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Re: I'm Doomed by ALCOHOLKILLS(m): 9:52am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

I'm in Lagos.

very well then. Trust me, You will be fine las las, i know you'll be shy to reveal your identity to me because you're scared of being exposed. Not to worry because i mean no harm, you can drop your mail address
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:06am On Jun 30, 2019
ALCOHOLKILLS:


very well then. Trust me, You will be fine las las, i know you'll be shy to reveal your identity to me because you're scared of being exposed. Not to worry because i mean no harm, you can drop your mail address
I'll send you a PM
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:08am On Jun 30, 2019
funmisticqueen:
it is quite possible that you were infected long before you had sex with your girlfriend. the thing about HIV is that it takes a long time to incubate i.e from the moment you are infected till when you start feeling illness takes minimum of three months till years.

something is not adding up. what's you and your girlfriend's sexual history like
Not true.
Maybe you should read up on HIV and ARS symptoms/seroconversion. I started feeling sick 4 weeks later and went for a test at the 6th week.
All throughout the time we dated (close to 3 years) we had sex on three occasions and she initiated all of them. It was on the 3rd occasion i got infected. I was too stupid to agree on having unprotected sex but after 2-3 minutes i came back to my senses and insisted on continuing with a condom but guess it was too late already.
Recently, i got to know that the guy who she stays with is not even related to her (she lied he's her brother).

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:10am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

Not true.
Maybe you should read up on HIV and ARS symptoms/seroconversion
maybe you should also look up what lentivirus is
Re: I'm Doomed by Kingosytex(m): 10:12am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

Thank you Sir.
I know about hypochondria but trust me it's not what you're talking about.


You are welcome!!

How are u? and how have u been faring?
Re: I'm Doomed by ALCOHOLKILLS(m): 10:13am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

I'll send you a PM

ok

i sent you a mail
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:15am On Jun 30, 2019
Kingosytex:


You are welcome!!
How are u? and how have u been faring?
I'm fine Sir Trying hard to pick up the remnants of my life.
Re: I'm Doomed by Kingosytex(m): 10:19am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:
I'm fine Sir Trying hard to pick up the remnants of my life.

There is no cause for alarm. Just keep calm, everything is gonna be fine.
I can assure you that.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:26am On Jun 30, 2019
Kingosytex:


There is no cause for alarm. Just keep calm, everything is gonna be fine.
I can assure you that.
Thank you.
Re: I'm Doomed by Kingosytex(m): 10:29am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:
Thank you.

Once again, you are welcome!
Re: I'm Doomed by Vega100: 10:47am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

Bless you Sir.
Not like i blame anybody but they don't know how it feels.
I'm not even bothered about marriage because it's the last thing i'm worried about, but how to push my family to a comfortable level and shiit just happened.
I get you bro, really sorry about that, and I hope God gives you the fortitude to bear this. However, u not being worried about Marriage is normal with your age, in say 7 to 10 years time, you definitely will, and it will become another source of concern, everything has its time just like you rightly pointed out, understandably you are more worried about the immeidtae complications that will follow...
So sorry about your travials, truly it isn't what I would wish on anyone at all... Not one bit.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

Not true.
Maybe you should read up on HIV and ARS symptoms/seroconversion. I started feeling sick 4 weeks later and went for a test at the 6th week.
All throughout the time we dated (close to 3 years) we had sex on three occasions and she initiated all of them. It was on the 3rd occasion i got infected. I was too stupid to agree on having unprotected sex but after 2-3 minutes i came back to my senses and insisted on continuing with a condom but guess it was too late already.
Recently, i got to know that the guy who she stays with is not even related to her (she lied he's her brother).
mine was just after three weeks. Then symptoms started showing. How are you feeling now bro. Do you feel better now. I am still stalling on starting treatment as I feel it might even make me sicker

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Re: I'm Doomed by Malaifia1993: 11:01am On Jun 30, 2019
oga you're dead already and nothing can stop it, you're doomed grin
I wish you happy death day and only one return
please,let us be sensitive with our comments.

