see a woman with transparent outfit, with flappy ass..all see through... and am awake. Why do you think the muslim cover women up totally. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 11:55am On Jul 08, 2019 |
Hmmm...our opinions will remain varied and diverse about this matter of indecent dressing causing or contributing to rape incidents. There definitly are those, mostly women, who will never see the correlation between the two. I will never justify the rapist but I will keep preaching that we must protect ourselves the best way we can. Do not see danger and wilfully expose yourself to it! In the end, the rapist will face his jail time and will someday be released but the victim will never have their virginity restored or may never put the trauma behind...Prevention is better than cure! |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 12:12pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
While you make a valid point about rapists exploiting the weak emotional and physical make up of some women, it does not cancel out indecent dressing triggering sex impulse which men may not be able to handle. Like the example you made of the Biodun DAKolo case, we need to notice that she answered the door in her night wear according to her account in the video interview. Most ladies night wear are transparent and see-through gowns. We cannot dismiss indecent dressing from this case. As a parent will you teach your daughters to answer the door in their night wears? |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Udemeeyenabasi: 12:26pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
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Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by ojuu4u(m): 12:30pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
bigmic111: 1 Like |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by bukatyne(f): 12:46pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
bigmic111: |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by bukatyne(f): 12:50pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I don't think the OP is justifying rape. If we would protect our treasures, why would we not guard our bodies? I bet that no sane person leaves money in his window or outside his/her door nor would anyone sleep with the doors open even in a secure estate. Are you saying that they are trying to justify stealing? Why would anyone want to dress indecently in the first place? 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dress May Put You At Risk Of Rape! by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
bukatyne: hello bukatyne |
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