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Re: I'm Doomed by ahahnow: 12:04pm On Jun 30, 2019
Ferdinandu:

She went to do some medical tests because she was about to travel abroad, the lab attendant was her friend. After giving her samples for the test, all of a sudden she changed her mind and collected the samples back, the lab attended out of curiosity hid some part of the sample and later tested it and found the reason for her reaction.
The attendant was her mutual friend and that of wife of my best friend which coincidentally it is through the couple I met her
So I found out through 4th hand by a stroke of luck. It was more of a miracle to me because maybe I wouldn't have left who knows might have even been infected.

Did she end up travelling
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jun 30, 2019
Ronaldo24682:
mine was just after three weeks. Then symptoms started showing. How are you feeling now bro. Do you feel better now. I am still stalling on starting treatment as I feel it might even make me sicker
I've not started.
Truth is, i can't see myself living on pills everyday without skipping, so i'm taking my time.
Re: I'm Doomed by ahahnow: 12:09pm On Jun 30, 2019
You should report your gf to the polive. It is a crime to keep such information from a sexual partner. It is a crime to infect someone knowing your status

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Re: I'm Doomed by Malaifia1993: 12:54pm On Jun 30, 2019
Karrma:

I've not started.
Truth is, i can't see myself living on pills everyday without skipping, so i'm taking my time.
karrma,is there any means I can contact you.This is my email realman4219@gmail.com.
Re: I'm Doomed by naijafox(m): 1:45am On Jul 01, 2019
desoul2004:
This guys story baffles me, for you to get infected only once you had unprotected sex, because I have seen men that had sex with positive ladies many times without contacting it. Even a Dr confirmed it that it's very difficult for a guy to easily contact it, unless you have some wounds around your private part.

It's is easy for a man to get it during sex especially when you ejaculate' inside a vagina

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Re: I'm Doomed by Reprobate: 8:47am On Jul 01, 2019
desoul2004:
This guys story baffles me, for you to get infected only once you had unprotected sex, because I have seen men that had sex with positive ladies many times without contacting it. Even a Dr confirmed it that it's very difficult for a guy to easily contact it, unless you have some wounds around your private part.

yeah, sheer bad luck I guess,
or he has a cut/wound on his dvck, 2ndly he was in raw for about 3mins...n then later wore condom...wearing condom might has trapped the virus inside his urethra

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Re: I'm Doomed by mayowa94: 9:41am On Jul 01, 2019
Karrma:

Not true.
Maybe you should read up on HIV and ARS symptoms/seroconversion. I started feeling sick 4 weeks later and went for a test at the 6th week.
All throughout the time we dated (close to 3 years) we had sex on three occasions and she initiated all of them. It was on the 3rd occasion i got infected. I was too stupid to agree on having unprotected sex but after 2-3 minutes i came back to my senses and insisted on continuing with a condom but guess it was too late already.
Recently, i got to know that the guy who she stays with is not even related to her (she lied he's her brother).
what are the symptoms that came along with the sickness?
Re: I'm Doomed by mayowa94: 9:42am On Jul 01, 2019
Ronaldo24682:
mine was just after three weeks. Then symptoms started showing. How are you feeling now bro. Do you feel better now. I am still stalling on starting treatment as I feel it might even make me sicker
what other symptoms apart from rashes?
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 01, 2019
Karrma:

Not true.
Maybe you should read up on HIV and ARS symptoms/seroconversion. I started feeling sick 4 weeks later and went for a test at the 6th week.
All throughout the time we dated (close to 3 years) we had sex on three occasions and she initiated all of them. It was on the 3rd occasion i got infected. I was too stupid to agree on having unprotected sex but after 2-3 minutes i came back to my senses and insisted on continuing with a condom but guess it was too late already.
Recently, i got to know that the guy who she stays with is not even related to her (she lied he's her brother).
.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 01, 2019
Hey what's up guys, how are we all doing?

Mehn for the first time in 2 months since I've started taking ARVS , I missed my dosage tonight and guess what? I was totally freaked out sad.

But not to worry, Amma continue tomorrow and try and run some few checkups. Ciao tongue

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Re: I'm Doomed by Bossjakande: 2:36pm On Jul 02, 2019
funmisticqueen:
maybe you should also look up what lentivirus is
funmilayo how far dear.
Re: I'm Doomed by llade(m): 2:58pm On Jul 02, 2019
I dont know why girls are too secretive and engage in unprotected sex when they know they are putting lives of hard working Nigerian guys in harms way. Except they were ignorant, the girls might know their status. I only want to introduce and advise on PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis) for guys who have unprotected intercourse and experience condom break. Just start PEP within 72 hours and complete the drug regimen in 28 days if you can. WHO recommends Truvada for PEP as standard regimen and a combination with a third drug as preferred regimen. Its very effective to stop transmission for risky exposures like the experiences highlighted here.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Deepfeel(m): 5:22pm On Jul 02, 2019
cry
Re: I'm Doomed by COOL10(m): 11:14pm On Jul 04, 2019
ThothHermes:
grin grin cheesy grin
Hilarious.

You no go ever near that brand abi grin grin grin
.


Lmao. Never ever grin
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jul 07, 2019
Vega100:

I get you bro, really sorry about that, and I hope God gives you the fortitude to bear this. However, u not being worried about Marriage is normal with your age, in say 7 to 10 years time, you definitely will, and it will become another source of concern, everything has its time just like you rightly pointed out, understandably you are more worried about the immeidtae complications that will follow...
So sorry about your travials, truly it isn't what I would wish on anyone at all... Not one bit.
I'm not actually bothered(and not sure I'll be) about the marriage stuff. I'm already an outcast so what's the point??
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 07, 2019
mayowa94:
what are the symptoms that came along with the sickness?
Go through my previous posts, you'll see them there.
The best is to get tested, do not rely on other people's symptoms.
Re: I'm Doomed by Vega100: 6:28am On Jul 08, 2019
Karrma:

Go through my previous posts, you'll see them there.

The best is to get tested, do not rely on other people's symptoms.
Have u exposed the bitch? What do u have to loose exposing that bitch that ruins your life? Na wa oh!!
Hope you know what she did is criminal? Knowingly infecting someone with that disease is criminal and liable to jail term
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jul 08, 2019
Vega100:

Have u exposed the bitch? What do u have to loose exposing that bitch that ruins your life? Na wa oh!!
Hope you know what she did is criminal? Knowingly infecting someone with that disease is criminal and liable to jail term
he has a lot to loose. So if your friend sees your girlfriends picture online that she infected someone with HIV won’t they know you might be the one. Coupled with the fact he already wrote a lot about himself on the thread. Even a dull person will be able to decipher the fact he’s the one. So you see? He has a lot to loose. And what does he stand to gain if he exposes her?
being positive I learnt a lot of people are but don’t know yet. The best thing thing is to abstain, masturbate, if you must then use condom( hopefully you don’t get unlucky like me). Exposing her doesn’t change anything or will that stop you from having raw sex with that your girl you think is virus free?.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Vega100: 10:46pm On Jul 08, 2019
Ronaldo24682:
he has a lot to loose. So if your friend sees your girlfriends picture online that she infected someone with HIV won’t they know you might be the one. Coupled with the fact he already wrote a lot about himself on the thread. Even a dull person will be able to decipher the fact he’s the one. So you see? He has a lot to loose. And what does he stand to gain if he exposes her?
being positive I learnt a lot of people are but don’t know yet. The best thing thing is to abstain, masturbate, if you must then use condom( hopefully you don’t get unlucky like me). Exposing her doesn’t change anything or will that stop you from having raw sex with that your girl you think is virus free?.
Sense no go kill u bro, very apt..
My brother, someone like me, I'm too emotionalky weak, if I contract that thing, na suicide will be NY next line, I know myself... I'm that weak!!! So I have to do all I can to prevent it.
As a matter of fact, any of my FWB I notice we have started having regular sex (despite us using CD) I ensure I run RVS test for them, anyone that refuses it, our sex automatically ceases!! That's my own little way of protecting my forth. I greet u bro, really pray, the good lord gives you the fortitude to go on... Welldone..

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